Having that friend that was fake
In my 20’
i was with this person that claimed to be my friend but never took me seriously
on Monday I ended it cuz they already see msg I once deleted they don’t even respected my privacy just went on
but before they sent couple of goofy messages
never being serious with me
only they issues were
they even said no jokes when their animal died making me feel dumb as if I don’t have EQ to know this
they bullied me for not having good WiFi despite issue being the app server itself
and so on
I blocked them n I made the best choice
good ppl aren’t always good
@livbinny Hi 👋, I just wanted to quickly say how proud I am of you! ❤️ After reading about your "fake friend", it's evident that you made the right choice to end the "friendship". You're so right--- some people just aren't good and I'm glad you noticed this person's ways. I am proud of you for choosing you. I know too many people who would ignore the red signs and just tolerate. Quality people in your corner is important to have. You deserve that! Way to go. Friends should have your best interests at heart. I hope that you are able to find a new friend that can be there for you. ❤️ Sending hugs your way if it's ok. 🤗
Ur right but actually? I did ignore it
i did tolerate cuz I blindly believed all this time that ppl are still good even if they hurt me I just wanted to go back to them :(
I don’t have any friends nor ppl but I’m more than used to go this way on my own
after all more peace
no hurt
but thx
maybe maybe 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@livbinny Awww, there's nothing wrong with wanting to believe people to be good despite their actions. That's a good trait to have, but don't ignore the red signals. Peace in life sounds great! No drama, no pain, just peace. I love that. ♡ Have a sweet, peaceful day. :)
yk tbh when I first came for advice it was never for this but for ghosting n that’s where I have been shown all this
before I didn’t even know what are red flags
I didn’t have any clue I was only told to be myself or similar that I saw doing others cuz that’s what I only knew
that right ppl will come by
but it didn’t work out
i think I didn’t even know what to ignore
now I do🙏🏻
one time I also asked why others don’t do as much efforts or similar for one community n I been told that’s all they can do
but then it wasn’t fair to me:/
I was usually in friendships as long as I can recall the one who had to imitate something or care for them
be there
in sure y know it
but when was last time they gave me smth back
:/ I can’t recall cuz I never got anything
only little things n I was always way too grateful for that when I did world to them
big difference that’s why I don’t understand that after all I did for them they still left me alone….
the only peace I cannot get is from family but other than that I’m trying to be here everyday for myself💙 thanks for your reassurance 🩵