Recently Dumped

Hello Everyone,

Its a pleasure to meet everyone in advance. Well, as you see from the title I was recently dumped and kicked to the curb a couple of days after my birthday. I’m a female that (by societal standards) lack sexual experience for my age group (millennial). My ex recently broke up with me because I didn't perform a sex act the way he wanted me to. Mind you, we’ve had sex plenty of other times and he barely complained (well he would complain if the position seemed awkward on my end)

He told me he still loves me but I had to go because I couldn't satisfy him. He said he can no longer be patient with my inexperience because I guess he thought I was wasting his time. I told him I hope he finds someone to satisfy him but he said I was “playing the victim” which I don't know how I would be.

This incident has left me feeling confused, ugly, and defeated. Any viewpoints or clarity would help. Thanks so much.