Hello guys !
I'm new here. I've chosen to be a listener. I really want to help people.
That is so awesome, @DudeHope
Welcome to 7 Cups! I hope your listener experience is awesome. We're here to support and encourage you!
Hello @dudehope,
I’m new to this website not sure how it still works, but since I been here I been trying to reach out to listeners and still not sure how it works. I’m glad you are volunteering to be a listeners to listen to others if they need to. My only question is have you had the chance to talk to one on here? Because I’m just a little concern because I been trying to get a listener for me sometimes I feel bad like I need someone there, and well sure I do get some people but when they pop up they listen to me for a minute, and after a while they are gone you never hear from them again. Could it be that the ones I normally get are males and they just don’t want to talk to a female and they feel uncomfortable? Who knows? Or I just get listeners who are pretending to be your friends and they are really not there for you they just want to have other type of relationship which i don’t agree that is appropriate for this site. I thought that it’s a site were they are friendly and understanding people that really want to help you. Not just take advantage of you it’s making me feel so upset about this. If you don’t want to speak to someone just leave them alone and don’t reply but don’t waste people’s times and just answer and leave them hanging either. People here are in need of help and doing this at my eyes is totally unacceptable i really hope i can have a listener that is understanding and if it’s a male great if not than I will just looking. Sorry I just wanted to vent and I hope that you are not those type of listeners because trust me it’s really sad :(
@Lasweetbaby34 Hi, there. First I am sorry you have had some poor experiences with some of the listeners on this site - that's not what we want you to experience here at 7 Cups. Second, I am a female listener and I would be happy to chat with you. You can find my profile at: https://www.7cups.com/110728159
Finally, when you are browsing for listeners it is a good idea to look for listeners who are verified. You will see a large purple checkmark to the left of their name and also make sure they have more than just one or two good reviews. These are listeners who have taken the time to take some additional training. While it's not a guarantee, it is a sign that they have undergone more than the minimum required training and your experience with them should be good.
I hope you start to connect with some awesome listeners who give you the support and encouragement you deserve.
@DudeHope hello and welcome
@midwesterncalmseeker,
thank you so much I really appreciate your comment, I never knew that, but I will try to message you if I find your profile I’m still trying to get familiar with this website so I’m learning. Have a great day!