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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

rrretsuko
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hello! i'm rrretsuko ! at the moment, i'm working on freshening up my 7 cups account as i have been inactive for a while. please be patient with me as it will take me a while to adjust to being active on the site once more <3 i am a college student with a job, so i currently have a very busy schedule. for this reason, it will take me a while to get my listener account back on track. i have a passion for helping others and i am comfortable with providing support for most topics <3. though i cannot say i've had experience with every subject, i like to try my best with listening to others who need someone to talk to. i love poetry, music, ecology, and traveling :) my availability : green - i am online and accepting chats ! orange - i am online but either busy helping a member or in the support rooms. if you leave a message, i won't reply until i am done helping the member i am listening to at that moment or when i leave the support rooms ! red - i am offline and not responding to any messages at the moment. if you leave a message, i may take awhile to respond depending on how busy i am ! mondays - thursdays : i am typically quite busy on weekdays as i have college classes to attend and work. my availability throughout the day will vary, but i will likely be most active after 5 pm until 9 or 10 pm :) fridays - sundays : i don't have a set schedule for anything during these days, however, they are my designated days for relaxation, studying, and doing whatever else i need to get done. for this reason, availability throughout these days will vary my roles on cups ! : i am refraining from holding any roles as i feel i am not able to fulfill any other responsibilities <3 • verified listener : i have been verified by the community based on my commitment to active listening skills and quality chatting ! i passed a mock chat with a mentor in order to receive this badge :) previous roles: peer appreciation team member, listener check-in host, forum supporter, subcommunity leadership events team member, listener events team member, LDP mentor, project agent, listener verifier team member, teen discussion host, chatroom moderator, safety patrol member, peer supporter, and listener coach chats i do not take ! [please read] : • any flirty or sexual conversations • chats from members who are suicidal or actively self-harming and seeking crisis support as it is against 7 cups guidelines and a big trigger for me. please refer to a hotline here [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines] instead • roleplaying chats of any sort  • chats from members who treat me disrespectfully • topics on age regression as it can be triggering for me • chats that get too graphic/detailed when describing sexual events side notes ! [please read] : • i do not recommend relying on me for fast replies if you message me out of the blue for an unscheduled chat  • there are chances i may not get back to you in certain circumstances. this most likely means that i am busy and unable to give you support at the time. you can find another listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] in the meantime !
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Tobias5
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Hey I'm newish (not anymore lol) to this site. I've got a lot of experience helping with substance abuse, self esteem issues and existential crisis. Emoticon superiority.
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Ashly9053
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Welcome to 7 Cups! Each chat session lasts for 30 minutes usually but, from Dec 2024 -March 2025 you have the option to keep the chats as long as 30 minutes to 3hr. Please note that I do not cover sexual health topics. I’m grateful you reached out, and I’m here to listen and support you. At the end of our chat, I’d appreciate it if you could leave a rating and review—it helps others who connect with me. Since this listening session is a free service, please be mindful and respectful of our time together. ♥️
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Rivelino3
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🇬🇧 "If nothing saves us from death, at least love should save us from life" 🇪🇸 "Si nada nos salva de la muerte, al menos el amor debería salvarnos de la vida" 🇬🇧Below is my profile, first in English, then in Spanish.  🇪🇸Abajo está mi perfil, primero en inglés, luego en español(no es fluido).    🇬🇧 Hello 💛 My name is Lusio/Bhavya/Riva. I speak English and Spanish. Apart from being a listener, I also am a ⭐Quality mentor and ⭐Chat supporter What I will try and offer in our chats - 💛Empathy I practice and have unconditional empathy for all, because I believe we all deserve love and kindness irrespective of anything and in any condition. This belief strengthens my ability to be empathetic in more situations than not. Hence, please feel safe to bring any topics to me without any worries of being empathized with.  💛 Respect for boundaries Safe place where boundaries are respected  💛No harmful judgements Feelings and emotions can be freely expressed without unnecessary judgements regarding them.Judging is human nature but I believe in judging to understand than hurting.I believe it's important to offer a space where you would be understood over anything that's been said or done, than guilting and punishing. I believe we are more than what we do, and irrespective of what we do, we all deserve love. Core of that belief is essentially that we all are more than what we do, and irrespective of it all we deserve to be understood and loved in all conditions.I think the world lacks it unfortunately, making it more so valuable to offer it and believe in it being the right way of life . 💛 Active listening skills Complete use of active listening skills allowing me to help you feel safe, understood and attended to. 💛 Communication skills Focus on high standard of communication skills allowing me to make chats feel safe with increased clarity and kindness  💛 Graduate degree in psychology Having a graduate degree in applied psychology  allows me to introduce more knowledge and honed skills when coming to discussing most issues and offer high level of professionalism. 🇪🇸 Hola 💛  Mi nombre es Lusio/Bhavya/Riva.  Hablo Inglés Y Español(no es fluido). Además de ser un oyente, también soy ⭐un Mentor de calidad y  ⭐ Seguidor de chat.  Lo que intentaré ofrecer en nuestros chats:  💛Empatía Practico y tengo empatía incondicional por todos, porque creo que todos merecemos amor y bondad independientemente de cualquier cosa y en cualquier condición.  Esta creencia fortalece mi capacidad de ser empático en la mayoría de las situaciones.  Por lo tanto, siéntete seguro de traerme cualquier tema sin preocuparte de sentir empatía.   💛 Respeto a los límites  Lugar seguro donde se respetan los límites  💛Sin juicios perjudiciales  Los sentimientos y las emociones pueden expresarse libremente sin juicios innecesarios al respecto.Juzgar es la naturaleza humana pero yo creo en juzgar para entender que para lastimar.Creo que es importante ofrecer un espacio donde te entiendan por encima de todo lo que se ha dicho o hecho, en lugar de culpar y castigar.  Creo que somos más de lo que hacemos, e independientemente de lo que hagamos, todos merecemos amor.El núcleo de esa creencia es esencialmente que todos somos más de lo que hacemos y, independientemente de ello, todos merecemos ser comprendidos y amados en todas las condiciones.Creo que lamentablemente el mundo carece de él, por lo que es más valioso ofrecerlo y creer que es la forma correcta de vida.  💛 Habilidades de escucha activa Uso completo de las habilidades de escucha activa que me permiten ayudarte a sentirte seguro, comprendido y atendido.  💛 Habilidades de comunicación   Centrarse en un alto nivel de habilidades de comunicación que me permita hacer que los chats se sientan seguros con mayor claridad y amabilidad.  💛 Licenciatura en psicología  Tener un título de posgrado en psicología aplicada me permite introducir más conocimientos y habilidades perfeccionadas cuando se trata de discutir la mayoría de los temas y ofrecer un alto nivel de profesionalismo. 🇬🇧 I may tend to take time sometimes when responding, or might abandon the chat due to reasons of my own, hope that can be taken into account when messaging me. I try to stay but have some health needs 💛. I will drop 🦴 when I feel in need of taking time.  🇪🇸 Es posible que a veces tiendo a tomarme un tiempo al responder, o puedo abandonar el chat debido a mis propias razones, espero que eso se pueda tener en cuenta al enviarme un mensaje. Hago todo lo posible para quedar, pero tengo que irme debido a mis necesidades de salud.💛💛Dejaré caer 🦴 cuando necesite tomarme un tiempo
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UniversalSmile
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Update: Inactive since Jan 2023 but I do come here once in a while  ------------------------- I do not take topics regarding - sexual health, self harm, chronic illness and domestic violence.  However I do believe everyone deserves and need a support (including you) - therefore, I willl highly encourage to Browse Listeners. Please remember you are not alone in your  journey❤ A little words I want to say is, please do feel free to talk to me. Although, I can't promise to solve your problems that you are struggling with, but I hope by sharing your problem it can makes your heart feel a little lighter from the burden of keeping it all alone.  ------------------------- If there is a peer onsite that you would like to appreciate anonymously/known - perhaps someone who have touched your heart, helped you, someone you would like to acknowledge their existence or perhaps just wanted to share some nice words to them, you can use this form💙 Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]  ------------------------- Quotes  ♡ “There is hope, even as little as it can." ♡ “And if today all you did was hold yourself together, I’m proud of you.” ------------------------- [You can skip this part]. Some Quotes that I like from the book "Love for Imperfect Things" by Haemin Sumin  ❀It’s okay that you have flaws. Life naturally takes its toll on our bodies, our minds, and our relationships. rather than choosing a life in which you do nothing for fear of making a mistake, choose a life that improves through failure and pain. And shout out loud to your struggling self, I love you so much. ❀Instead of postponing your happiness until you’ve achieved your goal, live a little and enjoy the moment. Life is passing you by while you are waiting. ------------------------- Active since August 11 ------------------------- one. 
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PsychPrashansa13
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Hey! I am Prashansa. ~ A gist about me ~  Loves Psychology. A high school Student. I'm from India. I want to do everything in my life I love, not only this year but my whole life. ~ If you want that one day to come, day one is TODAY! - Prashansa ❌Topics I don't take❌ ❗Men's sexual health ❗Marital/Pregnancy Issues ❗Alcohol/Smoke/Drug Addiction  💛🐥🌙🌼🤗Lots of Love💛🐥🌙🌼🤗
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SnowTabby
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"Perfection is Imperfection" ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Unavailable for Member Chats!! I'll be on a semi-self care break. If you have a Care Team question or need help locating a resource, please reach out! I will do my best to respond quickly.  Merry Holidays 🍁 ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Hello Lovelies 🌙 Reaching out to someone is a hard step, but reaching out to a community is even harder. Whatever the reason you are here, I am proud of you. When I joined 7Cups in 2019, I was in a difficult spot mentally and wanted to share my experience by listening. Growing up, my main goal was to get people to smile in the difficult moments and I still believe that is one of the best goals I can put on myself. However, I understand people pleasing can come at a cost so I want to balance that with self-care.  A few months into listening, I realized I was nowhere near that balance, so I took a break. I came back last year to dedicate my time to contributing positively to this community while improving my own skills. Leadership Roles I started out with 7Cups Academy Leadership Program that led me to Care Team. I worked myself from Guide to Quality Mentor. Then from Quality Mentor to Quality Leader. Then, finally, to Ambassador. My path lead me to supporting Listeners but I will never forget that I am here to make Members experience as comfortable and warm as possible. You are worth it.
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vanshikap12
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Hi there! I'm Vanshika, and I'm here to lend an ear and offer support. I believe that everyone deserves to be heard and understood. My goal is to create a warm and welcoming space where you can share your thoughts and feelings without judgment. Life can be tough, but together we can find hope and healing. I'm honored to be a part of your journey! 💖
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Happy2Help18
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I have a lot of personal lived experience in mental health. Personally suffer myself with complex mental health. From Bpd, mixed anxiety, depression, CPTSD, ASD, ADHD, panic disorder and agoraphobia. Second hand experience in dealing with schizophrenia and physchosis, aswell as manic depression and bipolar. I also have lived experience within work stress, family stress, financial difficulties, LGBTQ, Boundaries, Self esteem, eating disorders and more. Take a look at my badges for reference. I've helped others through dark times, anxiety, addiction and other issues. You are not alone.  I'm studying physchology with counselling degree and I am in my 3rd year of studying. I hope one day I can truly make a difference. I'm here to listen and help. :)
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blissart
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Personal request - i dont take  LGBTQ issues .I chat for a maximum of 60 minutes at a time to make sure my focus is solely on you .  Please be aware I will not offer you any advice on your situation or tell you what you should do. Instead I will listen to you with understanding and support you to open up about how you are feeling in a safe and supportive environment. Pls dont substitute this with therapy or counselling
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GoldenRuleJG
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🤍Back 🤍 Any of mentees welcome to reconnect! I’d love to know how you’re doing and others too! FEMALE LISTENER  There are awesome community sessions which are scheduled in various rooms. You can check them out here: 7 Cups Community Calendar [https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php] Please read below about what I try to be as a listener: Although i am not a professional therapist I try to apply my knowledge of psychology, mental health on stuff (p.s. - Undergraduate Bachelors Degree in Psychology completed. YAY 🧡🤩). I aim to be unbiased yet compassionate. Not a fairy godmother. If all the above sounds good let me know if you want a chat.   When the circle near my profile pic is green that means I’m available to talk to you now. If you leave me a message and I don't respond this can because im busy (orange circle) or because im offline (red circle).  *1 hr duration chats * Bright7cups former amazing twinning buddy - thank you ❤️
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CJHere2Help
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Hello! My name is CJ, I'm a 5th-year psychology student on my way to completing a doctorate in clinical psychology. I became a listener on 7 Cups back in 2016 when I was in high school; it has always been my goal to help as many people as I can live happy lives. Everyone has struggles that they go through, and those struggles can be overwhelming. No matter how big or how small, I'm here for you if you need someone to talk to. I hope all of those who read this are having a good day, and if not, feel free to reach out 💜 Here's some stuff I've been I've personally gone through mentally in case you are looking for someone with similar experiences: Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD), agoraphobia, depression, anxiety, panic disorder, and dyslexia. Please read the following before messaging: I know that you may only get a limited amount of chat requests per day on here. If you chat request me, you can message me whenever you need to and I promise I will try to respond as soon as I can. Sadly due to school and work commitments, I do not have much time to check 7 Cups. I try my best to get back to anyone who messages me as soon as I can, although it may take a while at times. There are many other amazing listeners on 7 Cups that are happy to help! My apologies if I cannot get back to you in time, I hope you're doing okay. I hope to get the chance to speak with you and listen to what's on your mind, until then, I hope you enjoy your tea 🍵 Thank you for reading and I look forward to talking to you 💜
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