Narcissist husband

Hi! I’m just out of a relationship with a narcissist. He was dating, so far confirmed 7 women. He portrayed himself to be a disabled veteran, who was still working for the DoD. He is disabled but he was never ever in the military. 3 of us confronted him this past Monday night. We took back some things. The main thing is he got us for money or things. Such as a truck, trailers, vacations, concerts, repairs to truck, food, gas…. The list is endless.

All this to say, you don’t need his permission to be in an open marriage. Do it! Be happy! You have your proof and that is all the permission you need!

Once you do you, things will be right!

I don’t know about you, but I’m tired of my life being wasted on people such as your husband.

And, yes, I’min a very angry place.

I hate to say this but narcissists are not honest. Narcissists don’t change.

So I thought we were finally in a good place, and he promised to start his online cheating. I did everything to keep him happy and occupied, and he has been thoughtful and loving to me as well. Then I find yesterday morning that he placed a phone call to another woman that he’s been having an affair with, mostly online, for six years. I confronted him with it this morning and he said he just called her to tell her, he was OK and that he could not communicate with her anymore. Strange because six weeks ago he told her the same thing. He can’t seem to keep away from her. I told him then he needs to go and be with her, and he said he’s committed to me. I told him he can’t have it both ways and he said he was sorry he should never have called her. I don’t believe him and I am crushed he’s 73 years old, is he ever going to grow up?

I may he 24 but I once again live with a narcissist it's no fun just always have proof of there actions before confronting them if you choose to confront them