Lonely

🌷@independentTurtle1014

Hey there! You're not alone. I'm new here too. Glad you found this place. From what I can tell it seems very nice. I had an excellent discussion with a Listener yesterday. Really helped a lot. I hope you can enjoy having a good discussion with a Listener too. Sometimes it takes trying a few.

I sure know what you mean about the world changing. Our generation has had to go through so many changes. As kids, two channels on a tv, that was maybe black and white and a single phone on a wall, with rotary dial ... to now a days, screens everywhere, and everything that comes along with that. Some technology is good, for sure ... but it is a lot of change compared to the changes our great grandparents experienced in their lives for example.

Wishing you the best, and again, really glad you found this place ... I think you'll find it helpful. 🌷

@independentTurtle1014

I'm glad you found this place because I think it may help. I too struggle with loneliness and feeling like the odd one out. And like you you I've become more spiritual as I've gotten older and find this to be a comfort at times when I'm really struggling. Take care, and I hope you have a good day.

@independentTurtle1014, well I think we are in the same pond! Exhausted and stressed is how I live each day. I remember a different world as a child. Neighbors were friendly, everyone smiled and said hello, and schools were such a safe place. I work in a classroom and believe me, I am the odd duck right along with you!

I don’t know if they have “meet up” in your area but that’s a great way to start. They have all kinds of groups from hiking to music lovers to singles of all ages.

You can feel lonely even when you have a house full of people like I do. Our boys have come back home after being on their own for a while and are also trying to meet new people and foster new relationships. It’s not easy at any age and the pressure we all feel is real.

Daily Meditation is a huge help and I try to walk and swim at least 4-5 times a week. These help my body release anxiety which is my main issue. I also try to keep away from watching or reading the news every day, it seems as though it’s 99% negative and I know there’s a lot more positive stories in the world than what they report.

You're not alone, we’re all in this together.

Yeah the world right now makes connecting with others harder. You are not alone in feeling lonely and distressed. 7 Cups helps me to feel a little less lonely. I hope you find the same here.

All the best

Same

@independentTurtle1014

I've been feeling like the odd duck in the pond all my life so you are definitely not alone . Take care and sending good vibes your way.