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katemarieeex3 April 28th

i’m not much of a talker. i can barely make conversation with people and that’s always been an issue in all my relationships. sure i can bring up things from time to time but i can never keep a convo going or have “deep talks”. i overthink a lot and definitely talk to myself throughout the day but when it comes to talking to other people i can’t bring up a topic. is there an underlying issue with me or am i just boring?

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Keineahnung123 April 28th

@katemarieeex3 I feel kinda the same. I struggle to find topics to talk about too especially with strangers. and if we talk im not good at keeping the conversation going. so i think i often come off as not interested, which isnt the case, im just weird. i guess its partly just because im introverted and insecure. but i also often think im boring cause i dont have much hobbies to talk about for example.

But i guess its also because not everyone clicks with everyone and thats okay. Also not everyone has to be a huge talker and be super extroverted, eventhough i wish my social skills were a bit better and i would be better at keeping up conversations