I will be 30 soon and I feel lost 😭😭

@enthusiasticPenguin6756

Hey there. I can definitely hear how hard things are for you right now. Its hard to feel like theres no direction in our life. Would you like to share what you do for work?

@enthusiasticPenguin6756

30 is still young ...... you have lots of possibilities ......

.life often shows you a different path.... people throw themselves into a career that later they find awful ... but they worked so hard to pursue

I feel too many put way too much stock in by achieving something by this age or that .........

now imagine the other end of spectrum..... someone who has all the item you think they should and life throws in a turn ......... marriages end and careers can take a different turn ........ those people are lost

I'm in my mid-30s now, but when I was about to turn 30, I think I felt the same way as you are now feeling. I couldn't see what my future holds, without a stable career or a relationship, let alone, marriage. I am still a bit lost now, but I'm actively making changes, with my career at least. As for the relationship, I can only hope that I'll meet someone, somewhere, sometime. Of course, better earlier than later in my life.

I think we will always feel lost at different stages of our lives, what's important is that we keep ourselves motivated to make changes for the better. Keep growing, keep learning, and not be stuck in one place.

@enthusiasticPenguin6756

@enthusiasticPenguin6756 We dont have to have things figured out all the time. We don't have to know how the finish line would look like. It would suffice to know which direction we would take so as not to lose ourselves. The finish line would reveal itself as day goes by.