I wish to be transparent.
I am insecure for everything that i am and everything that i do (or dont do). I hate the feeling that people watch me and judge me. even if the intentions arent bad. everyone constantly watches others and judges them conciously or unconciously. and then i hear them talking about others.. and even if they dont talk i can feel that many are judging in their head.
And i know that in theory pthers opinions doesnt matter and i should concentrate on myself. But i cant. i could do that if i knew what i wand and am goning my way. But im just figuring myself out and am so insecure doing so. i feel like im doing little things wrong or weird ( or dont do anything which is even weirder) and i dont want anyone seeing me doning that. I hate the feeling of doing something wrong. I kinda which i could do things alone in quiet without anyone noticing, and some day presenting myself wiht someting i have achived, saying (st least a little) conifident, thats what i do and what i am. I know thats an utopia and thats not gonna happen. But in some ways i figured out how to not drive to much attentionon mayself and be a little bit more invisible to many people.
I know i probably should get out of this cycle and make it possible to move forward, but i kinda dont want that. in some way i want to stay in my comfort zone forever, being invisible and not doning anything.