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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Shadow
L Connoisseur 8 528
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**I’m unable to take chats at this time** Hello! Welcome to my bio ♡ You can call me Shadow. I'm here to offer a safe/nonjudgmental place to talk and I will do my best to support you. My goal is to give you that space and try to help you through whatever it is you have going on. I will not offer advice, as it can be harmful and only you know your situation well enough to make decisions on it, but I would be more than happy to help you come up with ideas on how to cope with things and manage your situation! I am so proud of you for reaching out <3 My listening style is more listening rather than talking. I am here to be your safe space and sounding board as well as be someone to stand in your corner and cheer you on. We can come up with ideas together to help improve your situation but ultimately you will need to make the final decisions for yourself. If you feel like I would be a good listener for you feel free to reach out! My response time is typically within 24-72 hours ♡ **Please note that I am only able to take support chats for 30-60 minutes at at time. Thank you. Topics I am comfortable with: ~ LGBTQ+, self-harm, PTSD/trauma and BPD. Topics I am *not* comfortable with: ~ Active SH/suicide (7cups is not a crisis resource, if you are experiencing this please reach out to crisis resources ♡︎), sexual health/sexual chats, religion/spirituality, relationships stress. My roles here: * * Global Moderator  * Chatroom Mentor * Chat Support * Peer Support * ML for Anonymous Evaluations * Quality Mentor * Doorkeeper ꕥ Have an amazing day! ꕥ
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ChromaticFinss
L Intermediate 6 221
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"Just keep swimming, just keep swimming, just keep swimming, swimming, swimming."🐟 Feel free to PM me if my status is green 💚 My usual chat duration will be 45 minutes💛 How about spreading smile on someone today? Ready? Check here 👇 https://forms.gle/QEni2At39ZMApELr6 A big thanks and keep Swimming!
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delicateMonkey
L Discoverer 3 288
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-On break. Messages may not be responded to- Hello, it's nice to meet you! I have a B.S. in Psychological Sciences and have plans to become a psychiatrist. I am in the EST time zone and am typically available at night. I take all chat topics, including casual chat and questions about the site!  Reaching out is the hardest part, but you've already taken the first step! If we talk, please leave me a review! I strive to better myself as I go through my journey as a 7Cups listener! 💮 -Please be patient and kind to your listener. We are not professionals and need you to meet us halfway.- -7Cups is not a crisis resource. If you find yourself in crisis, please contact crisis lines available in your country- "You will succeed in whatever you choose to do, and light will shine on the road ahead of you." •─────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•─────────• I currently do not have the capacity to take on more long-term members, but I will happily take one-off chats! For listeners: I do peer support - please PM me if you need! You will often catch me in the LSR 💘
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delightfulUnicorn38
L Expert 5 396
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i m Unicorn an active listener and peer pro too , if you need any help just pm i ll be happy to chat with you  I can help with defining the issue, setting recovery plans, selecting the growth path  offering the recourse, and emotional support   
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Brahmm
L Proficient 8 480
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You must be the change you wish to see in the world. When you are not happy, try to make others happy and it just might make you happy. Love is necessary for a healthy life. We think to live a healthy life, just like food and water. I practice daily by loving everyone around me. Hatred grows more hatred, forgiveness brings love and peace. Nothing is impossible. The word itself says ‘I’m possible! Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.
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hopedreamlove
L Epitome 10 2041
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☕️ I am really sorry, but I am unable to take new member chats at the moment and will not be able to respond to messages. You can find a wonderful listener using the Browse Listeners page. I truly hope you find the support you deserve!  🌺 Thank you to Tazzie, the incredible human who coded this bio and helped me become the listener and leader I am today. Thank you so much for everything. Rest In Peace.  ☕️ Hi you! Yes, you! The incredible human being who might be struggling and who deserves compassion and kindness. I may not have gone through the same experiences as you, but I can understand and acknowledge that you are in immense pain. It can be incredibly difficult reaching out for support, I am so proud of you for taking the first step to find support. Things may seem difficult or even impossible right now, but you are not alone. You matter, are worthy, and valid. 🌺 Hello hello hello! I am Hope or Jasmine, a Muslim, South Asian-American living in Canada. I am a young adult who is navigating through the ups and downs of life. I have been called the "Queen of Typos," so that probably tells you something about me! I adore coffee, listening to music (especially Broadway songs),  watching TV shows, and learning about the world. I am in university, studying political science. I discovered this site about four years ago, and fell in love with this fantabulous community. I believe everyone has their own story, and I am here on 7 cups because I would be honored to listen to yours. ☕️ My listening style is a bit different from most, in the way that my messages are usually longer and reflect and provide my insight on what you said. It will still be your chat, and you will have the power to direct the topic to what you are looking to talk about. I do not take chats on eating disorders, alcohol/drug use, sexual abuse and sexual health at the moment, thank you for understanding! I am most comfortable providing support to those ages 13-20. I unfortunately cannot wave a magic wand and solve any problems you might be having (I absolutely would if I could) but instead I can provide a listening ear and be there for you. I strongly believe in kindness and respect which I always incorporate in my conversations. During our chat, I will also empower and validate you while creating a safe place for you to talk in my pms. It has lots of cookies, hugs, and any other treats or comfort items you want. 🌺 Projects/Roles I am currently involved with: Verified Listener, Adult Teen Listener, Chatroom Ambassador (with a primary focus on resources, the listener Chatroom supporter role, and the Teen Listeners room),  Teen Chatroom Leader, Teen Chatroom Mentor, Adult and Teen Quality Mentor, Forum Mentor, Doorkeeper ☕️ This is a safe and inclusive profile for all. While there are some topics mentioned above that I do not take due to personal reasons, I will not ever discriminate or judge you. People of all genders, sexualities, race, religions, beliefs, and identities are welcome here! Thank you so much for taking the time to visit my profile. I hope you have a lovely day! Click here for a surprise! [https://i.imgur.com/NgyXfd1.gif]
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Oldsoul1618
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We are all visitors to this time, this place . We are passing through and our purpose is to observe, experience and learn . And then we return home .
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ipauline
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Hello <3 I can speak English & Spanish.  I accept personal requests, but might not respond quickly because I prefer to chat with one person at a time. 💙 However, feel free to message me, and we can schedule an appointment. Some of the topics I take are Anxiety, Managing Emotions, Borderline Disorder, and ADHD.  I don't take sexual health problems, sexual issues, eating disorders or men's issues, as I'm not familiar with them.  My timezone ⏰: GMT-6. CST. 🌏 I own 3 chinchillas, 2 dachshunds & 4 parrots. 💛 🐸 Some of my favorite topics are career guidance, spirituality, mindfulness & logotherapy.  I love neuroscience, the biology of emotions, and CBT, but I also have an active spiritual life that involves mindfulness. 
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melonMeloncholy
L Master 6 728
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Reaching out is a great thing, a strong thing. Sometimes just talking helps. Listeners are eager to acknowledge what's said without judgment; to empathize; to encourage self-reflection, honesty, and mindfulness. There are always choices, no matter how small or undesirable, and those choices can be explored safely. Ongoing List of Healthy Distractions (& Self-Love) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GetSupport_28/ManagingEmotions_47/AnExtensiveListofHealthyDistractionsSelfLoveTechniques_53317] or follow along this custom growth path: Melon's Self-Care Stepping Stones Path [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GetSupport_28/ManagingEmotions_47/AnExtensiveListofHealthyDistractionsSelfLoveTechniques_53317] Grounding techniques, self-care, healthy distractions Need a Listener or Peer Support when Melon isn't here? Connect to a Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?verifiedlistener=on] Listeners: Connect to Peer Support [https://7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=98] Keep seeking the support you deserve. "Rivers know this: There is no hurry." - A. A. Milne, "Winnie the Pooh"
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shiningSky3745
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💙Why I came here on 7 cups💙 One day I realised there are many people suffering from anxiety, panic attacks bullying, family stress and what not out there and I thought o should try to help them in the ways I can 😀     ~ I Like to dance what lil I can, singing, writing, reading, cubing, historical stuff, movies ~ I love The Greatest Showman, The seige of jadotiville, 12 strong, Major, RRR and Teen Titans Go 😛   ~ I can speak fluent English and Hindi ~I am ENTJ-A personality  ~ I am currently a law student (RGNUL 2023-28 batch if anyone is curious) ~ I aspire to be an Army Officer in the future       ​I'll listen to you and will be non judging, helpful, supportive, kind and will try my best to make you feel better 😀         Please note these are the topics I am not comfortable talking about       • Anything heavily based on religion     • OCD     I am comfortable talking about any subject except these (•‿•)        I can provide maximum support (as per my capacity) for       • Panic attacks     • Anxiety   • Depression      My availability status 𝐆𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐬 𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐚𝐯𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐫𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐬, 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐚 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐫𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐮𝐩𝐨𝐧 𝐬𝐞𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝙤𝙧𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙚 𝙢𝙚𝙖𝙣𝙨 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙡𝙪𝙧𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙 𝙤𝙣 7  𝙘𝙪𝙥𝙨 𝙤𝙧 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙞𝙣 𝙖 𝙘𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙧𝙤𝙤𝙢 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡 𝙛𝙧𝙚𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙟𝙤𝙞𝙣 𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php] 𝙤𝙧 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙩𝙖𝙡𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙖𝙣𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙢𝙚𝙢𝙗𝙚𝙧, 𝙛eel 𝙛𝙧𝙚𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙖 𝙢𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙄'𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙧𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙧𝙚𝙥𝙡𝙮 𝙖𝙨 𝙨𝙤𝙤𝙣 𝙖𝙨 𝙄 𝙘𝙖𝙣     Red means I am not online right now, feel free to leave a message at this time and I'll try to reply as soon as possible [https://ibb.co/WWKvxYZ] ​I believe we  all are different and all of us may not be able to understand everyone feel free to click here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] to search for another great listener      [https://ibb.co/6J0h0qg] (I will never intentionally harm or offend you :)[please pardon any mistakes of mine]):)  
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WarmLightXO
L Guru 2 783
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Everything is going to be okay 🌼🌿 I'm Light (or Elliot) and I’m glad you’re here💚 He/him, EST I'm especially versed in LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent issues, but I'm happy to support you with anything you need to chat about. Please note that unless I pull you out of the queue, I'm probably only available for offline chats 🌻 Where talk exists, so does hope 💛 ------------------------- Ainda não falo br português fluentemente, mas adoraria apoiá-lo da melhor maneira que posso. 💚
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chyni
L Expert 10 659
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“success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” —winston churchill 🦋🦋🦋 IMPORTANT NOTICE 📣  please DO NOT send me a message saying "hi" or "hey" as i normally overlook these messages as spam/nothing serious, and rarely reply or never. i also ask users to do this as it helps me to understand better about the topic we’d be speaking on, as i’m not comfortable discussing certain things. if you have an issue that you'd like to speak on, please send me a brief message stating your issue/s and I'll get back to you ASAP when I'm available, thank you 😊  hello there, my name is chyni. i’m from the beautiful caribbean island Jamaica 🇯🇲 welcome to my profile and to the 7 cups of tea site. there are a range of issues that i’m comfortable offering compassionate support for. these include:  anxiety •• breakups •• bullying •• chronic pain •• depression •• domestic violence •• loneliness •• managing emotions •• relationship stress •• social anxiety •• student life •• exercise motivation •• family stress •• forgiveness •• financial stress •• getting unstuck •• grief •• obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) •• panic attacks •• self-esteem •• spirituality •• work stress please note that i however, DO NOT discuss sexual related topics of any nature. i am a trained and verified listener, my goal here while serving my time on the 7 cups of Tea site is to, provide a safe and non judgement space where you can be free to voice your problems, and be heard.  🦋🦋🦋 my leadership roles: verified listener peer support ( as a peer supporter, my role is to primarily offer emotional support through 1-on-1 chats with other listeners, regarding emotions and situations that can stem from member chats, group support chats, forum interactions with other listeners etc. ) NB: FOR LISTENERS ONLY! If you would like to discuss a personal issue, please switch over to your member / guest acc. before contacting, this is so to remain anonymous and to adhere to the 7 cups guidelines.  room supporter — depression support ( as a room supporter for the depression support chatroom, my role is to provide quality listening and support to the members in the chatroom )  forum supporter — motivation & accountability community / 7 cups academy ( as a forum supporter, my role is to maintain engagement in the forums by posting and replying to threads )  listener room supporter — (LSR) listener support room ( as a listener room supporter, i have many responsibilities, however, in a nutshell, my role is to primarily support the listener rooms ) 🦋🦋🦋 days & time you can find me on 7cups — wednesday - friday 8:30am - 10:30am EST 6:00pm - 8:00pm EST  please note that despite my scheduled time i have a life outside 7cups and things do happen. status indicator – if the status color is green it means that i’m online, yellow– busy, and red– offline.  i look forward to chatting with you and understanding how best I can help.  best wishes, chyni 🤍
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