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affectionateCat9553 April 7th, 2022
I haven't been able to connect with a listener. Has anyone else had this problem? I've been on this site for about a month or so now. Its frustrating that I haven't been able to use that service and I really need it.
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Dalladi April 7th, 2022

@affectionateCat9553

👋

How’s it going?

Reading your post I sense that you’re upset because you haven’t been able to utilize the site as you hope.

As someone who has experienced this I can agree it’s challenging and want to mention that you reached out and that’s awesome sauce, because it means that you’ve gone beyond trying to deal with things completely on your own and are open to receiving more good.

Using websites, living life and accessing services nowadays may feel more scary then ever. Is there something you’ve tried before that worked to alleviate any distressing situations; allowing the dust to settle so you could then broach the situation and day with as much resilience and resourcefulness as possible for your own sanity? Perhaps it’s some self care of some kind that you recall.

RarelyCharlie April 7th, 2022

@affectionateCat9553 What goes wrong when you try to connect with a listener? For example, if you go to the Browse Listeners page and click the first Chat Now button, what happens? If you can explain exactly what goes wrong, then I am certain it can be fixed.

To check whether your account is working, I sent you a message. Try replying, so that we can be sure the chat system is working for you.

Charlie

intellectualFan2851 April 7th, 2022

@affectionateCat9553

Same, cat...sometimes im in the queue over 30min and no one helps...
lately that has been what I experience. Im not semi-banned, I hope?
Hope you get to find a listener soon!

LovelyPlace4774 April 7th, 2022

@affectionateCat9553

This has happened to me before. I think it's because there might not be enough listeners at the time I'm trying to talk to someone. I will chat with noni, though, because that helps me work through things, too.

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RarelyCharlie April 7th, 2022

@LovelyPlace4774 Do you mean, if you go to the Browse Listeners page there is no listener with a Chat Now button?

Charlie

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LovelyPlace4774 April 7th, 2022

@RarelyCharlie

There is that button. I mean, sometimes there aren't listeners available to respond and the queue, or time to wait, is long.

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RarelyCharlie April 7th, 2022

@LovelyPlace4774 Ah yes, I see what you mean. If no one is responding to the queue, or the time to wait is very long, then it is best to find a Chat Now button.

Charlie

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