i need help
i am bisexual and in a relationship with a girl
¡ love her but there is one big issue i have homophobic parents and i know they will never accept me
i want to know what i can do to overcome that problem and not feel any self hate because of that
i dont ever want to lose my parents even tho they are homophobic
and i dont want to lose my partner at the same time
thinking about losing parents gives me anxiety and stress and also hyperventilation
i am always stressed and i cry every day thinking i should break up with my partner but i love her i can't do that to her and i know that she is very worried about me and want me to be happy
but with this life i am just not happy
@helensargsian
I'm so sorry for you. If you told your parents what could happen....? And if they don't support you, are they really good parents then? You have to think about what Makes you most happy. Is it to hide who you truly are? Or to tell the truth.
i am afraid that i can't do that
i am very attached to my parents and sadly if i say that i'm bi they wont ever accept it and don't love me no more
thats why it is hard for me
bur thank you for the support ❤️ i really really really appropriate it and yes i dont like hiding my true self and that's why i want to understand what i can do in this situation
@helensargsian I'm so sorry for you. You really shouldn't have to hide who you are. I support you and I'm pansexual myself. Luckily I have my parents support. I really wished everyone could just accept everyone.
@helensargsian I'm sorry sweetie 😢 that's not a nice situation to be put in. But you can only be you, and you should feel proud of who you are. Unfortunately it's the risk of looking parents, but really how long, and how many times can you pretend to be someone your not just for them?. Be proud, be bold be you ❤