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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

tranquilSpace222
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I am always keen to learn more about people and understand why they react or behave a certain way they do. Most of the time I don't have a lot to speak so I prefer to listen. And if this ability can be useful both ways then it'll be great.
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TeenWolf
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🧑‍🚒😊Hello My name is Trenton I am a FireFighter/EMT former military as well I have seen many things in this lifetime already and navigated my own struggles however why not use those to help others feel free to private request me if you want lets talk and come up with solutions 😊🧑‍🚒
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uniqueHope
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Hey there! I’m a passionate educator with a degree in English Language and Literature . I’ve spent my time teaching English and Literature, which has helped me develop great communication and organizational skills. I’m all about learning new things and making a positive impact in the community. Right now, I’m exploring opportunities in customer service and administrative roles while keeping my eyes on further studies in international social welfare or human rights. Despite the ups and downs in my job search, I stay motivated and open to new experiences. I believe in the power of connection and love helping others navigate their challenges. Looking forward to new adventures ahead!
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EmpatheticYoungSoul
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Together we can help put a smile on the world 🌎 ❣️ MAKE SURE YOUR TOPIC IS NOT IN THE FOLLOWING : Or you will be referred to another more experienced listener Sexual health Men's Issues Romance/relationship Issues Alcohol/Drug/Substance Abuse Depression Parenting Domestic Violence If you see your topic here, click this link  https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners
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bookworm274
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Not currently taking new member chats  Hi there! I'm bookworm274 but you can just call me bookworm, book or worm. My chat style: My chat times range from 20 minutes (typically a more casual chat) to 60 minutes. However, I am always happy to do longer chats as long as they have been scheduled. Please scroll down to the list that states the topics that I am comfortable taking before asking to chat with me, thank you. Status meanings: My status is typically on Red or Orange, I hardly ever have it on Green. So please feel free to send me a message no matter what colour my status is because I may be on the site! If I'm not on the site when you send me a message then I will get back to you in a minimum of 24 hours as I check 7 Cups at least once a day for messages!  My roles: Verified Listener - I have been verified for my active listening skills which means you can trust that I am a high quality listener! Project Agent - I am a Project Agent for the 7 Cups Leadership Community mainly focusing on the Needs Reply team as the team-lead and onboarding new Forum Supporters but also working on overall subcommunity areas. Listener Twins: @tami150 - my first 7Cups twin - if I'm unavailable check out her account. She's an amazing listener and person and super sweet and helpful!  @Azalea98  - my supportive twin - she's super amazing and is always there to support me!   
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picturesque03afterthought
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Hey, I am not a trained listener. I am just a normal person like you who is here to help others,even if it only means to sit and a have a good chat with you. Although I may not have had the toughest life, I have seen quite a bit and I like to use my experience to help you. I am an Indian, I love music and art passionately, they both are my savior. If I'm online, please feel free to start a chat (Note-  If I am offline or shown as busy, that means I am already talking to a member and won't be able to take anymore chats at the moment )  Always ready for unexpected conversations with gorgeous souls. Take care and don't forget to smile :) Light and Love! “Put your hand on your heart, Inside you , there is a power, there are ideas, thoughts that no one has ever thought of, there is the strength to love, purely and intensely, and to have someone love you back, there is the power to make people happy, and to make people laugh, and the power to change lives and futures. Don't forget that power, and don't ever give up on it.” Remember - life is tough, but so are you. Note—For Listeners, I do not have random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups-related questions and mentoring. When dropping a message, let me know if you seek peer support, mentoring, or chat support.
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freshHug78
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audienta
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Bio in German/auf Deutsch [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YWfxu7AqLNtqkRbzt_u5kePsWKYc6s4jVEkxXFrFdrk/edit] ------------------------- I'm on break throughout January and won't respond to messages. If there's something really urgent please contact the community admins: ASilentObserver (group support), CheeryMango or tommy (sub-communities), or Heather225 (7 Cups community in general) ------------------------- Due to my health, I might be offline for some days without a warning from time to time. But don't worry, eventually I'll come back. Usually, you can expect a response from me within 3 working days. I'm offline during weekends. ------------------------- About me Hey, I am audienta (they/them). I have been here on 7 Cups since 2017, so I have had the chance to gather a lot of experiences I am very grateful for. Sometimes life just does not work like we would like it to, but the conversations showed me again and again how resilient we as human beings are. My own mental and physical health have been challenging me for a while now. I have had to learn how to set boundaries and listen to my own needs. There are days when I can do that and there are others where it does not work. And that is okay. We all give our best to accept and live our life. I had the honour to be interviewed for the Living with Leaders series [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/LivingwithLeaders_2290/InnerWisdomandLight_280987/], so if you want to know more about me, that might be an option. ------------------------- Offers and Boundaries My Offers: Trained, verified active Listener: I take 1-1 member chats which take between 30 and 60 minutes and listen to you. I am a patient and non-judgemental listener. I cannot give you advice, but I can ask questions and am open to offer peer support and share my experiences if you wish that. Adult Teen Listener: I can take chats from adults as well as from teens. Chat Topics that I have experience with and am okay to talk about: * Anxiety * Autism Spectrum Disorder and ADHD * Bullying * Chronic Illness * Disabilities * Dissociative Disorders * LGBTQ+ * Self-Care * Student Life Languages: I can listen to you in English, German and Swissgerman. My Boundaries:  Only offline chats: I'll respond to your messages within 3 working days, but I'm currently not able to do live chats. Chat Topics that I am not able to provide support for because of a lack of experience or trigger risk: * Family Stress * Financial Stress * Parenting * Relationship Stress/Breakups * Self Harm * Sexual Health * Weight Management ------------------------- Projects Trauma Support Community Mentor Leader: I support the trauma support sub-community as a community mentor leader. If you have feedback, questions or ideas regarding this community, please leave me a pm or use this form:  Trauma Sub-Community Feedback Form [https://forms.gle/tvajKJmLKhqfxwrH9] Sub-Community Leadership Team (PA): I'm helping with recruiting and onboarding new forum supporters. Global Community Mentor (aka Forum Flag Team): I help to keep the forum a safe and welcoming place by moderating it. Global Group Moderator: I help to keep the chatrooms a safe and welcoming place for everyone. Adult Teen Listener with the Peter Pan, Teen Chat Support, and Teen Quality Mentor badge: I can provide support to adult and teen listeners. Doorkeeper: You can pm me if you want a room to be opened or closed. ------------------------- Most Important Resources Suicidal ideation, self harm: On 7 Cups we cannot offer crisis support.  7 Cups Crisis [/www.7cups.com/crisis] Chat Support: If you are a listener and need help with an ongoing chat, have a look at the linked document. Chat Support [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit] New Listener Links: If you are a new listener, the following document with a bunch of links might be helpful to you. New Listener Links [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LTMvBFOgWICNHLlfNvzeQf2vkF3PPRn_jQUxJxjASOk/edit] ------------------------- Take care everyone! :) audienta ------------------------- PS: A big thank you to my great peers who showed me so much love, acceptance, and appreciation during the last couple of years! You really made my life a little brighter. Tagging my twinnie @MelodyoftheOcean.
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Trintzu
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Please note! I am currently not taking any new 121 chats. Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups. I'm Trin, a trained and verified female listener and I like to help. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Just keep in mind, that I am in Eastern European Standard Time (GMT+2).  In addition to 121 chats, I have more roles on 7 Cups: Peer Support Verified Listener Listener Room Supporter Cultivate appreciation by appreciating any 7 Cups member or listener through the peer appreciation program. Use the form below as often as you'd like! Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]
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TrippleStar
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Talk to me.
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NaturalEmpath
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Transgender(he/him), INFJ, Active Listener, Outdoor Enthusiast, Hiker, Fisherman, Amateur Nature Photographer.  My goal is to spread kindness and clarity to those in need. I do not provide advice but can offer a listening ear and helpful resources.  The topics I am most comfortable providing support for are LGBTQ+, Addiction/Recovery, Anxiety, Bullying, Breakups, Depression, Disabilities, Domestic Violence, Family Stress, Forgiveness, Getting Unstuck, Grief, Managing Emotions, Panic Attacks, PTSD, Racial & Cultural Identity, Relationship Stress, Self-Esteem, Social Anxiety, and Work Stress.  My inbox is open 24/7, I will respond as I am available.
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Ranagade1126
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Sometimes i wish i was young again that way i would be ignorant and i would be immune to the corruption in the world i wouldn't be apart of that corruption and its funny how tempting it is to be part of something something that hurts it tears and bites and punches and kicks it makes its way into us and no one is immune to that and even if we were it won't be stopped because we accept its appealing to us we cherish it because it cherishes us it accepts us and comforts us it is warm and we are dark and cold and pale and it is warm so we want it we want the fire and that fire is small like a seed and it begins to sprout it grows and grows and grows and grows its edges are sharp it cuts into us its edges are violent while we are tamed but this is attractive and soon we are not tamed we break free from the leash and we grow with that flame at first that flame was warm but now that flame burns it catches anything it can latching on creating its nest and this nest is permanent this nest is sharp too it draws blood and tears and its funny how we return to that nest because all it does is hurt but we like that so we come back we come back and we continue to come back because its safe this nest is built upon lies and we enjoy this because lies are comforting they are consistent they tell us what we want to hear and the truth the truth is too much so we ignore it we reject it and we continue to live in fantasies because fantasies are beautful fantasies give us hope life dreams love because anything can happen in fantasie and nothing can happen in the real world theres too much stopping us. we are human so of course we will be stopped we are human so things will always remain the same. It is never ending and there is nothing to stop it. I am still a Human, just like the everyone. Last time I remember when I was wounded, I did lose Human Blood.
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