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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

KristenHR
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If you request a chat, you'll need to state your purpose.  I ONLY take chats from those working on recovery from eating disorders and trauma (with PTSD & Dissociation) and those making decision on college and careers.   I am not available to chat real-time any longer, but we can message back and forth.  I spend most of my support time in the Eating Disorder community due to my time limitations of committing to long-term chats.  https://www.7cups.com/forum/eds/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/eds/].  I love life.  I enjoy helping.  My focus is recovery from abuse and sexual trauma, eating disorders and dissociation.  I have interests in university internships and career development.  I am a Christian and that gives me strength. If you are wanting faith-based support, please let me know. I know that for some individuals, Christians have been very hurtful. If you are not a Christian, I'm not here to judge or impose my spiritual beliefs - I'm here to listen. I will not talk to you about God unless you ask to talk about faith.  I do not take theological chats. https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?p1=179 - Time Zone Converter:  Eastern Time is New York time. My involvement with 7 Cups: Listener - Eating Disorders, Trauma, PTSD, Dissociation, Careers & College (Including internships) Community Mentor - Eating Disorder Community Mentor Leader  - Verified Listener Team
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highlyintuition1
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(UPDATE 2021-02-08 The ONLY issues I listen to are *financial loss issues, (Men and women) *domestic violence issues,*(Women only) anxiety issues(Women only), *spiritual issues ( Men and Women). If you have any ISSUES with people of color do not message me. ”I Do NOT LISTEN to ANY Self harm issues or LGTB issues, I have zero knowledge on the subject! Matter. (If you refuse to tell the Whole Truth I can't help you-depending on what mood you are in I can suggest out of millions of songs a specific song to listen to, that will help you through this temporary pain in your life...).Hi and welcome all of any background! !! And thanks for choosing me on 7cupsoftea!!! I look forward to helping all!! If you are, dealing with domestic violence,heartbreak,financial stress(stocks literally Change my entire life ), Or a parent/sibling dealing with special needs children  im here to listen if needed!! I enjoy being with my son, traveling , writing scripts ,attending sporting events, driving with the convertible top down. and of course lending a ear ( people tend to just come to me.)I can be standing in line at the supermarket and someone will say, (I don't know why but I think you can help me can I ask you a question lol) I just have a very understanding spirit! Hope to help someone (life is worth living no matter what you are going through) so come on in and relax and let's get to the root of it!!           
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bigDreamer66
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Hello! Welcome to 7 Cups! I am here for you.
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amiablePeace77
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I'm sorry but I'm not able to take any 1:1 chats other than the regulars.  If you are looking for a listener please browse here https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ Hello,  I’m  Ami,  a verified listener on 7cups. My support will be confidential, without any judgement. There are no topics which make me feel uncomfortable and I will do everything I can to make you feel welcome, safe and understood.  7 Cups is not equipped to support crisis situations. If you are in crisis please reach out to a crisis line for appropriate support. Here are some sourced crisis lines and resources to help you: * (U.S.) The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline [https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/] at 1-800-273-8255 * Crisis Text Lin [https://www.crisistextline.org/texting-in]e * (U.S.) Text HOME to 741741 * (Canada) Text HOME to 686868 * International Association for Suicide Prevention [https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/] * Canada call 1-833-456-4566or text 45645 Crisis Services Canada [http://www.crisisservicescanada.ca/]  * UK * Call Samaritans [https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/talk-us-phone/] 116 123 * Call Hopeline [https://papyrus-uk.org/hopelineuk/] 080020068204141 or text 0778620209697 * Australia Lifeline Crisis Support  [https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/topics/lifeline-services] call  13 11 14 * India click the link to find a local crisis line with Befrienders India [http://befriendersindia.net/helpline-details.php] My listening times are Monday to Friday  as per arrangement , usually my listening time will be 45 to 60 min. once a week or 2 x 30 min. twice a week. A few things about me: Some of my favorite activities are exercising,  yoga,  meditation,  nature walks and cooking. My approach to life is holistic, keeping the mind, body and spirits balanced. I consider living in harmony with nature  very important. I had many challenges in my life and learned to cope and overcome them and would be glad to support you to achieve the same.  Volunteering here on 7 cups  means a lot to be,   I am very passionate about helping others. I want to acknowledge the courage that it takes to reach out, this is not easy, but you made the first step. Please feel free to message me any time, I promise I will get back to you as soon as I can.
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lovelyRose21
L Proficient 6 1934
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I'm understanding and I care about other people  
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sweetnutella
L Master 8 820
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 NOTICE: NOT ACCEPTING SEXUAL OR CASUAL CHATS. Feel free to chat when my status is Online/green. If not, I will not accept impromptu real-time chats. All real-time chats have to be booked in advance by clicking the button located at the very end of my bio. You are welcome to leave offline messages; however, I cannot guarantee a prompt response in such cases. ━━━━━༺❀༻━━━━━ ✧・゚: *✧・゚:* About Me *:・゚✧*:・゚✧ ━━━━━༺❀༻━━━━━ Hi! My name is Nutella. I decided to become a listener on 7 Cups as someone with experience in a decade of real-life therapy to extend my support beyond traditional therapy settings. By volunteering as a listener, I aim to leverage my personal experience to provide valuable emotional support and guidance to those in need through a virtual space. Personality Types XNTJ (I am an ambivert) Enneagram Type 3 Chaotic neutral Gemini Hobbies & Interests Language learning: I'm on a journey to master the Japanese language. Fashion: I'm an aspiring fashion designer and heavily influenced by the dark feminine aesthetic. Management business: I'm interested in all talk about business and how to conduct one. Music: I'm a huge fan of dark R&B, metal, and alternative/progressive music. ✰ Current Roles ✰ Adult-Teen Listener Forum Supporter Quality Mentor Peer Supporter Care Team Guide ✰ Past Roles ✰ Verifier Team Global Chatroom Moderator ღ Listening Focus ღ Depression & Anxiety Work & School Stress Mindfulness & Wellness Bipolar Disorder Personality Disorders ღ Topics I Don't Normally Listen to ღ These are the areas that I have the least understanding at. I won't shy away from them completely, but if you are approaching me with these issues, just keep this in mind. Religions and spirituality Relationship stress Breakups ⚘ Sessions & Availability ⚘ My timezone is UTC+7 and I'm available mostly during the weekends. BOOK ME NOW [https://www.picktime.com/sweetnutella] Important Links for Mentees Mentorship Expectations [https://justpaste.it/MentorshipExpectations] Mock Chat Practise Expectations [https://justpaste.it/MockChatExpectations] Browse Listeners Page [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] Get Help in Listener Support Room [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=k2dmeXmbkuJO42uXh1iY] ━━━━━༺❀༻━━━━━ Remember: "Healing is not linear and everyone's journey is unique. Patiently here to support yours." Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] ━━━━━༺❀༻━━━━
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Sventek
L Marvel 8 2519
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“Be a lamp, or a lifeboat, or a ladder. Help someone's soul heal. Walk out of your house like a shepherd.” ― Rumi About Me I am here to offer focused, short-term support for relationship issues, including marriage, dating, alternative relationships (including polyamory or open relationships), and sexual matters for both men and women. If you're looking for a long-term Listener, I encourage you to find someone else on 7 Cups who can provide consistent care, as my work schedule is unpredictable. What I Handle: * Relationship challenges * Infidelity * Sexual concerns * Open and closed relationship dynamics What I Don't Handle: * Any issues outside of relationships or sexual concerns * Long-term support I do not engage in Listener Chats and only speak with member accounts, in line with 7 Cups' sitewide policy. That policy is located here: https://www.7cups.com/forum/7cupsleadership/SafetyGuidelines_1374/ForumGuidelinesExpanded8ListenerBoundaries_175467/ I am direct, factual, and sometimes blunt, but always fair and non-judgmental. If you prefer sugar-coated advice, I may not be the right Listener for you. However, if you're seeking honest, straightforward support, I'm here to help. Background: I hold an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy (Summa Cum Laude) and am currently pursuing my Doctorate in the same field, which I expect to complete in January 2025. My MA in Psychology will be completed at the end of Summer 2025. In my academic pursuit, balance is everything. You can CHOOSE me as your Listener. If my approach resonates with you.
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audienta
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Bio in German/auf Deutsch [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YWfxu7AqLNtqkRbzt_u5kePsWKYc6s4jVEkxXFrFdrk/edit] ------------------------- Due to my health, I might be offline for some days without a warning from time to time. But don't worry, eventually I'll come back. Usually, you can expect a response from me within 3 working days. I'm offline during weekends. ------------------------- About me Hey, I am audienta (they/them). I have been here on 7 Cups since 2017, so I have had the chance to gather a lot of experiences I am very grateful for. Sometimes life just does not work like we would like it to, but the conversations showed me again and again how resilient we as human beings are. My own mental and physical health have been challenging me for a while now. I have had to learn how to set boundaries and listen to my own needs. There are days when I can do that and there are others where it does not work. And that is okay. We all give our best to accept and live our life. I had the honour to be interviewed for the Living with Leaders series [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/LivingwithLeaders_2290/InnerWisdomandLight_280987/], so if you want to know more about me, that might be an option. ------------------------- Offers and Boundaries My Offers: Trained, verified active Listener: I take 1-1 member chats which take between 30 and 60 minutes and listen to you. I am a patient and non-judgemental listener. I cannot give you advice, but I can ask questions and am open to offer peer support and share my experiences if you wish that. Adult Teen Listener: I can take chats from adults as well as from teens. Chat Topics that I have experience with and am okay to talk about: * Anxiety * Autism Spectrum Disorder and ADHD * Bullying * Chronic Illness * Dissociative Disorders * LGBTQ+ * Self-Care * Student Life Languages: I can listen to you in English, German and Swissgerman. My Boundaries:  Only offline chats: I'll respond to your messages within 3 working days, but I'm currently not able to do live chats. Chat Topics that I am not able to provide support for because of a lack of experience or trigger risk: * Family Stress * Financial Stress * Parenting * Relationship Stress/Breakups * Self Harm * Sexual Health * Weight Management ------------------------- Projects Trauma Support Community Mentor Leader: I support the trauma support sub-community as a community mentor leader. If you have feedback, questions or ideas regarding this community, please leave me a pm or use this form:  Trauma Sub-Community Feedback Form [https://forms.gle/tvajKJmLKhqfxwrH9] Sub-Community Leadership Team (PA): I'm helping with recruiting and onboarding new forum supporters. Global Community Mentor (aka Forum Flag Team): I help to keep the forum a safe and welcoming place by moderating it. Quality Mentor: As a mentor, I can take you as a mentee. I can help you improve your listening skills, do mock chats with you, give you resources, provide emotional support, and answer your questions. Chat Supporter: If you struggle with an ongoing chat, I can provide tips and resources to you. I can do that either in the Listener Support Room, or, if you need to describe the chat with more than 5 words, in the pms.  Adult Teen Listener with the Peter Pan, Teen Chat Support, and Teen Quality Mentor badge: I can provide support to adult and teen listeners. Doorkeeper: You can pm me if you want a room to be opened or closed. ------------------------- Most Important Resources Suicidal ideation, self harm: On 7 Cups we cannot offer crisis support.  7 Cups Crisis [/www.7cups.com/crisis] Chat Support: If you are a listener and need help with an ongoing chat, have a look at the linked document. Chat Support [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit] New Listener Links: If you are a new listener, the following document with a bunch of links might be helpful to you. New Listener Links [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LTMvBFOgWICNHLlfNvzeQf2vkF3PPRn_jQUxJxjASOk/edit] ------------------------- Take care everyone! :) audienta ------------------------- PS: A big thank you to my great peers who showed me so much love, acceptance, and appreciation during the last couple of years! You really made my life a little brighter. Tagging my twinnie @MelodyoftheOcean.
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SoothingHope
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Hi. Im Traci. A Verified listener. Im here to listen to you, but that does not mean i have all the solutions to your 'problems', as im a not a 'listener' by profession. "The most authentic thing about us is our capacity to create, to ocercome, to eendure, to transform, to love and to be greater than our suffering". I hope u do feel better after talking to me.                  
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MissGHereWheneverYouNeedIt
L Intermediate 3 258
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Hey you! :) I'm glad you found this site and I hope you feel that you can talk about anything you like with me. I'm a trained listener and became one as this community has also helped me through a lot of darker times. So I know how much of a difference to life just knowing people are there for you, can make things, and I wanted to do the same for others. I'm in my thirties and enjoy reading, dancing, writing, tennis, drawing, making music, learning about people, sunshine and travelling. (In no particular order!). İf my status is set to offline then it's probably unlikely I'll be able to listen, as I'm now a mum these days, but if it's set to online, then please feel free to reach out!
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GentleAngel10
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Hello there. Life gets difficult at times, I say this because I know. I’ve been through a lot of hardships myself, barely surviving each day. But I’ve learnt to take life one day at a time, atleast that’s how I survive. I’m a doctor, with a special interest in psychiatry, but that’s not why I’m here. I’m here because like you, I also felt emotions that I couldn’t just explain to anyone around me. And it helped just talking and ranting, even if it was to a complete stranger. So, if you’re in need to just vent out whatever it is you’re feeling, I’m here. And I’ll try my best to help. Cheers!! 🌸
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Construction
L Epitome 19 13179
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I only work on relationships that are: Current, Active and In Person between F/M, F/F, M/M. I do NOT work on the following types of topics: Friends, Family, Work, Crush, Break Ups, Loneliness, Anxiety or Long Distance Relationships .. I also work on Women's Issues Sexual Health topics are mostly ok as long as it is not a made up fantasy. I am NOT able to assist with Depression or Anxiety situations. My apologies I have made the choice to specialize in the type of chats that I participate in based on my experience here to date and what I have been successful with. Thanks for your understanding. I want you to connect with the best listener for you. With that in mind..... I will chat with you openly and honestly without judgement. Many times there is not a perfect solution. Sometimes just the best bad option at the time. My sole purpose is not to simply offer advice or to be an empathy machine. I’m not here to tell you how to feel or tell your what to do. I do feel what you say and do my best. 
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