Thoughtful Thursday: Insight
This will be the last Thoughtful Thursday post as mentioned in this thread.
Insight is when we suddenly find a clear solution to a problem. In psychotherapy, it refers to the “awareness of underlying sources of emotional, cognitive, or behavioral responses and difficulties in oneself or another person.” (APA, n.d.) In this thread, I will be talking about insight in terms of awareness.
Insight levels can vary- not all of us are aware of our internal world to the same extent. For instance, a person might say they were unable to go out because of a last-minute change that annoyed them. Now, if this person had insight, they might consider the deeper cause of not wanting to go out, “I don't like how my feelings were not considered when a change like this was made” then go on to “this might be an assumption, and anyway, things like this happen sometimes, am I perhaps overreacting?”. This allows the individual to take a different approach to the situation and they may then be able to take more helpful behaviours- in this example, could be talking about it or going out anyway. So insight is a component in our thought processes that reflects in our emotions as well as behaviour.
Personality disorders tend to be marked by a lack of insight because most of them are largely ego-syntonic. Ego-syntonic is when behaviour or feelings are seen as consistent with beliefs and will. Ego-dystonic is when they’re seen as inconsistent. So if a person is perfectionistic and finds no problem with it, it is ego-syntonic. If a person lashes out at their partner and thinks that they overreacted, it is ego-dystonic. Hence, the focus here is on the beliefs and will where insight is possible.
Insight can be increased. Most forms of therapy tend to focus on eliciting insight, even if the content of the insight can vary, like unconscious forces (psychodynamic, psychoanalytic) or thought processes in relation to interpretations (CBT). Some try to take a passive approach by allowing the client to gain insight by themselves by providing a conducive environment (Client-Centred Therapy).
Insight can be increased by self as well. A lot of activities we do allow us to increase insight. Reading books, watching movies or shows, observing others, getting feedback, and so on. Anything can be a source of insight as long as we remain receptive to it by having an open mind. Unfortunately, we tend to have defences that sometimes keep us from accepting helpful information. Ex- “He thinks I am selfish? He is selfish, not me!” Instead, another approach could be “What might lead him to think I am selfish?” Here, information is not seen as an attack or taken personally. The aim is to understand and gain insight. Insight can be facilitated by journaling- writing down about the event and its occurrences sometime after the event and reflecting on it later.
Questions
Q1. What is a situation where your level of insight influenced how you responded?
Q2. Any other thoughts about the topic?
References
APA. (n.d.). APA Dictionary of Psychology. Dictionary.apa.org. https://dictionary.apa.org/insight
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Wow! This was really informational. I heard the term Ego-syntonic for the first time. It makes a lot of sense in the context of personality disorders. The one disorder I know where lack of insight is a prominent feature is Narcissistic Personality Disorder but I didn't know it was found in other Personality disorders as well. Well, thank you so much for this information. :)
Q1. What is a situation where your level of insight influenced how you responded?
Ans. It is not a particular situation and I don't know if it would perfectly fit this criteria but one time when I went through an end of a friendship, I reflected on what were the things that might have gone wrong from my side. I thought about my reactions to different situations, if there was anything particular that stands out or if there is any pattern and I made a mental note of it. I resolved to not let it repeat again in future.
Q2. Any other thoughts about the topic?
Ans. I absolutely love the topic of insight personally and this post was really informative. I read a quote somewhere that says, "True maturity is when we realize that we have some toxic traits too. It is not always the other person." And I totally stand by it and try to reflect on my behaviour time to time. Thank you for the post. :)
@HealerWithin Really glad you found the post helpful! and that's a lovely quote and approach :) Wishing you a wonderful day ahead!
@HealerWithin I really liked that quote you shared. Thank you.
I didn’t realize this series has ended. I hope you don’t mind if I answer the questions still. I don’t mind not getting a response! I just want to write the thoughts out.
I’ve had times where my awareness was high and I acted in a way I felt good about. Depending on the person’s awareness receiving it, sometimes what I share is helpful to them, and sometimes it actually complicates matters more. I am at a loss of what to do about that. I tell myself I can only do my best, whether that’s actually good or not.
I’ve also had times where my awareness was lower. I was aware of some things like feeling angry, causations, and inner thoughts, but my lack of awareness was in acting in a way that I felt good about after. In those instances I failed to treat someone like I’d want to be treated. I didn’t react to a difficult situation with kindness. Sometimes I do, and I feel the difference. I definitely feel better in those times when I don’t cater to my ego and feelings of injustice.