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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Riveter
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Hey there! Welcome to my profile. I’m Riveter, and I look forward to chatting with you. 🙂 I joined 7 Cups 🍵 as a listener in December 2024. Chat topics I’m most comfortable with include student/work stress, sexual health, LGBTQ+ issues, and family/relationship stress. Chat topics I’m unable to take are eating disorders, weight management, addictions, dissociative disorders, and grief. Outside of Cups, I work professionally as a data scientist 🧑‍💻 in the education research sector and have a background in analytics and mathematics. I'm currently also a PhD student 🧑‍🏫 and enjoy talking with people and learning about different lived experiences. Beyond work and student life, I'm a musician 🎷 and a writer ✏️. I enjoy reading 📚, and I also regularly practice yoga 🧘 and take group fitness classes 🤸. I'm the oldest sibling of three, and I'm married with three cats 😺😺😺, several fish 🐟, and a snail 🐌.  I joined as a listener because I found support here as a member and wanted to give back, so I'm happy to hear you out and give you a safe space to share what's on your mind. My communication style is pretty flexible. I don’t mind you scheduling a set time to meet with me or just sending offline messages, so long as you respect that I may not always respond super quickly, whichever dynamic works best for you. However, if you need undivided attention, I do ask that you please schedule a time with me. I appreciate, in advance, you understanding and respecting my boundaries!  If you feel like I could be a good match for your listening needs, please leave a message, and I'll get back to you when I can!
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hopefulmoon5845
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Hey there lovely souls! I'm Hope! I'm a trained listener looking forward to listen to you and fill the light of hope in people who need it.  Topics I can't support: - LGBT+ issues - sexual health and sex related chats - parenting  Feel free to message me if these are not the topics you need support with. I'll be happy to help you with everything else!  Before pushing the chat option please read these: I'm unavailable at the weekends, in week days you can text me and expect me to text you back within 24 hours - Green light : I'm available and ready to chat - Red Light : I am not available for a few hours at least - Orange light: I'm already busy with another member. Leave message I will try to get back to you asap. I don't take roleplay or casual chats. I'm taking support chats only. Listening twin: @SparksFly 💞 All credits to @brightOcean1599 for this creative profile photo💖
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EvelyneRose
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Hello! I chose the picture of an apple because it represents to me growth and potential. The apple can grow to become the best apple it can be. I think we all have potential, and I also believe that most people are not solely good or bad- we are a combination of light and dark. That's just human nature. I've been here since 2013, and I am now in my 30s. I have always been told I'm a good listener and person to come to. People have come to me years after talking to them because they remembered I was someone to confide in. I like to think of myself as open minded, non judgmental, and compassionate. I try to be honest, but tactfully so. I find the best people in my life are those that tell me what I need to hear, not what I want to hear, and that is something I practice with others. I hope to be here for you, and I will cheerlead you on. I cannot give advice, but I will be a support for you. I take casual chats, so even if you're just bored or need someone to talk to and don't have a pressing issue, I am happy to talk to you.  My strengths lie in the subjects I have listed on my profile, so I will not be the best fit for everyone (and that is okay!). I hope everyone can get the help they need from whoever it is, even if it's not me. If I cannot help you, I will let you know and try to connect you with someone that can. I do the best with chats that can be asynchronous, as my schedule varies and I don't want to promise I can sit down for a real time chat if I cannot. That is unfair to both of us time wise, and time is a precious thing. Updated March 23, 2023 I have joined the admin team as a Quality Specialist for the volunteer community. I am still involved in all the things below, but as I am now involved widely across the site in different ways, if you need to know who to talk to regarding any of the below activities, please PM me and I will direct you to who you should talk to, whether it be me or someone else. If you have questions about anything Quality related, please PM me!
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Bubbles2025
L Maven 10 579
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👋 Hello! Welcome to my profile. You can call me Bubbles, and I am a verified listener on 7 cups. Please read below to see if I am a good fit for you  ✦•······················•✦•······················•✦ 💫 Availability 💫 🌸 I am pretty flexible on when I am available at the moment, but please bear with me for my first reply, as sometimes I don't get the notification.  🌸 As of right now, I only take personal requests/pms. Even if I am showing as offline, I am 99% of the time online, so just send me a message and I will respond when I can.  🌸 Chats are about 30-45 minutes usually, however, I do take long-term members and chats, I am very happy to share the time that is needed to help you all feel heard.  🌸 I am available on weekends but response times are slower. 🌸 If you feel like we had a good chat, don’t hesitate to give me a review and rating : ). i always enjoy feedback.  ⋅•⋅⊰∙∘☽༓☾∘∙⊱⋅•⋅ ✨ 7 cups roles/involvements ✨ 🌙 I am a verified listener  🌙 Peer Support  🌙ATL 🌙 Chat Support 🌙 Listener Chatroom Supporter  🌙 Chatroom Mentor  🌙 Community Leader  🌙 Listener Verifier  🌙 Teen Chatroom Mentor  🌙 Community Mod (Newbie Hub)  🌙 Smile Spreader  ₊˚ ‿︵‿︵‿︵୨୧ · · ♡ · · ୨୧‿︵‿︵‿︵ ˚₊ Chats I DO NOT take:  💬 Anything related to sex, sexual healthy, relationships ect.  💬 Relationships  💬 Financial Struggles  ⊹₊⋆☁︎⋆⁺₊⋆ ☀︎ ⋆⁺₊⋆☁︎⋆₊ ⊹ 🎧 My listening style 🎧 🌿 I will listen and validate your feelings. I will ask you questions to help push your thinking. I will not do the work for you, but I will be there to help you in any way I can. 🌿 I do not get triggered easily and am there to help you feel less alone. You can share as much or as little as you would like. I am here to be your outlet. 🌿 However please note that if I do not think I would be the best of help, I will refer you to someone who could help you more. I am gentle, friendly, and understanding. My pms are judgment-free. ⨯ . ⁺ ✦ ⊹ ꙳ ⁺ ‧ ⨯. ⁺ ✦ ⊹ . * ꙳ ✦ ⊹ 🌷About Me 🌷 🌟 I am a 20-year-old female who can most likely relate to how you are feeling. I have been on cups since early March. I enjoy watching Grey's Anatomy, playing sports and sleeping. I am currently a junior in college studying psychology, education and human development. 🌟 I enjoy helping those who need a safe space and reassurance that they are not alone. I am a bubbly person and super fun to talk to, however, I can be shy at first. I have just recently transitioned over to the adult side, so I apologize if you do not see me often at first. 🌟 However, if you would like to get a feel of how I listen, feel free to check out my reviews. I have been helping and listening on and off cups for about 3 years. I take topics such as Weight Management, Anxiety, Depression, Breakups, PTSD, Eating Disorders, self-esteem, Bullying, and Self-harm. 🌼 ʚ‎‏ ͜ ̩͙ ︵ ̩͙ ୨ ♡ ୧ ̩͙ ‏︵ ̩͙ ͜ ɞ 📖 Quotes 📖 🦋 "You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream" - C.S. Lewis  🦋 "No matter how hard today is, remember you will never have to do this day again" 🦋 "Some things break your heart but fix your vision"  🦋 "Be Somebody who makes everybody feel like a somebody"
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Approachable
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Hi there!  My name's Ben, I'm 22 and I'm from the UK.  I reply to my chat requests immediately, I'm very engaging and I make an effort to reply to my chats straight away without any delays. I'm extremely passionate about exercise, I love to look after myself and build my body, I love music, and video-games. Sometimes there's nothing I would enjoy more than just a long drive at night!  Im happy to discuss most things however, if you're looking for something less serious and more easy going, I'm totally happy for that too! You are more than welcome to drop me a message even if I am offline, I generally always respond to my messages. 
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CommunityModIris
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Hi my name is Iris! I am a Community Moderator and I am unfortunately unable to take 1-1 chats.
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LandOfHopesx3
L Sage 6 2455
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▪️About me▪️  I have dealt with depression, anxiety and student life. I have quite an hectic life and a busy lifestyle but helping people out is my passion! I am an artsy person who loves reading and nature! Light hearted chats are always welcomed!  ▪️Members▪️ I would love to hear how I could help you out at the start of the conversation. I would like to know what you expect from me :) If my status is online you can send me a message or a request and I will get back to you. If busy or offline you can contact me to schedule a chat. I only take chats related to the topics you see under my profile and light hearted chats as well ❤️ My member chats last about 50 minutes, if you would like to continue the conversation we can schedule a chat for another day. If you have been my member before you are most welcome to update me on your situation and how you are doing, I would love to hear from you! ▪️Listeners▪️ You are welcome to reach out to me about any questions/issues with the site as well🤍 Light-hearted conversations are also welcomed. One day you will fly so high, you won't feel the pain
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JaceWayland
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➡️Temporarily NOT taking personal requests⬅️ ➡️on a short break⬅️ I will do my best to help you😊 i listen to any issue, I rarely ever get triggered. I have no favorite topics, or issues I'm not comfortable with, so feel free to talk about anything.
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Listeningsarinn
L Marvel 3 4530
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Hey, I'm Sarinn and I'm here for you, this chat page is a safe place, A place, where you won’t be judged  and you have nothing to be ashamed of, I'm already proud of you and sending you my love ------------------------- What are some reasons you can text me for? if you are a member you can text me to share about anything that is making you struggle,  busying your mind or feeling heavy on you, you aren't alone, we can talk and face it all together if you are a listener You can reach out to me for chat support (help handling a hard chat) or if you need help figuring anything out on cups As a trained mentor, I can help you with Chat situations, mock chats, figuring out sub-communities, leadership roles or finding resources and regardless of if you are a member or listener you can always text me for random hugs you can spam me with song recommendation which I'll love or to casually chat and get to know each other and have a fun time ------------------------- you can expect me to reply right away only ~if my status shows online/green ~if i was in a room and you are messaging after asking me if you could pm me ~if we have scheduled the date and time to chat together otherwise, please keep in mind that I'll take up to 72 hours to reply ------------------------- there are 3 things that I tend to do 1. I call my friends "love" both in real life and here 2. I am a hug person, I love hugs and I might send you virtual hugs 3. I might leave you random texts and check in sometimes if any of these, or anything else in the chat, makes you uncomfortable, or if there are triggers that I need to avoid, let me know and I'll be careful not to repeat ------------------------- ~lgbtq+ Ally~ ------------------------- some people i miss badly on cups *~* @kimmkimm (miss you awesomeness) @ruby2468 (I can’t think of a way to reach you rn, but I’m thinking of you, missing you and hoping you are doing okie) @brokentearss (miss you lampshade, and will never forget you) @ALeXaNdEr0712 (you are missed, and on my mind at random times) @tazzie (rest in peace taz) @edabake @tallwalker4850 @serenn @bluewalker8200 @exuberantplane4067 @swiftygirl13 @ri337 @jaja25 ------------------------- reminders~ your feelings are real, and you have every right to feel them, to speak them but just remember that you won't always feel the same way trying your best is enough and it's all you ever gotta do you are a human, and as a human, you have the right to make mistakes  your choices, thoughts, feeling and actions, make sense in the bigger picture of your life, and by a big chance anyone else, exactly in your shoes would do the same  and always remember; love yourself: speak yourself  'cause "life gets hard and it gets messed up when you give so much but it's not enough when the high's too high and the low's too low  ....  don't you let it kill you,  even when it hurts like hell oh whatever tears you apart,    don't let it break your heart"    sometimes, it can feel so heavy, to be a human to feel, to get thru daily life,  sometimes, it feels so lonely to be who you are, sometimes, mind gets cruel, too much thoughts and memories,  when you really just want it to stop, to go silent and to give you a rest sometimes, it's panic, other times, sadness anger, exhaustion, frustration sometimes, it is too much to process, other times, numbness and regardless of what it is, how big or small you don't have to face it alone by a big chance, i can't solve the problem, but hey, dark places are much less scary when not alone sharing, talking and feeling understood can help you feel much more ready to face, get thru and sometimes, solve the problems 
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