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User Profile: lavenderCranberry3121
lavenderCranberry3121 October 11th, 2023

20something year high school reunion coming up. 


I'll never attend though.


I'm single, no kids, no friends, nothing really going on in my life. I'm still the loser..I never grew up to be a winner...like most of my former classmates are...



I was bullied all through school anyways...for being different,  a lonely loser who didn't have friends, who nobody really spoke to... who was invisible to everyone, who stayed by herself, who was quiet and barely said anything,  who was never befriended,  who has never been picked ..genuinely...only picked by people who used me and tossed me away like trash...etc...



I'm still that person in adult form...



I'm such a loser

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User Profile: ChristinaLin
ChristinaLin October 11th, 2023

@lavenderCranberry3121 I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way, but it's essential to remember that your worth isn't determined by your relationship status or past experiences. People change and grow at their own pace, and success is a highly subjective concept. You are not a loser. You are unique, and your journey is different from your former classmates. Consider seeking support from a therapist who can help you address these feelings and work on building self-confidence. Surround yourself with people who appreciate you for who you are. Your value isn't defined by the past but by your potential for growth and happiness in the future.🥰