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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

lovingMaria
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themerlin
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I am deeply passionate about helping others and providing a listening ear to those in need because I understand firsthand the pain and struggles that life can bring. After experiencing my own share of hurt and challenges, I have come to realize the immense importance of having someone to confide in and share burdens with. It is heartbreaking to see others going through similar difficulties and feeling alone in their struggles, which is why I am driven to be there for them in their time of need. I believe that everyone deserves to have a safe space where they can express themselves freely without fear of judgment or criticism. My own experiences have taught me the power of empathy and understanding, and I am committed to being the supportive presence that I wished I had during my own darkest moments. By offering compassion, empathy, and a non-judgmental listening ear, I hope to provide solace and support to those who are navigating their own challenges. I want to be the person that I never had – someone who genuinely cares and is willing to listen without reservation or prejudice.
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Bestwillow45
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   इच्छाओं की सड़क तो बहुत      दूर तक जाती हैं.............      बेहतर यही है कि हम ज़रूरतो      की गली में मुड़ जाएं.........!!
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raymaniii
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a ray of golden sun ☀️ ***  verified listener  safety patrol team Accepting long-term members so feel free to message me if you need long-term support ***  
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Kiwii7
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It is those who get lost who finds new ways! I am here to listen to you.
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KaylaBella
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I am on an extended self-care break. I will not be taking 1-1 chats at this time 💕  Hello my wonderful loves!🥰 My name is Kayla.💕 My nicknames are: Bells, Bella, Kay, Kayla, Bellaboo I would like to start out by saying that I am super excited to be here as a listener! I have been here for almost 10 years now, and Cups is a huge part of my life and my heart.    🌸💕🌸💕🌸 A little bit about me: I have been through a lot of trauma and challenges in my life. Without all of the those, I wouldn't be who I am today and I wouldn't change anything given the chance. 🥰 I have personal experience with many different  areas of Addiction as well as sexual trauma. I am very passionate about listening to and helping others. You guys are my passion!! 🌸💕🌸💕🌸 Everything listed below as chats that I take, are issues that I have personal experience with. 💕 If it is listed as chats I do not take, please do not request me as I will not be able to help you ♥️ 🌸💕🌸💕🌸 HOURS I AM AVAILABLE ***(Hours are subject to change dependent upon my personal life)*** Monday through Friday: 4:00PM - 6:00PM EST time Saturdays: 5:00PM - 10:00PM EST time every other Saturday Sundays: Self-Care Day, Not available for chats, May take a few but it truly depends on the circumstances of the day for me ***If I am offline when you message me, I will respond as soon as I can!*** CHATS I TAKE✅: Work Stress Panic Attacks Alcohol/Drug Abuse Chronic Pain Family Stress Forgiveness Parenting PTSD Relationship Stress Women's Issues Self Esteem Spirituality CHATS I DO NOT TAKE❌: Anxiety Depression Sexual Health (I will not take any chats that are sexual in any nature. Whether that be fantasies, roleplays, or in general sexual health.) Domestic Violence Grief Loneliness Men's Issues  Personality Disorders Self-Harm Schizophrenia  Everything that is said between me and you will remain between me and you. 💕  Remember: YOU ARE ENOUGH! AND YOU ARE LOVED! ♥️ Looking to spread some cheer?  Maybe shout out a fellow member or listener for how great they are?  Click the button below to spread some smiles🥰 Peer Appreciation Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/viewform] Community Projects I am a part of: ⭕ Chatroom Moderator for Positivity & Gratitude Community ✨ ⭕ Chatroom Moderator for Newbie Hub ✨  ⭕ Listener Chatroom Supporter ✨ ⭕ Star Leader for Peer Appreciation Team  ✨ ⭕ Discussion Host for Positivity & Gratitude Community ✨ ⭕ Doorkeeper ✨ Listener Twins: @OllieRNLI999 💕 & @MindfulJourney22 💕 Mentors: @Kristynsmama🌸 & @Sunisshiningandsoareyou🌸 LINKS FOR MEMBERS Moderator/Listener Review Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScmfpQqScgcFxOSHveQfbP52m-XNu-DBC6oK7ieTHrGQ4hJ3w/viewform]  Why did I get this warning? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/InformationUpdates_822/underconstruction_44686/]  Member FAQ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/InformationUpdates_822/GroupSupportMemberFAQ_37007/]  Group Support Chat Room Emergency [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScRXkwrrPicWRzUvBPYq2wrblHE5HexqFmVA3k3B4QLEoNyHw/viewform]  Report A Missing Discussion/Event [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe8EnUN-ZDdjEBQDP5D6-vi2noQdLndJ2H13woo89UhxlkhlQ/viewform]  Welcome Packet for New Members [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CL9Yu_6zixlapOjdrhCgKLy9JN5wY3HWdrGH7PIO2WI] LINKS FOR LISTENERS Sign Up to be a Group Mod [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScX7nNahJocq0tgDYBesRicWxTfExFCe5QMI-O-04K-qBjZrA/viewform] Sign Up to be a Room Supporter [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSetyJ7jp7W52-EIpqvFYLhfmpsgTW4BbzUwmi9r22OQ9AdH8w/viewform] Become a Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/PeerSupportForum_397/PeerSupportBadgeGetInvolvedSupportTheCommunity_2474/1/] Join a Support Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/KatesCave_1395/JoinASupportTeamUpdatedInfo_102743/]  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/KatesCave_1395/JoinASupportTeamUpdatedInfo_102743/] New Listener Hub [https://www.7cups.com/home/welcome/?notifyID=178791978]
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MUW
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I'm MUW. Thank you for taking the time to visit my page! [https://www.7cups.com/11460628] I’m currently taking new members  [https://www.7cups.com/11460628]  [https://www.7cups.com/11460628] Feel free to send me a message and I'll get back to you as soon as possible. It would be great if you could let me know what time it is you're usually available at. I'm comfortable talking about any issue you have, or having general chit-chat. -Welcome Team   -Verified Listener  -Verifying Team -Listener Event Team -Peer Support -Accepts long-term members -Community Guidelines, Best Practices & Internet Safety manager   If you would like to browse other listeners, click here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] If you would like to support 7cups, click here [https://www.7cups.com/backus/] If you would like to refer somebody to me, please share this with them: https://www.7cups.com/11460628 [https://www.7cups.com/11460628] My referral button:  [https://www.7cups.com/11460628]     [http://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.sevencupsoftea.app&utm_source=7cupsfooter]           [https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/7CupsOfTea/id921814681?utm_source=7cupsfooter]            [https://www.7cups.com/backus/]  
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iStarlight
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CALL ME STARRY Feel Free for chats, I will listen to you no matter what, I can feel your pain whenever you share yours with me. PLEASE NOTE  I dont do sexual talks, men's issue, and sexual health.Please dont force me talking about this topics, which really makes me uncomfortable   its better if you people search for a listener who are ok with talking about this above mentioned FOR BIPOLAR PEOPLE I have gained certificate and training on UNDERSTANDING BIPOLAR, feel sure to chat about your issues so that i can with there for you all and make sure you all feel safe with me while texting me and share everything I will try my best to give you all your time whenever it's about yourself. I am your own people, no matter what I'm always there for you. Promise you that you are the best, you are an angel, and you are meant to happiest person alive.
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kindLemonade
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I am not taking on any new member chat. Please find other listeners >here< [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] Due to commitments offline, I am unable to support you as much as I wish to. I am currently working full-time, so it's difficult to find time to give you the best of me, as a listener. Thank you for reading. Progress Not Perfection  When life gives you Lemonade, practice mindfulness ‣Free Mindfulness Exercises > [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]HERE [https://www.7cups.com/exercises/mindfulness/]< [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] What are your favorite self-care activities?  TWINNIE ‣ 🐺 [https://emojipedia.org/emoji/%F0%9F%90%BA/] Wolfie Twinnie: @DigitalKnight ‣ 🎶 Events Twinnie: @Star996  ‣ ❤️ [https://emojipedia.org/red-heart/#:~:text=A%20classic%20red%20love%20heart,other%20for%20two%20consecutive%20weeks.] Room Supporter Twinnie: @MilaTheListener ‣ 👽 Alien Twinnie: @mentalspace7cup [https://www.7cups.com/@mentalspace7cup]   ‣ 🎨 Multipotentialite [http://www.ted.com/talks/emilie_wapnick_why_some_of_us_don_t_have_one_true_calling?language=en#t-181079] Twinnie:  @AriadneLove (she made my profile picture!) ‣ 👭🏼 Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/PeerSupport_397/UpcomingPeerSupportTrainingDiscussions_253073/]Twinnie: @unique73 ‣💅 Self-care & Higs Twinnie: @jovialButterfly6752 MY PAST ROLES  I am a verified listener, mentor, and global forum supporter on 7cups ACADEMY ‣Academy Mentor for CDM (Content Development & Marketing) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ContentVolunteerTeam_198/ContentDevelopmentandMarketingProgramCDM_2192/] & GLDD ‣Graduate for GLDD, LDP & Internship, QLP & CDM (with honors)  ‣Project agent for LDP SUB-COMMUNITY ‣Co-Support Team Leader for Healthy Living ‣Chatroom Moderator for Healthy Living, Positivity & Gratitude, Mindfulness Center OTHERS ‣Peer Supporter ‣Listener Chatroom Supporter ‣Doorkeeper ‣Discussion Host for Listener Discussion, Peer Support Discussion, ALE sessions, Pop-up events, Past: LCI, LSC, SC ‣Others: Team Lightship, Project Agent for Sharing Circle & Listener Sharing Circle 
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sia1325
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-Inactive- Feel free to click here to check my farewell post!  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GeneralSupport_28/DiscussionsSelfCareandResources_931/ListenersFarewellTakingaBreakReturningThreadSendYourRegards_37727/8/#2857905] ~Not accepting any member chat~ My name is Sia and I'm so glad to have you here! I may or may not relate to your situation, but I promise to try my best to understand what you are experiencing. I believe that having support is more valuable than having direct solutions to our problems and it would be my pleasure to support you in any way I can. I highly believe in acknowledging and reacting and once we acknowledge the problems & take steps towards them, we are two steps closer to improvement. My chats are always a non-judgmental, compassionate and safe place for everyone. I admire you so much for being there for yourself and reaching out for support. I may not be able to solve your problems, but I can surely be a companion on your path towards healing. Your feelings are valid and I truly believe in you, your inner self who believes that things will improve. You aren't alone and no matter how hard your current situation is, I am certain that you will overcome it. Stay you because you are truly wonderful. Much love! ♥  ──────⊹⊱✼⊰⊹──────   ~Few clickable resources that you may find useful~ | Crisis Resource [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis] | Runaway Safeline [https://www.1800runaway.org/] | Live through this [https://livethroughthis.org/] | RAINN [https://www.rainn.org/news/rainns-new-app-offers-support-anytime-anywhere] | IMAlive [https://www.imalive.org/] | Project Semicolon [https://projectsemicolon.com/] | Grounding Techniques [https://www.healthline.com/health/grounding-techniques] | Childline [https://www.childline.ie/] | HelpGuide [https://www.helpguide.org/] | Su*c*de Hotlines [http://www.suicide.org/] | Love is respect [https://www.loveisrespect.org/get-help/] |  Self-Harm Distraction [http://www.selfinjury-staging.com/perch/resources/distraction-techniques-pm-1.pdf] | Practicing Self-Love [https://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-12428/10-wonderful-ways-to-practice-selflove.html] | The Trevor Project [http://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help-now/] | Overcoming negative thoughts [https://www.happify.com/] | Overcome Social Anxiety [https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/565957/tips-for-overcoming-social-anxiety-disorder] | Find Free Mental Health Services [https://www.healthyplace.com/other-info/mental-illness-overview/free-mental-health-services-and-how-to-find-them] | Self Help resources [https://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/Resources/Looking-After-Yourself] | How To Get Control Over Thoughts [http://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/abcde.htm] | Dealing With Panic Attacks [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportShareYourStoryHowdoyoufeelrightnow_667/Panic_191059/] | Coping w/ flashbacks [https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/flashbacks] | Warmline [https://warmline.org/] | Domestic Violence [https://www.thehotline.org/] | Self-Harm Alternatives [https://becausewecandothistogether.tumblr.com/alternativesforselfharm] | Calming and Relaxing Gifs [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/Gifstohelpyourelaxandcalmyoudown_54192/1/] | Coping with Panic Attacks [http://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupportCommunity_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/TipstoCopewithaPanicAttack_50795/?notifyID=164697429] | Self-Care Techniques [https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/selfcare] | Grounding101 [https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/grounding101] | Dealing with teen depression [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/depression/teenagers-guide-to-depression.htm] | Coping with depression [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/depression/coping-with-depression.htm] | Showing love to yourself [https://www.7cups.com/forum/MindfulnessSupportCommunity_106/MindfulnessPracticesSkills_490/HowCanIShowLoveToMyself_101447/1/] | Self care [https://www.7cups.com/forum/BipolarSchizophreniaPsychosisSupport_63/BipolarSupport_589/SelfCare_207145/] | Boosting Self-esteem [https://www.skillsyouneed.com/ps/self-esteem.html] | Self-Harm Alternatives 2.0 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SelfHarmRecovery_65/InformationandResources_1079/SELFHARMALTERNATIVES_2480/] | Reducing Self- Injury [https://chooserecovery.tumblr.com/post/69035624465/its-not-as-simple-as-just-stop-a-guide-to-reducing] | Handling Anxiety Attacks [https://chooserecovery.tumblr.com/anxiety] | Self-Harm Alternatives and Distractions [https://chooserecovery.tumblr.com/alternatives] | Coping with loneliness [https://www.7cups.com/forum/DepressionSupport_52/CopingwithLoneliness_599/CopingwithLoneliness_252302/] | Stress relief [https://www.pixelthoughts.co/] | Atlas of Emotions [http://atlasofemotions.org/] | Healthy Distractions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GeneralSupport_28/SelfCareandResources_931/AnExtensiveListofHealthyDistractionsSelfLoveTechniques_53317/] | Healthy living tips [https://www.anxietycanada.com/sites/default/files/HealthyLiving.pdf] | Bullying & Cyber Bullying [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/bullying-and-cyberbullying.htm] | Managing Anger [https://www.skillsyouneed.com/ps/anger-management.html] | Healthy sleep tips [https://www.sleepfoundation.org/sleep-hygiene/healthy-sleep-tips] | Healthy Relationships [https://www.thehotline.org/resources/healthy-relationships/] | Dealing w/ rejection [https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/relationships/a30719895/how-to-deal-with-rejection/] | (Click here to check out these resources in a document format) [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1icuMsYk9d2B1iUvDCI_nABXg-mhYMKTqzZmSuTcwxws/edit?usp=sharing] ( last updated January 2022   ──────⊹⊱✼⊰⊹──────  ~Some people I admire~ @beach120 @calmingMermaid5761 @EmmaE @Basorexiaaa @Mango3 @SillyGoose11 @optimisticMagic0014 @shiningSky3745 @considerateParadise6717 @kieran000 @Iamsidhere @mamtasha22 @ShiningStars1 @Jessrabbit7 @HelpfulGem04 @SeriouslyLey123 @itssoren @empatheticLavender2924 @VicK5123 @whenitsdarklookforstars @Greenchoice1 @BeautyOfGrace @thisisirene @MikuoniandBlueCheese @starmelon7 @HealingBrokenWIngs (in no particular order) ──────⊹⊱✼⊰⊹──────  My Past Involvements Active Listening Test 2 Grading Team, Care Team Guide, Chat Support and Peer Support, Doorkeeper, Forum Supporter, Global Chatroom Moderator, LDP Mentor, Listener Coach, Listener Chatroom Supporter, Listener Verifier, Safety Patrol Team Member, Teen Chatroom Star, Teen Community Star, Teen Quality Star and Teen Listener Coaching team Teen Star Leader  Click here to visit the most amazing person’s profile! [https://www.7cups.com/110900955]
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Minervaaa
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find your fire
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Willofheart
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Hey there! You can call me Viv/Will and I've been here on 7Cups for 7 long years!  Feel free to talk to me about anything! I'm happy to listen. 💚 A little about me : I've seen a lot of death around me since I was a child and got used to separation and abandonment from an early age to a point where I became completely numb to it, learned to let go of attachments the hard way. The beautiful result of that however, I now value every minute of my life! I'm introverted but also have a keen interest in helping and getting to know people better  Life's a beautiful and intricate balance between light and necessary darkness) My hobbies include playing music., blogging, drawing/sketching, clicking nature photography and listening! This is me in a nutshell. I'm on IST time, active everyday. Looking forward to getting to know you 😊
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