How a broken woman falls in love

When a woman actually falls in love, it takes time. Especially those woman who once had traumatic past. Just because you are chasing her doesn't mean she will fall in love with you. She will sit alone and think of her wounds. She might be so engaged with her work yet she will spend time observing you ,introspecting whether you are worth fighting for. To fall in love with a woman like her is to understand that to reach her heart, you have to climb the highest walls around her heart, to walk on the thorns and sometimes you might even drown in the waters of her emotional tears. Trust me ,she is fed up of lovebombing. She is fed up of continuous messages, words of appreciation, expensive gifts and your attraction. You cant earn her trust by showing your love like in disney movies or any other movies, shows or even books. As she grows up, she realise that trust is an expensive thing that needs to be earned.There might be amazing guys out there or people of her choice, yet when she truly loves you, nothing will stop her thinking of you. She might fail in expressing how she feels about you, but trust me, it takes time. She has to go through all her traumas, reopening her past wounds and might even go through a spiral of emotions. She might be surrounded with heartbreaks, and trust me, she might be pessimistic of yours too. Her heart is so delicate that has been stomped by the wrong souls in her life and sometimes she may act so distant and withdrawn to protect her heart from crushing. Even if you show your greatest love towards her, she still needs time to sew her scars in her heart because once she opens her heart again, you shall never question her love. The moment you set your foot on her heart, as she opens the door for you, you would see that behind her giganamous walls, are the set of treacherous obstacles that might make your feet bleed. Sometimes she might be withdrawn , too sensitive, sometimes angry, sometimes little smile or worse stays silent. For a sailor to reach the other side of the land, it takes a courage heart to maneuver the vessel to aim for what he truly wants . Once you reach her delicate heart after years and years of walking through her obstacles, trust me, that's when you truly earn her trust. She would have lots of love to give but trust me , with a little essence of observing you from afar. Just because she finally opens her soul doesn't mean she would stop prioritising from further hurt. Even when she falls in love with you gradually, like a water slowly absorbing though the intricate depths of soil, she would have also started arranging the thread and needle to sew her future scars because of what if. When she falls in love, she doesn't just falls. Her eyes are now well clear with all the tears that rejuvenates her eyes. She either rises in your love or rises to find herself with more self love .

That's how I fall in love