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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

hummingbirdheart2
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One of my favorite songs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BYQX627Ucag Topics I take: Relationships stress and Breakups  For all other topics, please choose another listener.  Please note I DO NOT take inappropriate sex chats or suicide chats. 
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Soulfulbeing75
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Please read before requesting me  Hi there! I'm a compassionate and understanding listener, but I'm also direct and I will not sugar coat your situation. I'm here to chat with you about what's on your mind and/or troubling you. I'm very easy to talk with, and nothing you tell me will shock me. I will listen without judgment and help you the best way that I can. However, I prefer not to take chats related to gender, religion, relationship or sexual related issues. If you are a listener, and want to chat personally, please contact me on your member account. I've been trolled quite a bit on here. Please don't be selfish and waste my time. There are members here who are reaching out for genuine help. I'm not here to stimulate your sexual interests... you will be blocked.  Rest assured that our chat will be a safe place to express yourself, as confidentiality is extremely important to me. Honesty is just as important. So, please be honest with me at all times. Lying to me will only decrease my passion for helping you.  I've been through plenty myself... You're not alone. Come say hello. ;) Also, please keep in mind that I'm not a professional, and I do this voluntarily. Thank you! 💗  
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RarelyCharlie
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Not taking new chats. ------------------------- Coming, going, the waterbirds don't leave a trace, don't follow a path. I'm Charlie and I'm trained, verified and experienced as an active listener for both adults and teens. I like to support people who are struggling with something. Also people who aren't struggling with anything. And people who aren't sure whether they're struggling with anything or not. Please do not message me hoping to start a chat. I am not taking new chats. The poem is said to be by Eihei Dōgen, a Japanese poet who wrote it around eight hundred years ago. I don't know why I like it. I just do. My photo is the moon shining on the sea. There's some darkness and some clouds there but the light of the moon shines on everything. I like this too. Thank you for reading my profile. I'm glad you are here! ------------------------- In an emergency or a crisis: If you are in an emergency or a crisis—for example, if you are at immediate risk of suicide or other serious harm—7 Cups is not the right place, because we cannot deal with emergencies or provide crisis counselling. Click here for information about getting help: Get emergency or crisis support [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/howto/crisis] Listener support: I'm happy to support other listeners with issues related to listening, although I don't have any official role. Please do not message me from a listener account to chat about personal issues. Use a member account for that. To understand why, see: Listener and Member Roles [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/GlensThoughts_143/ListenerandMemberRoles_210/1/] Schedule: I don't have a fixed schedule. I'm online some weekdays between about 4:30 a.m. and 8:30 a.m. US Eastern Time. In the UK this is 9:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. On other days and at weekends I'm often online too, but at times that are not predictable. If you message me or tag me in a forum I'm usually able to respond within a day or two. Miscellaneous resources: For some other resources, mainly for listeners, see my unofficial companion site: The 8th Cup [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/]
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Pguide1
L Epitome 2 9823
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I have been an active listener on 7 cups for two years.  Thank you for sharing your story. 
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Itsokay091
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Hello! I believe that loneliness doesn't come from being alone but from unable to communicate. I have been through this loneliness and know how bad it is. So I am here to LISTEN to you and we will try to overcome this TOGETHER.....feel free to contact me.
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Harsvin
L Paragon 11 4201
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Hi, my name is Harsvin. Thank you for stumbling upon my profile. I’m a listener since 2015, and it’s been a long journey on this site that has helped to shape me into a compassionate and caring individual who truly understands the importance of being there for someone. I’m currently a Quality Ambassador for the AL Team Click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ActiveListeningTestsListenerQuizzes_2102/ActiveListeningTrainingsTestsWhatYouShouldKnow_56907/] to learn more about Active Listening Tests You can check the updates threads of each test here AL 1 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ActiveListeningTestsListenerQuizzes_2102/ActiveListening1Updates_294348/?post=3237880], AL2 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest2GradingUpdates_300791/], AL3 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest3GradingUpdates_300792/], and AL4 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest4GradingUpdates_300794/] to know when badges have been last updated. Feel free to send me a message if you have any questions to ask regarding Active Listening Tests, or need guidance on your ongoing chats. It's my pleasure to help.
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Medo12
L Epitome 19 17313
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Medo was here ✌️
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KellyBx
L Pinnacle 13 12210
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I'm Kelly, I'm a listener here on 7 cups. I, like most people have been through some difficult situations in life but I believe by listening to each other and talking about our problems we can make things a little easier.
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gentlewillow2
L Marvel 13 4403
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Hello there (: I'm here if you ever need someone to talk to.
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EarfulElf
L Pinnacle 16 8562
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I will try my best to provide you the safest and the most non-judgemental place ...  I am not good at giving advises but I assure you that whatever it is ..we will sit together and talk ... Least I can assure you is ...you will not be alone!  If you are not feeling well and need a shoulder to lean on ..please drop me a text ... We will sit together and talk about things ...we will cry together if we will have to ... Eventually we will make you smile ..and yeah you are going to get chocolate 🍫 at the end. If you are feeling alone, and dont wanna overthink for a while ... reach out to me ... We will talk and have laughters together because I believe sometimes we dont wanna share anything but we have to pass that specific moment...I will help with that.. and yeah you are going to get chocolate 🍫 at the end as well ITS JUST... WHATEVER IT IS ...REACH OUT ..WE WILL FIGURE THINGS OUT 💜
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Bestwillow45
L Epitome 3 9947
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   इच्छाओं की सड़क तो बहुत      दूर तक जाती हैं.............      बेहतर यही है कि हम ज़रूरतो      की गली में मुड़ जाएं.........!! ----------------------------(World is drain with all. It's pain Words written with bloods stain Swords raise all, just to have gain Such a fierce war, around and all insane Bidding my vows to. Meet again If lives remain and I still sustain Smile on faces, with eye full of rain Maybe in dissolution we connect to main Phir milenge agar zindagi rahi tho Vaise tho wait karne, hell Mey asey tho Milenge jaha hum sab honge, yakin Hai humko tho Maza ayega, kuin ki Yara ke Saat, kya Sochthey tho Narak bhi swarg jaise hogi, wait karenge waise tho ---------—-------------------------------  IT doesn't matter if u r slow It doesn't matter if don't glow It doesn't matter if not in flow It doesn't matter if growth is slow What matters we are in show Not bowing down to life bow KEEP WALKING YOUR WAY WILL MAKE IT'S WAY.    
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creativeOcean42
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Hello and a warm welcome from New Zealand. It takes a lot of courage and strength to reach out and talk about painful things that matter to you. If this is the first time you’ve talked about your story, you’re doing an incredibly brave thing that will put you back on the road to life and wellness. I am currently in my third year of completing my counselling degree. I am devoting my life to helping people get through all types of mental illness and relationship struggles because I know from first-hand experience the power of talking openly and vulnerably. On a personal note, I’ve struggled with anxiety, depression and panic, but through reaching out like you, I’ve learned to be more self-aware and equip myself with the tools I need to manage myself so that I can be functional and in good relationship with myself and the people I encounter. Please note, at the moment I am only able to offer what's called "Brief Intervention" which is designed to help people ground and centre themselves for issues that are based in the present, here and now. If it becomes apparent that your issues are based in the past or require deeper, more long-term care from a qualified professional, it's better if you reach out to a face-to-face therapist. I'll let you know if that's the case as we chat. If I am online, please feel free to contact me. I’m glad you’re here, let’s get through this together.
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