An Introduction
Hi everyone. My name is Nick, and I am from the UK. The main reason that I am here is down to depression, and a sense of self-loathing. My problems started in childhood and have been going on for a very long time. Recently, my mother was diagnosed with COPD, and cancer, and recently had a stroke, from which she has just come home from hospital. As well as caring for her, I also care for an uncle with dementia, and a mentally handicapped older brother. While this adds a lot of stress and pressure to my life, in some ways it helps me too, as right now I don't have enough time to hate myself, with everything else going on. I have been a member of 7cups for a few years, but only ever used it occasionally, but now I am hoping to use it daily, just for a few minutes, just for some "me time". I think that about covers it for now. Look forward to meeting you all soon, in the various chats, discussions and rooms on 7cups. Take care
@SpursFan72
Hello, so happy you'll be here more often! I'm sorry to hear about your depression, there are so many people here to support you, you are definitely not alone. It's wonderful that you are taking care of your family members that are struggling, that is so selfless of you! You are making a real contribution that you should be proud of.
Best of luck and take care as well!
@magneticShoulder3193 - Thank you magnetic. I am trying to be better
@SpursFan72
Hey friend, I am so sorry that your family is going through these difficult times! But I am so proud of you being holding up for them as a shoulder of hope and support! You are an ideal son and brother! Keep staying amazing and awesome like this and making your family proud of you and us as well for having an incredible new team member to 7Cups!!
Stay Strong!! Tough times don't last but tough people always do, friend!
Best wishes and hugs!
Thanks @gentleBraid2726. Much appreciated
@SpursFan72
Spurs ;
I am inviting you to join me in the Sharing Circle chat room ! 😊
@hounddog2021 - Thanks, I will see you in there soon :)
@SpursFan72
Hi there, hope you will benefit of your me time moments on here :)
Sending positive vibes to you and your family!
@Unwanted2022 - Thank you for the kind words
It's lovely to have you here on 7 cups, and a huge warm welcome! :) Taking that 'me time' is a great idea, and something which i hope you will find beneficial <3 Take lots of care and see you around the community!
@Liv125 - Thanks for the kindness, see you around the community
i can relate to some of what you've said. i have major depression and deal with self loathing too. my self esteem is extremely low, my health is poor right now just because i'm in process of moving, getting surgery in next few months, etc. i'm at a low point where i can become depressed more easily.
it sounds like what you're going through is exhausting. i used to care for my dad, he had schizophrenia and copd as well. he has since passed away but it was difficult taking care of him to say the least.
i hope 7cups helps you. it has helped me. and i hope to see you around!
oops, not sure why all that blank space. sorry about that
@fearlessWriter78 - Thanks for the comment. I am sorry you are going through all that too. I am sure 7cups will help, the people here (at least the ones I have interacted with) are absolute rocks, and have been helpful to me so far. See you around the forum