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20+ Automated Taglist!
by tommy
Last post
 November 15th, 2024
...See more Welcome to the 20+ Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist as of 29th July (updated by @tommy) @azuladragon34 @Dawnie0203 @forcefulThinker186 @HarmonyBlossom @Racey08 @Rainer111 @TannDee @tommy
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Let's discuss issues
by pandanfe
Last post
 October 28th, 2024
...See more What are the adult issues that you would like to discuss? 
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Late 20's
by Rianakh95
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 2 days ago
...See more I am in my late 20's and to be exact my late 29. In few month I will turn 30 and to be honest when I was 18 I called people on their 30's old and I'm almost there and for sure 30 is not old (I can't even get it how I'm so close to 30. I feel I'm still 25 which I'm not ). I've done a lot in my 20's and I am so happy with my path overall, but what is crazy is that my reality is so different with what I thought It would be when I was 18.  These days I hear a lot that when you turn 30 you are just a newborn adult. You've been learning and exploring in your 20's and in your 30's it's your time to build up your life. Honestly I really like this idea. I was learning and exploring my 20's and at this point my life still is not stable at all which kind of scare me but I am trying every single day to be where I wanna be.  I like to know if someone has the same feeling or situation in their late 20's and how you are dealing with life?
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Racism and hatred toward an ethnicity
by imaginativeFarm9697
Last post
 Sunday
...See more I feel wounded after reading the comments and questions on reddit and Quora.  It said that all Indians smell like ***. They all are stinky and smell weird. Indians are the stinkiest on the planet. I don't feel like stepping out of my house and meeting any new people. What if they are the same as the critics. I am scared and anxious. I feel like hiding myself in a closet or dying as I am one the people that have caused this hate.
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New Listener
by Poppy2007
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 Saturday
...See more Heya, I became a listener not long ago and have been enjoying helping people with advice. If you ever need any help or to talk to someone I am always here to talk :) Poppy2007
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The perfect song does not exi-
by Guardian23
Last post
 November 30th, 2024
...See more Hey beautiful people of the 7 cups universe!🥰 You guys have probably heard this song called Like you by Tatiana Manaois, but how many of you have realllllllly listened to the lyrics. I'm going to take a huge risk here and declare it the most perfect song in the world!  Don't believe me, let me share just a portion of the lyrics. To any members reading this, in the words of Tatiana herself: "You got to get up You got to get up and make a move 'Cause the world will never see you until you do No, they don't really care what you're going through So you got to show them, baby You got to show them the real you You got to give them what you've got No, don't let them see what you're not" She the goes on to sing: "Cause you are strong, you are wise You are worth beyond the thousand reasons why And you can't be perfect, baby 'Cause nobody's perfect, darling But, no, no, no, there's nobody in the world like 🌟YOU🌟. 🥺Literally so perfect. Listen to the song and let me know what verse really spoke to you. Okay, love you! BYE!!❤️🫶🏾
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20+ Automated Taglist!
by tommy
Last post
 November 15th, 2024
...See more Welcome to the 20+ Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist as of 29th July (updated by @tommy) @azuladragon34 @Dawnie0203 @forcefulThinker186 @HarmonyBlossom @Racey08 @Rainer111 @TannDee @tommy
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Alone vs loneliness
by Hearthealer002
Last post
 October 7th, 2024
...See more Alone makes you peaceful mind  Loneliness makes you sad  Both are similar but meanings are far different 
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just need advice on what to do with father of my child.
by katemarieeex3
Last post
 May 2nd, 2024
...See more i’ve been living with the father of my child and his parents since i gave birth which was about 6 months ago and, about a month ago i was kicked out. i was told that i wasn’t helping around the house and i putting a lot of stress on him. and recently he said he only kicked me out because he had to do things on his own and he worked better by doing so.  um im just not sure if this is valid enough to keep him in my life. or if im at fault here cause i can admit i did not help around the house as much but again i didn’t have much help over there since he was mostly at the gym almost every day 
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Hi, 😊
by shyMap163
Last post
 April 20th, 2024
...See more Can someone be friends with me? 🦋📍
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What's your favourite way to relax?
by tommy
Last post
 August 17th, 2023
...See more What is your favourite way to relax? [dog swinging on a hammock outside]
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Anxiety over own birthday
by faithfulApricot3660
Last post
 June 27th, 2023
...See more Anyone has this too? It’s not because I am growing up, it’s a feeling of this day needs to be amazing and I knnow ir will be just average. also have been feeling disappointed with my friends and I don’t feel like organizing anything special.

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