Relationship Stress
Hello,
I’m feeling extremely overwhelmed and stress in my relationship with my boyfriend. These past two months we have been having more arguments than ever. We haven’t move in together yet, and I feel extreme pressure by him to do so. We haven’t been together for very long. I gave him a timeframe of when I will be able to move in and reassure him of our future, and yet he doesn’t believe me. He picks unnecessary fights to vent his frustration out at me. Every time he does this, I feel more mentally drained and my anxiety gets worse over time.
I already have a lot of things going on in my life: taking care of my mom, going to school and working long hours. Life is already stressful enough. I don’t know how much more I can endure from his anger. I’m about to have mental breakdown because of him. I want to make things work with him, however I feel resentment towards him for being pushy and inconsiderate of my feelings. I feel like everything is my fault and like I’m the bad guy. He is a good man and I love him. I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m thinking if I move in with him real soon, will he stop venting his anger out at me?
I apologize if I’m ranting, but I have no one else to talk to about this 😞