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feeling lost
20 & Over Community / by Keineahnung123
Last post
 September 13th
...See more im feeing so lost in every part of life. i dont know what i want or who i am. im 24, and ik thats normal to some extend. But others struggle with that from time to time but have some hobbies or jobs or a nice family that helps them. but i feel like this all the time. i question myself and feel insecure for everything i do.  How do i get out of that? how do i know what i want (at least a direction, also in little things) and then how to do things? i feel like i missed out in some life lessons others got. i have no idea how things work, like socally or jobwise etc. i hate that im like this and i know that doing nothing is mostly worse then triyling and maybe failing, but i wouldnt even know what i wanna try. i just dont know what to do.... Maybe someone can relate??
I wish to be transparent.
20 & Over Community / by Keineahnung123
Last post
 June 6th
...See more I am insecure for everything that i am and everything that i do (or dont do). I hate the feeling that people watch me and judge me. even if the intentions arent bad. everyone constantly watches others and judges them conciously or unconciously. and then i hear them talking about others.. and even if they dont talk i can feel that many are judging in their head.  And i know that in theory pthers opinions doesnt matter and i should concentrate on myself. But i cant. i could do that if i knew what i wand and am goning my way. But im just figuring myself out and am so insecure doing so. i feel like im doing little things wrong or weird ( or dont do anything which is even weirder) and i dont want anyone seeing me doning that. I hate the feeling of doing something wrong. I kinda which i could do things alone in quiet without anyone noticing, and some day presenting myself wiht someting i have achived, saying (st least a little) conifident, thats what i do and what i am. I know thats an utopia and thats not gonna happen. But in some ways i figured out how to not drive to much attentionon mayself and be a little bit more invisible to many people.  I know i probably should get out of this cycle and make it possible to move forward, but i kinda dont want that. in some way i want to stay in my comfort zone forever, being invisible and not doning anything.
struggling to make decisions
20 & Over Community / by Keineahnung123
Last post
 May 3rd
...See more How do peolpe know how to make descisions? How do people know what they want, and if they are doing the right thing (or not and change their way) and if they are doing it right?  I feel like i dont know who i am, what i want and mostly what do do (in general but also the little) things) im always wondeing if it maks sense what im donig or if im just weird. Is what im currently doing even what i wanna do? idk, but i wouldnt know what id wanna do instead. How are people confident with what they do and what goals they are trying to achive?  Does anoyone can relate? Or anyone that felt like this? If it got better what changed, what helped you?
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