@Janna708 , let me be very honest with you - you cannot find both a "good therapist" and a "friend", because ultimately a therapist has to be unbiased, while a friend wouldn't be very good if he was always unbiased towards you. You may be able to find good therapists, you may be able to find good friends, but you cannot find both in the same package - and if you think otherwise, please notice that, by nature, those two categories are mutually exclusive, since there are things a therapist has to do that a friend never would, and vice-versa.