Whats life!
Well am in my 30s have children had 2 major relationships in my live both ended bad so failed. Now am at a time in my life were am thinking do I just settle to life as a single mum and do my best? Or do I try dateing again? Tbh the way am feeling I don't want another relationship but then again I miss adult company so bottom line is 35 to young or to old to just settle ???
@Grme18 I think adult company is massively important, but its not always about dating some of the best relationships start as friendships x
I understand what you mean. But giving up is really easy. And we aren't meant to be alone. Dating is really tough, but you can always make good friends
@Grme18
Hi there, I'm in my late thirties and have two children, I am also single so I can quite relate to your experience. I do not think there is a right age to settle: it is something that comes from within. People may still want a relationship at 70 or 80 for instance, and if that is what feels right for them, I'd say go for it! I'd say the same for you. If I were you, I would try to understand what I really need, what makes me happy. Connections in our life are important, but they do not have to be necessarily romantic. We can decide to spend some time on our own, and grown internally in a sense, have a deeper relationship with ourselves, date ourselves, ahve fun with friends. And one day, we may eventually desire to share all this with a special someone. Whatever it is, as long as it feels authentic to you, it is the right way.
Relationships can mean many things. Not all relationships have to be romantic
If you decide to settle—settle on yourself! Don’t settle on a future partner who is not right for you. I settled on my spouse (at age 22!) and am now 38 and probably going to initiate divorce so I can either enjoy being alone or find someone who is right for me and me right for him.