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Hi, so I'm 35 ( in couple of months), female , I used to be a rather cheerful person, but since about 8 years my life has gone seriously downhill and for some reason just nothing seems to go right. It started off with my ex bf cheating on me. I got rid of him and moved back to my home country I since landed in couple of shitty jobs which I quit. I find the lots of changes in job, location and circumstances have literally exhausted me. The icing on the cake was at Christmas when my beloved dog died. It ripped the floor under my feet... I do struggle making new friends and without my pooch I have been feeling rather lonely. I do hope this year is the start of me getting better mentally, but also jobwise and maybe even lovewise. Hope that was enough introduction and love and peace to you all
In Similar situation . see if u can make friends, maybe volunteer locally. Theres meetup app. Hope u feel better soon
I think you should try doing things you like and since you like dogs get another one and try for focusing on yourself more ... also I do struggle with making friends but I do try online random chatting apps that help a lot with making online friends.
I am in a similar situation in relation to the cheating and moving back to my home country. It has been a traumatic experience and it is hard. You’re not alone. Try doing little things that you love and hope to spend time with people that have the same interests. You’ve got this!
Hoping things this year get better for you. I’m sorry to hear for your loss.
