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Attention All 35+! Join your 24/7 Group Chat today!
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 September 30th
...See more Hello community, We are excited to announce that we are opening 35+ group chat as an exclusive 24/7 chat group, just for those of us who are 35 and over w.e.f Monday, April 22, 2024. This is a space to connect with others in your age group, share experiences, have meaningful conversations, and build a supportive community to encourage and empower each other. To ensure this group remains a safe space for everyone, the chat will be badge-locked. This means only users who have their age as 35 or over will be able to access the group chat.  Here's what makes this group special: * 24/7 access: Keep the conversation flowing, day or night! * Exclusive community: This group is badge-locked, ensuring only users 35 and over can join, fostering a space tailored to your life stage. * In-depth discussions: Dive into meaningful conversations on topics you care about. A few group chat guidelines to keep in mind: * Respectful Communication: Let's all treat each other with kindness and courtesy. * Positive Vibes: We encourage uplifting and engaging conversations. * Life Experiences: Share your wisdom, stories, and support. * Open-mindedness: Be receptive to different perspectives. * No Spam: Let's keep the chat focused and respectful. Let’s join and participate. Please spread the word to your 35+ friends and invite them to participate with you in the group chat for some supportive & meaningful conversations. 
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Weekly Prompt #1: What are some unexpected challenges and triumphs you've encountered in your 30s and beyond?
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 July 26th
...See more Welcome to 35+ Community,  As we navigate through our 30s and beyond, life presents us with unexpected challenges and triumphs that shape our experiences and perceptions and define who we are. These years bring a unique set of experiences and test our resilience, patience and push us out of our comfort zones, and ultimately lead to personal growth. Let's explore and share some of the surprising obstacles and victories that many of us encounter during this stage of life. Question of the week: What are some unexpected challenges and triumphs you've encountered in your 30s and beyond? Please share and discuss together. Also, you can join us in 35+ group support chats [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mmdmeXyUkeJO45VriIjD] for live discussions and exploration as well.  Click here to join! [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mmdmeXyUkeJO45VriIjD]
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Oath
by lovepeacefaith
Last post
 December 3rd
...See more Listener Oath I pledge a moral oath before my fellow active listeners, making them my witnesses, that I will fulfil to the best of my ability and judgment this covenant and undertaking. I must first do no harm. I will promote healing and well-being in my members and place the members interests above my own at all times. I will not violate the physical boundaries of the client and will always provide a safe and trusting haven for healing. I will respect the integrity of the members with whom I am working, and I will remain objective in my relationships with members. I will be silent and honor the confidentiality of my members. I will treat my fellow listeners with honor and respect. I recognize that my behavior impacts them individually and influences the entire community. I will provide only those services for which I have had the appropriate training and experience and will keep my technical competency at the highest level in order to uphold best listening practices. I will recognize when I don't know something, asking for help when I need it. I will know my own abilities and limitations. I commit to growing in knowledge, understanding, and skill, to work collaboratively with listeners and other colleagues in the health professions, and to promote the highest quality of member care. I will keep this promise as a person of integrity and as an active listener, and I will do everything in my power to facilitate health, healing, and wholeness within myself, my fellow listeners, members and my world 0Reply caringEnergy4258 [https://www.7cups.com/@caringEnergy4258] 6 seconds ago @GlenM Listener Oath I pledge a moral oath before my fellow active listeners, making them my witnesses, that I will fulfil to the best of my ability and judgment this covenant and undertaking. I must first do no harm. I will promote healing and well-being in my members and place the members interests above my own at all times. I will not violate the physical boundaries of the client and will always provide a safe and trusting haven for healing. I will respect the integrity of the members with whom I am working, and I will remain objective in my relationships with members. I will be silent and honor the confidentiality of my members. I will treat my fellow listeners with honor and respect. I recognize that my behavior impacts them individually and influences the entire community. I will provide only those services for which I have had the appropriate training and experience and will keep my technical competency at the highest level in order to uphold best listening practices. I will recognize when I don't know something, asking for help when I need it. I will know my own abilities and limitations. I commit to growing in knowledge, understanding, and skill, to work collaboratively with listeners and other colleagues in the health professions, and to promote the highest quality of member care. I will keep this promise as a person of integrity and as an active listener, and I will do everything in my power to facilitate health, healing, and wholeness within myself, my fellow listeners, members and my world.
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Toxic In Laws
by trinivarga
Last post
 June 25th
...See more Just need to get it out....this is the place
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Hold space for.
by InternalGame2020
Last post
 August 8th, 2023
...See more How is everyone? Do you need any help? Love to be there for you 😁 have a good day 😊
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Check-in week of July 9th
by purplelady568
Last post
 August 8th, 2023
...See more Hi, my favorite 35+ people! How's it going for you today? I really hope that you are doing well! Here's a silly check-in question for this week: What super power would you like to have? And how would you use it? Look for my answer in the comments :) Have a wonderful week, everybody! Let's encourage each other along life's journey. Interested in joining the 35+ Team? Please read this post for more details [https://www.7cups.com/forum/35OverCommunity_166/35CommunityCheckIns_1118/HelpWanted35subcommunityneedsYou_295082/] Got feedback? Want to share ideas with us? https://forms.gle/A3VySXAgsUrji2rJ6 [https://forms.gle/A3VySXAgsUrji2rJ6] Tagging all the 35+ friends: @amtrev0411 @Backwardsintime@Justaplummer32 @EmmaBell1 @ConnectionSeeker @patientCamp3455 @mayarwen @missycourteney @littleAcai7002 @INFJAquarian @Albcamus @h4rmonthomas @Oceanwaves37 @Purplerain420 @reservedcup8473 @Rjolicoe @55trees @Skye62218 @Willow2022 @Lionofzion23 @Tara108 @PoofBallKitten @Thoughtpear1852 @Mwj2jy409 @warnheartedSquare6597 @CocoaCassie @Jomaabi @passionateHuman5527 @agreeableVase4392 @diamondjewels01 @BlueWaters48 @Emotyheart19 @greenhuman6564 @Ladywriter90 @ivoryDrum2962 @TheDoctorWho @reevee @123whereis4 @wittyCranberry2123 @diplomaticBunny13 @reservedPomegranate3501 @RelicCube @1ladyincognito @1stargaze @admaiorasemper @affableSailboat8982 @affectionateCherry7576 @AffyAvo @AgaetisByrjun @Akikko @AkJassz @AliCatSk8 @Amaru20rip @Amaruq @ambitiousOcean2022 @amiablePeace77 @amiablePenguin4177 @amiableTurtle9543 @amusingCranberry1537 @ananxiousgirl @Andreawa @ang16 @Ang333 @Angeliqueb @ANGLEBUDDYS @Antares127 @anupriya9609 @aquaPear1898 @aquaPlum5951 @asmaaabuelnaga24 @auberg1ne @AuroraTaranen @Ayla31 @Azalia1109 @badash91 @Bama2388 @BeHereAlways @being2human @Beingforyou151220 @Belle418 @BellRinger @BeretGreen @berry1900 @berryfields2409 @bestMaple2045 @bestwillow23 @Bishbosh @BlackOwl75 @blissfulBubbles7353 @BlueDime49 @blueoblivion96 @bluesaturngirl @Blynng @bottomofthelist @boyoflight @brightDime4924 @BuggyBoo @butterfly @callmefriend @Caregiver38 @caringPanda45 @cate1129 @cdnbassjunkie @CestLeTea @CharmingOcean5929 @charmingWriting88 @Chiara81 @ChrisChrisChris1968 @Clayton76 @CleverLittleFox @Clio9876 @clj1982 @communicativeCat4541 @communicativePerson8185 @compassionateCar7091 @Confidentlove86 @conscientiousNest615 @convivialTiger5098 @coolvibes @cotalisa @courageousPomegranate766 @crimsonApple7067 @crystalcleardawn76 @CuriousHeron @cyanhoneybee10301 @Dahlie2 @Dallady @DanaMH @Danc632 @dapperTortoise38 @David312 @ddreamingirl @deafterp777 @deea097 @Derekfan7695 @devonrex @djphil @DogNut0614 @Dogsaregreat44 @dreamtooloud @dtanushree @DustJacket @Dutch81 @Earthy55 @easycranberry9762 @easyMoon77 @ellamenopee @emotionalTown2627 @EnaW @EnduringPatience @energeticEast4268 @EnergeticPine @enthusiasticTortoise6681 @Equinox56 @essdee @EternalOcean4384 @Euphoriclows @everybodywangchungtonight @Everythingisbetterinyourpyjamas @EvieNightingale @exquisitePeace7976 @exTenebrisJohn @faithfulZebra8723 @fantasticCloud32 @Favor2020 @FearlessGrapes4086 @FenInTheBackground @FenrirWolf @FerlinCletus @firefly2021 @fishie01 @FlowerLily @FlowerLily23 @friendlyChestnut4964 @FriendlySats77 @funnyHuman9103 @funnyOwl2072 @ga999 @gentleSoul8525 @GentleUnicorn21 @GentleWaterfall7 @GettingBack2Mi @gigantWillow93 @givememylifeback @glowingApricot84 @Goldencity8792 @goldenHouse7136 @goldenZebra2085 @grace1973 @GryffindorMuggleBorn @GuardianAngel77 @GustyOne4U @Happytime24 @HearTheRhythm @HelloKiwi4868 @helloLemon7606 @HerculesMadison @Here083 @hereischiko @Hibiscussinensis @Hippysoul @honestHemlock476 @HopeN @Hotaru419 @Hummingbird0684 @humorousNest8793 @iambravetoday @imaginativePear6493 @impartialMaple6736 @intelligentblossom86 @intelligentTangerine6796 @Invisibleslave @Irishrose78 @ivory1978 @Iziada84 @Jaeteuk @Jen115 @Jessicca78 @Jewelmoon17 @Jjams @Jonesbebe @Jscott123 @justanothersteve @justmeasme @K87 @kayiiiil @Keola @kihten @Kindriver86 @Kite0219 @kittensNpuppies @KittyCat15 @klemen @Knute @kohinoor15 @kyperla @lacrimamaris @ladylazarus1971 @Ladylove79 @Ladyofthesea458 @Laurabutler25 @Lauren63 @LemonSaint @lightPeach1400 @lilmango @lilme @limegreenCircle961 @Linda1213 @ListenerHope @Littlemisschatterbox @LlamaGlama @Lonea @Lorinha @Lostsoul0241 @LostSoul352018 @LoveYaGOD @lovingOak919 @LPyMP @lsvt @LunaHecate @LunaPond16 @LunarRhythms @LunasCares @Mamabird1416 @maple23 @Maple3700 @MarchoMugwort @MarianneKay @MariaTheWanderer @marshMallow13 @mcsj007 @meghira @Mimimaru @Mirface @MissPen @MistyMagic @modestCar1598 @momofseven @monicaec @moronen @MsPetra @munkehh @MusicNut @muskoka @mutter3 @NachoHoneyOrigami @naturalTenna @NatureRocks @NeonBunny5008 @neonPomegranate3485 @neonSea4184 @Nic @NikkiCar @Noname1214 @Noonenowhere44 @oliveCar4161 @oliveTortoise7148 @onedirection1213 @originalscreenname @pandameamaiduncornlover @paulkent @Pcnutta @peacefulBubbles40 @peacefulfireworks49 @peacefulforest63 @Peacefuloasis47 @peacefulWriting36 @PeachySunrise2020 @Pedinurse2 @personalbonsai @PetiteSouris @PFord79 @Phoenix84 @Pickingupthepieces13 @placidSail5913 @placidTree3403 @plumBeechwood7549 @plumFig3360 @pocatoes @podzilla @poeticlandmermaid86 @polerina @PoliteOcean @Power14 @PowerfulBeing43 @prefrontalcortex @proactiveTiger3409 @Probius @proudPeace77 @pvroom @queenintrovert @QuetiapineQueen @quickwittedWater4848 @quietCloud22 @quinbee @RadiantRavan3522 @RadioactiveBookworm @Raedah @Ragnoroke92 @Rainbow747 @RainbowLike @rainbowstar55 @Randall72 @raspberryTangerine6846 @RebeccaGrace44 @Rebekahwriter13 @redClementine2000 @RedHawk6547 @repen13 @reservedCamp637 @reservedexcitement @reservedOwl7609 @resourcefully532 @resourcefulPond1641 @RhineStarr @Rhymingpoet @Ringirl @rockedbottom36 @Rose135 @Rosemebe @royalHeart61 @sadglow @SailingFox @scarletLand3247 @scarletMoon961 @scc80 @scenicwindow @schroedingerscat22 @Seeker1898 @selfappointedcranberriesnhollies @selfdisciplinedClementine9735 @selfdisciplinedStrawberry7379 @Selma2021 @sensitiveBunny2212 @sensitiveShade5337 @sensitivetree7096 @sereneEnergy63 @SerenitysFire @shiningShell43 @shuala11 @shyCamp8499 @Silence266 @sjb77 @SkolSuper1976 @sociableBike1680 @sociablelime0072 @sociablePine3030 @SolitSoul @SoulfulSoulshine123 @specialRecipe4576 @SpenserBooth56 @Stillhere @straightforwardNickel8761 @Strawberrymitts101 @Stressedout76 @taciturn83 @taushah1023 @tealShip8148 @teanerd010306 @teawithNath @Temi7 @Texgal0869 @Teykay @Thetigerladi @Thewayofimagination @Thisisthemoon @Tiggergirl @Tjmors @toughPark4392 @tranquilUnicorns6009 @trulyblessed1111 @twinklestar888 @tzd71862 @unassumingTalker4720 @uncertain070 @uniqueRose1689 @Valeriek @vanialayl @versatileMoon1124 @Viserrose @WalrusSound @wannabekiwi @Want2StayHappy @Wanttosmile @warmheartedBlackberry592 @warmheartedland1142 @Willhiem @WorthyStruggle @Wrehn @Wyndsong @xTreadingWaterx @Yaya @yellowPenguin8917 @zahraa @ZoraAurora
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mid-week check-in 6/22/23
by purplelady568
Last post
 July 22nd, 2023
...See more Helloooo, lovely 35+ people! How are you all doing today? I hope you all are doing well. Welcome to a mid-week check-in! I know that sometimes we might get stuck in the same routine, or might be feeling down about ourselves. Sometimes it is helpful to look back and celebrate the little things. Question – What have you accomplished recently? Please share it with us! It doesn’t have to be anything big; it can be a daily accomplishment. For instance, I got out of bed 3 days in a row! Or, I brushed my teeth today. Or, I did not yell at anyone today, or I laughed today. However, if something big hash appened in your life lately, like a new job or a milestone, you are welcome to share that, too! Look for my answer in the comments. Have a wonderful week, everybody! Interested in joining the 35+ Team? Please read this post for more details [https://www.7cups.com/forum/35OverCommunity_166/35CommunityCheckIns_1118/HelpWanted35subcommunityneedsYou_295082/] Got feedback? Want to share ideas with us? https://forms.gle/A3VySXAgsUrji2rJ6 [https://forms.gle/A3VySXAgsUrji2rJ6] Tagging all the 35+ friends: @PoofBallKitten @Thoughtpear1852 @Mwj2jy409 @warnheartedSquare6597 @CocoaCassie @Jomaabi @passionateHuman5527 @agreeableVase4392 @diamondjewels01 @BlueWaters48 @Emotyheart19 @greenhuman6564 @Ladywriter90 @ivoryDrum2962 @TheDoctorWho @reevee @123whereis4 @wittyCranberry2123 @diplomaticBunny13 @reservedPomegranate3501 @RelicCube @1ladyincognito @1stargaze @admaiorasemper @affableSailboat8982 @affectionateCherry7576 @AffyAvo @AgaetisByrjun @Akikko @AkJassz @AliCatSk8 @Amaru20rip @Amaruq @ambitiousOcean2022 @amiablePeace77 @amiablePenguin4177 @amiableTurtle9543 @amusingCranberry1537 @ananxiousgirl @Andreawa @ang16 @Ang333 @Angeliqueb @ANGLEBUDDYS @Antares127 @anupriya9609 @aquaPear1898 @aquaPlum5951 @asmaaabuelnaga24 @auberg1ne @AuroraTaranen @Ayla31 @Azalia1109 @badash91 @Bama2388 @BeHereAlways @being2human @Beingforyou151220 @Belle418 @BellRinger @BeretGreen @berry1900 @berryfields2409 @bestMaple2045 @bestwillow23 @Bishbosh @BlackOwl75 @blissfulBubbles7353 @BlueDime49 @blueoblivion96 @bluesaturngirl @Blynng @bottomofthelist @boyoflight @brightDime4924 @BuggyBoo @butterfly @callmefriend @Caregiver38 @caringPanda45 @cate1129 @cdnbassjunkie @CestLeTea @CharmingOcean5929 @charmingWriting88 @Chiara81 @ChrisChrisChris1968 @Clayton76 @CleverLittleFox @Clio9876 @clj1982 @communicativeCat4541 @communicativePerson8185 @compassionateCar7091 @Confidentlove86 @conscientiousNest615 @convivialTiger5098 @coolvibes @cotalisa @courageousPomegranate766 @crimsonApple7067 @crystalcleardawn76 @CuriousHeron @cyanhoneybee10301 @Dahlie2 @Dallady @DanaMH @Danc632 @dapperTortoise38 @David312 @ddreamingirl @deafterp777 @deea097 @Derekfan7695 @devonrex @djphil @DogNut0614 @Dogsaregreat44 @dreamtooloud @dtanushree @DustJacket @Dutch81 @Earthy55 @easycranberry9762 @easyMoon77 @ellamenopee @emotionalTown2627 @EnaW @EnduringPatience @energeticEast4268 @EnergeticPine @enthusiasticTortoise6681 @Equinox56 @essdee @EternalOcean4384 @Euphoriclows @everybodywangchungtonight @Everythingisbetterinyourpyjamas @EvieNightingale @exquisitePeace7976 @exTenebrisJohn @faithfulZebra8723 @fantasticCloud32 @Favor2020 @FearlessGrapes4086 @FenInTheBackground @FenrirWolf @FerlinCletus @firefly2021 @fishie01 @FlowerLily @FlowerLily23 @friendlyChestnut4964 @FriendlySats77 @funnyHuman9103 @funnyOwl2072 @ga999 @gentleSoul8525 @GentleUnicorn21 @GentleWaterfall7 @GettingBack2Mi @gigantWillow93 @givememylifeback @glowingApricot84 @Goldencity8792 @goldenHouse7136 @goldenZebra2085 @grace1973 @GryffindorMuggleBorn @GuardianAngel77 @GustyOne4U @Happytime24 @HearTheRhythm @HelloKiwi4868 @helloLemon7606 @HerculesMadison @Here083 @hereischiko @Hibiscussinensis @Hippysoul @honestHemlock476 @HopeN @Hotaru419 @Hummingbird0684 @humorousNest8793 @iambravetoday @imaginativePear6493 @impartialMaple6736 @intelligentblossom86 @intelligentTangerine6796 @Invisibleslave @Irishrose78 @ivory1978 @Iziada84 @Jaeteuk @Jen115 @Jessicca78 @Jewelmoon17 @Jjams @Jonesbebe @Jscott123 @justanothersteve @justmeasme @K87 @kayiiiil @Keola @kihten @Kindriver86 @Kite0219 @kittensNpuppies @KittyCat15 @klemen @Knute @kohinoor15 @kyperla @lacrimamaris @ladylazarus1971 @Ladylove79 @Ladyofthesea458 @Laurabutler25 @Lauren63 @LemonSaint @lightPeach1400 @lilmango @lilme @limegreenCircle961 @Linda1213 @ListenerHope @Littlemisschatterbox @LlamaGlama @Lonea @Lorinha @Lostsoul0241 @LostSoul352018 @LoveYaGOD @lovingOak919 @LPyMP @lsvt @LunaHecate @LunaPond16 @LunarRhythms @LunasCares @Mamabird1416 @maple23 @Maple3700 @MarchoMugwort @MarianneKay @MariaTheWanderer @marshMallow13 @mcsj007 @meghira @Mimimaru @Mirface @MissPen @MistyMagic @modestCar1598 @momofseven @monicaec @moronen @MsPetra @munkehh @MusicNut @muskoka @mutter3 @NachoHoneyOrigami @naturalTenna @NatureRocks @NeonBunny5008 @neonPomegranate3485 @neonSea4184 @Nic @NikkiCar @Noname1214 @Noonenowhere44 @oliveCar4161 @oliveTortoise7148 @onedirection1213 @originalscreenname @pandameamaiduncornlover @paulkent @Pcnutta @peacefulBubbles40 @peacefulfireworks49 @peacefulforest63 @Peacefuloasis47 @peacefulWriting36 @PeachySunrise2020 @Pedinurse2 @personalbonsai @PetiteSouris @PFord79 @Phoenix84 @Pickingupthepieces13 @placidSail5913 @placidTree3403 @plumBeechwood7549 @plumFig3360 @pocatoes @podzilla @poeticlandmermaid86 @polerina @PoliteOcean @Power14 @PowerfulBeing43 @prefrontalcortex @proactiveTiger3409 @Probius @proudPeace77 @pvroom @queenintrovert @QuetiapineQueen @quickwittedWater4848 @quietCloud22 @quinbee @RadiantRavan3522 @RadioactiveBookworm @Raedah @Ragnoroke92 @Rainbow747 @RainbowLike @rainbowstar55 @Randall72 @raspberryTangerine6846 @RebeccaGrace44 @Rebekahwriter13 @redClementine2000 @RedHawk6547 @repen13 @reservedCamp637 @reservedexcitement @reservedOwl7609 @resourcefully532 @resourcefulPond1641 @RhineStarr @Rhymingpoet @Ringirl @rockedbottom36 @Rose135 @Rosemebe @royalHeart61 @sadglow @SailingFox @scarletLand3247 @scarletMoon961 @scc80 @scenicwindow @schroedingerscat22 @Seeker1898 @selfappointedcranberriesnhollies @selfdisciplinedClementine9735 @selfdisciplinedStrawberry7379 @Selma2021 @sensitiveBunny2212 @sensitiveShade5337 @sensitivetree7096 @sereneEnergy63 @SerenitysFire @shiningShell43 @shuala11 @shyCamp8499 @Silence266 @sjb77 @SkolSuper1976 @sociableBike1680 @sociablelime0072 @sociablePine3030 @SolitSoul @SoulfulSoulshine123 @specialRecipe4576 @SpenserBooth56 @Stillhere @straightforwardNickel8761 @Strawberrymitts101 @Stressedout76 @taciturn83 @taushah1023 @tealShip8148 @teanerd010306 @teawithNath @Temi7 @Texgal0869 @Teykay @Thetigerladi @Thewayofimagination @Thisisthemoon @Tiggergirl @Tjmors @toughPark4392 @tranquilUnicorns6009 @trulyblessed1111 @twinklestar888 @tzd71862 @unassumingTalker4720 @uncertain070 @uniqueRose1689 @Valeriek @vanialayl @versatileMoon1124 @Viserrose @WalrusSound @wannabekiwi @Want2StayHappy @Wanttosmile @warmheartedBlackberry592 @warmheartedland1142 @Willhiem @WorthyStruggle @Wrehn @Wyndsong @xTreadingWaterx @Yaya @yellowPenguin8917 @zahraa @ZoraAurora @understandingMeow @willingPerson3237 @energeticMoon2761
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35+ Check-in, week of July 3-8, 2023
by purplelady568
Last post
 July 16th, 2023
...See more Hi there, lovely 35+ people! Welcome to JULY! Can you believe that this year is already halfway over? Wow. This week includes Canada Day, America's Independence Day, and Compliment Your Mirror Day! [https://nationaldaycalendar.com/national-compliment-your-mirror-day-july-3/] Question of the week: Are you celebrating anything this month? What's new with you? Please share with us what's going on, or what you are looking forward to! If you don't have any big milestones that you can think of, maybe you can celebrate that the year is half over, and you are surviving. We want to celebrate with you, whatever it is, even if it is something like getting out of bed 3 mornings in a row! Here are some more ideas: Have a wonderful week, everybody! Let's encourage each other along life's journey. Interested in joining the 35+ Team? Please read this post for more details [https://www.7cups.com/forum/35OverCommunity_166/35CommunityCheckIns_1118/HelpWanted35subcommunityneedsYou_295082/] Got feedback? Want to share ideas with us? https://forms.gle/A3VySXAgsUrji2rJ6 [https://forms.gle/A3VySXAgsUrji2rJ6] Tagging all the 35+ friends: @amtrev0411 @Backwardsintime@Justaplummer32 @EmmaBell1 @ConnectionSeeker @patientCamp3455 @mayarwen @missycourteney @littleAcai7002 @INFJAquarian @Albcamus @h4rmonthomas @Oceanwaves37 @Purplerain420 @reservedcup8473 @Rjolicoe @55trees @Skye62218 @Willow2022 @Lionofzion23 @Tara108 @PoofBallKitten @Thoughtpear1852 @Mwj2jy409 @warnheartedSquare6597 @CocoaCassie @Jomaabi @passionateHuman5527 @agreeableVase4392 @diamondjewels01 @BlueWaters48 @Emotyheart19 @greenhuman6564 @Ladywriter90 @ivoryDrum2962 @TheDoctorWho @reevee @123whereis4 @wittyCranberry2123 @diplomaticBunny13 @reservedPomegranate3501 @RelicCube @1ladyincognito @1stargaze @admaiorasemper @affableSailboat8982 @affectionateCherry7576 @AffyAvo @AgaetisByrjun @Akikko @AkJassz @AliCatSk8 @Amaru20rip @Amaruq @ambitiousOcean2022 @amiablePeace77 @amiablePenguin4177 @amiableTurtle9543 @amusingCranberry1537 @ananxiousgirl @Andreawa @ang16 @Ang333 @Angeliqueb @ANGLEBUDDYS @Antares127 @anupriya9609 @aquaPear1898 @aquaPlum5951 @asmaaabuelnaga24 @auberg1ne @AuroraTaranen @Ayla31 @Azalia1109 @badash91 @Bama2388 @BeHereAlways @being2human @Beingforyou151220 @Belle418 @BellRinger @BeretGreen @berry1900 @berryfields2409 @bestMaple2045 @bestwillow23 @Bishbosh @BlackOwl75 @blissfulBubbles7353 @BlueDime49 @blueoblivion96 @bluesaturngirl @Blynng @bottomofthelist @boyoflight @brightDime4924 @BuggyBoo @butterfly @callmefriend @Caregiver38 @caringPanda45 @cate1129 @cdnbassjunkie @CestLeTea @CharmingOcean5929 @charmingWriting88 @Chiara81 @ChrisChrisChris1968 @Clayton76 @CleverLittleFox @Clio9876 @clj1982 @communicativeCat4541 @communicativePerson8185 @compassionateCar7091 @Confidentlove86 @conscientiousNest615 @convivialTiger5098 @coolvibes @cotalisa @courageousPomegranate766 @crimsonApple7067 @crystalcleardawn76 @CuriousHeron @cyanhoneybee10301 @Dahlie2 @Dallady @DanaMH @Danc632 @dapperTortoise38 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check in
by compassionateCar7091
Last post
 June 23rd, 2023
...See more I'm feeling good tonight about myself, i have a new beginning everyday to start something new and to be a blessing to someone else.
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Check-in week of May 29 2023
by purplelady568
Last post
 June 22nd, 2023
...See more Hey there, 35+ people! Here's our weekly check-in post. How are you all doing today? I hope you are doing well. This time of year is often a popular time for graduations and end-of-school-year celebrations. Because of that, many people are often looking back at what they’ve accomplished so far, at where they’ve come from, and thinking about their goals and plans for the future. There is a song called “Dear Younger Me [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-l70C3ePyIQ]” (you can listen to it here [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-l70C3ePyIQ] if you’d like) that talks about what you might say to your younger self, in hindsight, knowing everything that you know now, but didn't know yet, back then. It has some powerful reminders in the lyrics, like “It’s not your fault”, and “my pain should have never been my worth”. I’m sure we have all learned some valuable, important, and possibly difficult life lessons along our life journeys…. Question - If you could go back to when you were younger, what age would you choose, and what would you tell yourself? Look for my answer in the comments. Have a hope-filled week, everybody! Interested in joining the 35+ Team? Please read this post for more details [https://www.7cups.com/forum/35OverCommunity_166/35CommunityCheckIns_1118/HelpWanted35subcommunityneedsYou_295082/] Got feedback? Want to share ideas with us? https://forms.gle/A3VySXAgsUrji2rJ6 [https://forms.gle/A3VySXAgsUrji2rJ6] Tagging all the 35+ friends: @DJ @ThisWayUp78 @soulhealer4 @KatYafromBrazil @Mondays8080 @SuryanshSingh @HelpingOthersLikeMe @brightTree8634 @mcagle @wonderfulFriend @drMK96 @Stellarrose @bamboochan @kbriggd @PoofBallKitten @Thoughtpear1852 @Mwj2jy409 @warnheartedSquare6597 @CocoaCassie @Jomaabi @passionateHuman5527 @agreeableVase4392 @diamondjewels01 @BlueWaters48 @Emotyheart19 @greenhuman6564 @Ladywriter90 @ivoryDrum2962 @TheDoctorWho @reevee @123whereis4 @wittyCranberry2123 @diplomaticBunny13 @reservedPomegranate3501 @RelicCube @1ladyincognito @1stargaze @admaiorasemper @affableSailboat8982 @affectionateCherry7576 @AffyAvo @AgaetisByrjun @Akikko @AkJassz @AliCatSk8 @Amaru20rip @Amaruq @ambitiousOcean2022 @amiablePeace77 @amiablePenguin4177 @amiableTurtle9543 @amusingCranberry1537 @ananxiousgirl @Andreawa @ang16 @Ang333 @Angeliqueb @ANGLEBUDDYS @Antares127 @anupriya9609 @aquaPear1898 @aquaPlum5951 @asmaaabuelnaga24 @auberg1ne @AuroraTaranen @Ayla31 @Azalia1109 @badash91 @Bama2388 @BeHereAlways @being2human @Beingforyou151220 @Belle418 @BellRinger @BeretGreen @berry1900 @berryfields2409 @bestMaple2045 @bestwillow23 @Bishbosh @BlackOwl75 @blissfulBubbles7353 @BlueDime49 @blueoblivion96 @bluesaturngirl @Blynng @bottomofthelist @boyoflight @brightDime4924 @BuggyBoo @butterfly @callmefriend @calmmoon2104 @Caregiver38 @caringPanda45 @cate1129 @cdnbassjunkie @CestLeTea @CharmingOcean5929 @charmingWriting88 @Chiara81 @ChrisChrisChris1968 @Clayton76 @CleverLittleFox @Clio9876 @clj1982 @communicativeCat4541 @communicativePerson8185 @compassionateCar7091 @Confidentlove86 @conscientiousNest615 @convivialTiger5098 @coolvibes @cotalisa @courageousPomegranate766 @crimsonApple7067 @crystalcleardawn76 @CuriousHeron @cyanhoneybee10301 @Dahlie2 @Dallady @DanaMH @Danc632 @dapperTortoise38 @David312 @ddreamingirl @deafterp777 @deea097 @Derekfan7695 @devonrex @djphil 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Grief
by orangeTriangle4803
Last post
 June 20th, 2023
...See more Missing my mother. She passed many years a go but I still feel it sometimes like she was just here. Life is so strange not having parent around as get older. Like you both miss the good part where you can communicate as adults and not just as a kid to a parent. Just feeling sad about it today. 😞
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Hey ,it's been a good week, hbu ?
by Vjayhyderabad28
Last post
 June 19th, 2023
...See more Hey 👋
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Grief
by sensitiveHuman5455
Last post
 June 17th, 2023
...See more I miss my Dad.
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Hi everyone
by PrisKay2023
Last post
 June 13th, 2023
...See more Greetings to you all

Welcome to the 35 and over community!  Our aim is to provide an inviting space for those of us who are over 35 to find like-minded people, discuss our concerns, and reminisce over a cup of tea  :)   


(Adults), Join us in the Thirty-Five & Over Room every Wednesday! 

Would you like to be added to the Tag List?  Please reply to this thread Here

Our ever-growing support team are here to help you with any questions, so feel free to send us a message :)  Interested in joining the team?  Please PM 7cups.com/@MistyMagic

Please respect others' opinions, even if we strongly disagree. There is no right or wrong answer here. Please avoid conflict or arguments. 

Thank you!

Community Guidelines

The following are the guidelines which are specific to the 35 & Over Community. We ask you to follow them, as well as the Forum Guidelines. Their purpose is to ensure a safe and supportive environment for everyone.

The main goal of this sub-community is to offer support and a space to share and socialize, for the 7 Cups users who are 35 years old, or older. After reaching a certain age, people have specific life concerns that might not be shared by people who don't have as much life experience.
However, age isn't a requirement to participate in our sub-community.

All Adults are welcome!


However, please understand that teens as young as 13 years old can access these forums, so please keep topics appropriate.

So please:
- Reach out for support from your member account
- Offer support as a member or listener
- Be respectful to everyone
- Add a trigger warning  [TW] if your topic needs it
- Take care of yourself
- Take care of others
- Have fun!


 

For more detailed information about how to behave in the forums and in 7 Cups in general:

Community Guidelines
Member Reputation
Listener Reputation

 

Read the 7 Cups Guidelines
Community Resources

Welcome to the 35 and over community!  Our aim is to provide an inviting space for those of us who are over 35 to find like-minded people, discuss our concerns, and reminisce over a cup of tea  :)   


(Adults), Join us in the Thirty-Five & Over Room every Wednesday! 

Would you like to be added to the Tag List?  Please reply to this thread Here

Our ever-growing support team are here to help you with any questions, so feel free to send us a message :)  Interested in joining the team?  Please PM 7cups.com/@MistyMagic

Please respect others' opinions, even if we strongly disagree. There is no right or wrong answer here. Please avoid conflict or arguments. 

Thank you!