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KoonyumSun May 5th, 2023

Hi

I've recently come out of a relationship that involved a narcissist, its been 3 months and i've been doing no contact. When i left i felt so liberated and i'm now making the most out of life. I can't believe how unwell i was mentally and physically because of this one person, draining the life out of me. I lost who i was to the point that i hardly even remember the last three years that i was with him. Onwards and upwards from here. If anyone else has been in the same situation, i'd love to hear from you. Have a lovely day. ❤️

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sunnyWriting4806 May 6th, 2023

@KoonyumSun

Glad that you were able to escape from such a toxic relationship and find solace in your new life. Take charge and make the most of this newfound freedom you have to heal and recover. Thank you for sharing your encouraging story with us, hoping the best as time goes on.

loyalBanana8410 May 6th, 2023

Hi. I am in a narcissistic relationship since 5 years. And i just don't know how to get out. I love him..and consider myself powerless and helpless....like i just cannot exist without him.

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KoonyumSun OP May 6th, 2023

@loyalBanana8410

Hi there,


I saw your response to my message. If you want to talk about it with me i am happy to listen. I know that its hard to explain to people, because narcissists are so good are pretending to be the nice person that people dont always see behind their mask. I just want you to know that i believe you, and i know how hard it is to break free. Talkto me at anytime.



MellowMoonlight May 6th, 2023

That’s exactly what he has set you up to believe. It’s not factual tho. As hard as it is to believe you are not powerless or helpless. He just wants you to think that so you stay stuck in an endless cycle of his power over you. I understand it’s easier said than done, I hope you start being able to see that and step into your power that’s he’s kept hidden from you.

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DaisyDaph May 6th, 2023

@KoonyumSun

Hi there! Thank you for sharing your experience with us. You are such a strong and resilient person. I'm glad you were able to spot red flags and come out of out the disruptive relationship. Yes, it is indeed onward and upward from here.

If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to reach out to me! 😊

Take care. 🌸

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KoonyumSun OP May 6th, 2023

@DaisyDaph

thanks so much daisy,


I have had some therapy and now im working on alot of self care and mindfull ness. Im in a great place, i have never felt so free before. Thankyou so much for your help. I hope that i am now able to help other people who were in the same situation as me


you're so sweet. Thankyou so much


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Reaper17 May 6th, 2023

@KoonyumSun i think you re smart and kinda amazing to identify their toxic traits and have the guts to leave not many people can do it so know that you re not someone who can be easily manipulated which is a good quality to have

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KoonyumSun OP May 6th, 2023

Thanks reaper ! I didn’t see it at first - it took 3 years . Then I couldn’t not see it . I haven’t definitely learnt from that experience . Thanks for being so nice .

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