Is my spouse being disrespectful or mean in his reaction?
How would you interpret it if your spouse responded angrily after you declined a sexual advance, saying things like, 'You're my spouse, you should just give in,' and implying there's something wrong with you for not wanting to? Is this normal behavior, or is it crossing a line?
@Aayla
Thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it. I've been married for 13 years, and the past 5 years or so, seem to have put me in this realm with someone I don't know anymore. I keep telling him that he is not a very nice person to me anymore. I asked "Have I done something to provoke this?" But he never really answers this with an answer. It gets turned into, what sounds to be a selfish reason. We have two young children now. I have finished school. And somewhere in between all these changes. I think he resents me for not making him my first and last thought. And now I just feel more distant than ever 💔 I think it's a hole in our relationship and it's getting bigger, the more he verbally dismisses me and my feelings.Â