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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

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I listen. I don't give you advice but i can help reflect things back at you and help you focus your thoughts. I am 352 years old in Internet years, so I have seen and been through a lot. Hi.
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Aurelius121
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INTERACTIONS. - I usually only have time to volunteer on 7 Cups once or twice a week. - I typically do 45 minute sessions with members. - I am always marked as offline because I receive requests while marked as available or busy. I am only able to help one person at a time. It would be neat to do two or three, but that is beyond what I am capable of. - If I am working with you, please note that I am on Central Time. (CT) - If I do not receive a response for ten minutes, I will assume the discussion has concluded or ask a member to submit a new chat request. - If we have agreed to work together and you would like to reschedule our next meeting, please let me know as soon as you are able. I treat this as a job of sorts since it is helping me build experience through volunteering. As such, I prefer to be assisting someone once a week. I will need to refer you to a different Listener if our schedules do not match up, but I will provide you with a support document summarizing everything we have discussed so that you will not have to repeat yourself. METHODOLOGY. I am a proponent of individual psychology. Cognitive behavioral therapy, Stoicism, and existentialism also interest me. A member may vent about their circumstances or someone who has wronged them, but I am mainly interested in what they intend to do going forward. All of us have goals we are pursuing either consciously or subconsciously. If possible, I prefer to identify those with the member. BIO. Life is inherently difficult, but we can find a way through it. I earned a Bachelor's of Science in psychology, and stopped college to go on to make very poor decisions for 12 years. I got tired of that lifestyle in 2021, and went on to accomplish more in three years than I had in ten. I dropped over fifty pounds, overcame several lifelong fears, and went on to have a far more dynamic range of the human experience. If it is within my ability to help someone in the same manner that I was assisted, then that is something I must do. I believe everyone has the answers they seek, but sometimes they need help finding them. ~ ~ ~ With my physical health in order, I sought to get my mental health in order at the start of 2023. I read books, articles, and watch videos related to self-improvement while taking notes. I then put these notes into an app called Flashcards World and study them when I have a moment. Here are some resources that I found quite valuable. Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. The Courage to Be Disliked by Koga and Kishimi. How to be Miserable: 40 Strategies You Already Use by Randy Paterson. How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. Escaping Ordinary on YouTube. Admiral McRaven's address to the University of Texas at Austin Class of 2014 as edited by MotivationHub. ~ - ~ * Quality Listening Program Graduate - July 2024 * Adult/Teen Listener - August 2024
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I am 67 year old male i live with my 3 cats I am I a relationship with a wonderful woman . I have just been passed as a verified listener. I have began to reconnect with reiki this week. I have gained a qualification certificate, of higher education in psychology,
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Hello, I'm a active verified listener on 7cups. I am here rather you need to rant and rave, someone to listen or maybe just someone that understands. I've been through a lot in life and can relate to almost anything.
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LittleBirdie30
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I am not currently taking any chats. Please reach out to another Listener at this time. Thank you. Hello! My name is Birdie! Thank you for visiting my profile! I am happy you are here!  Listener Twin: @ChillingRain 💛 My roles include:  -Chatroom Moderator -Care Team Lead Team Leader -Peer Supporter -Safety Patrol Team -Adult and Teen Quality Mentor -Quality Ambassador Please do not hesitate to reach out to me with any questions! I am here for you!  *I am not online during the weekends, so I will do my best to get back to you during the week. Thank you!* National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988 & Crisis Text Line: 741-741 A list of international hotlines: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines
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Welcome to My Listener Profile on 7 Cups!   “There is a false saying: ‘How can someone who can't save himself save others?’ Supposing I have the key to your chains, why should your lock and my lock be the same?” ~Friedrich Nietzsche Hello! I'm Joseph, a compassionate listener dedicated to offering a space where you can express yourself freely and feel genuinely heard. With a Bachelor’s degree in psychology and a deep personal understanding of the impact of being seen and heard, I am here to support you through your challenges and growth.   About Me My journey into listening was inspired by transformative experiences in therapy, where I first felt truly understood. These experiences, combined with my educational background in psychology, have equipped me with a compassionate and empathetic approach. I aim to provide not just an ear, but a sanctuary for open and honest expression.   My Listening Philosophy ”Listening is an art of understanding and respecting the other’s experiences. My style integrates radical acceptance with empathy, maintaining a balance of professionalism and light-heartedness. I am here not to fix, but to understand and support. Inspired by Nietzsche, I believe that every individual’s emotional landscape is unique, and I tailor my approach to fit your needs.”   Roles and Responsibilities on 7 Cups * Active Listener * 7 Cups Sustaining User Training and Certifications * Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology, 2023 Coursework In: * Abnormal Psychology * Developmental Psychology * Cognitive Psychology * General Psychology Completed 7 Cups Training In: * Anxiety * College Life * Cultural Diversity * Loneliness 7 Cups Certificates: * Active Listening (200+ Hours)   Listening Focus Areas: * ADHD * Anxiety * Autism Spectrum * Breakups * Depression * Forgiveness * General Mental Health * Getting Unstuck * Grief * Loneliness * Managing Emotions * Men's Issues * Relationship Stress * Self-Esteem * Self-Harm * Spirituality * Student Life   Topics I Prefer Not to Discuss: * Bipolar Disorder * Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) * Eating Disorders * PTSD * Obsessive-Compulsive Disorders * Parenting * Perinatal Mood Disorder * Personality Disorders * Racial & Cultural Identity * Recovery * Schizophrenia * Weight Management * Women's Issues   Engagement in the Community: I actively participate in community discussions and workshops aimed at improving listening skills and enhancing the supportive environment of 7 Cups.   What You Can Expect from a Session with Me: * A warm and understanding environment * Tailored support based on your needs * Confidential and respectful handling of your concerns   A Little More About Me Outside of 7 Cups, I indulge in photography and writing, which are my outlets for creativity and expression. These hobbies help me stay grounded and connected to the world around me. Passionate about self-help and spirituality, I believe in the power of personal growth and resilience.   Availability I strive to be available for listening sessions as often as possible. Please feel free to send a message to schedule a session that fits within your time zone and availability. I am typically more available during evenings and weekends, Pacific Time.   Let’s Connect If you’re seeking a compassionate listener who respects your story and offers a safe space to discuss your thoughts and feelings, please reach out. Whether you need a one-time conversation or ongoing support, I am here to listen and support you on your journey towards wellness.   Status: 🟢 Green (Online and ready to chat): response time is 30-60 seconds. 🟠 Orange (Online but may be slower to respond): response time is 30-60 minutes. 🔴 Red (Offline but feel free to leave a message): response time is 24-48 hours.   Final Note Thank you for considering me as your listener. Whether you choose to reach out or not, I wish you strength and peace on your mental health journey.   Resources: * Cuddles [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/cuddle] * How to Leave a Review for a Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/FeatureUpdates_2525/TwoSimpleStepstoSubmittheListenerReview_315363/] * Peer Appreciation [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] * Here's Me! [https://ibb.co/album/ymzvq3] * Some of My Artwork [https://ibb.co/album/hXhXP1] * Some of My Photography (TRIGGER WARNING: Self-Harm) [https://ibb.co/album/9HjzRN]  
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Crystal Schaeffer

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Clinical Social Work/Therapist, Licensed therapist
Phoenix , AZ
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As a therapist I believe that you have the power to reconstruct your thoughts into positive ones while accomplishing realistic goals. I believe that healed people heal people.
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Melissa Bergquist

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Psychologist, PsyD
Buffalo, NY
My name is Melissa and I am empathetic and supportive to all those with whom I work. I have a passion for the field of mental health and I find real meaning in this work.
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EarMaster
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I’m not a therapist but I’d be more than happy to lend you an ear. Never give up! Life is beautiful and the best is yet to come. Remember, you get what you give. I don’t take LGBTQ+ requests. *****I only listen to adults*****
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Imad17
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Hello! 😀 My name is Imad, I'm here to offer support and listen carefully. I have a deep interest in psychology and helping people through open conversation, especially regarding anxiety, including test and social anxiety. I believe that any challenge is easier when shared with someone who listens without judgment. I am open to any topic and I am here to provide you with a safe space to talk 😊 💬 My sessions typically last between 45 and 60 minutes to ensure quality time for your support and listening. 😊 👥 Statuses on my profile: 🟢 Online - I'm available and here to listen. Feel free to reach out for a chat. 🟠 Busy - I'm currently supporting other members, but I'll get back to you as soon as I can. 🔴 Offline - I'm not available right now, but please feel free to leave a message.
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BobbyX
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CuriousTeddy
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Say whatever you have on mind. I'm here to listen :)     
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Smita Joshi

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Counselor, BA Psychology / MA / Advanced EFT Practitioner
Bangalore
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I am empathetic with my Clients going through emotional overwhelm and passionate in helping them. I am supportive, openminded & interactive in helping my clients.
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PeacefulMirror
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Hi! My name is Sam and I'm a trained active listener on 7 Cups. We've all struggled at some point in our lives, and I've found that sharing the strength of others can make all the difference. I'm familiar with a wide range of issues, especially depression, anxiety, and relationship problems. Please feel free to drop in for a chat or send me a message if I'm off-line. There just may be something I can help you with!
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LemonTea2
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1.) Introduction I've been through anxiety myself, and I know first hand the struggles of feeling alone and left out. Worry not, just take my hand. I'm here to guide you to the promised land.  2.) Personality 💛🍋I'm a bittersweet lemon💛🍋 I am also an INFP; 4% of the general population Introverted; Indicates a person who is energized by time alone. Intuitive Who focuses on ideas and concepts rather than facts and details. Feeling Who makes decisions based on feelings and values  Perceiving Who prefers to be spontaneous and flexible rather than planned and organized ❇ I'll always be less than my other selves So I feel like I'm competing with someone else ❇ 3.) Likes and Dislikes Likes 🎡 Motorbikes 🏍 🎡 Photography 📷 🎡 Anime 🉐 🎡 Rain and Thunder ☔ 🎡 Martial arts 🙏 🎡 Alternative Rock 🎸 🎡 Video Games 🎮 🎡 Mechanical Pencils ✏ 🎡 Psychology 💭 🎡 Chicken noodle soup with a soda on the side 🍜🥤 Dislikes 💀 Sea Food 🐠 💀 Plane crash documentaries ✈ 💀 One word replies 🆗 💀 Group chats 👥 4.) My perspective  An important point to make is that sometimes the way we feel is nothing more than an echo from the past. It's been conditioned into you. Scorched into your brain. If you sit around and choose to wallow in that familiar pain, then you can never hope to feel relief. Even in the fell clutch of circumstance, you do have a CHOICE to make. Choose to get up and DO something. It's not about the hand that you are dealt. It's about creating your own reality and label the old feelings for what they truly are; Pathological liars. If you never allow your mind to be saturated with healthy, positive emotions, then you will forever be stuck in your own quicksand, sabotaging yourself. I know that it may be a slow step by step process but that first step is all it takes. °·.    ·  ✦ ·* .  •    ·  •.   ✶˚  .   ·*✧* ˚  · . ·* . ✵.         ✧✵ .·    ✵  ✫˚            · · .             ·✦ ˚  · .           ⊹   · . *            ..   . °  You are never as down and out as it may         seem, and you are definitely not alone.
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