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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

AGentleGlow
L Intermediate 5 128
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Hi there! I'm a 30-year-old female who’s here to offer a safe, supportive space for anyone who needs it. Growing up isolated and dealing with bullying shaped my passion for helping others, and as a disabled person, I understand how important it is to feel seen and heard. That’s why I’m here - because no one should feel alone🩵 A little about me: I’m quirky (the best people are, right?) and have a love for the unusual - like my weird and wonderful pets! I share my home with 5 adorable jumping spiders, a horned frog, and a giant African land snail 🐸🐌🕷️ When I’m not chatting, you’ll usually find me diving into indie games (or honestly, any game I can get my hands on). Gaming is my happy place, and I’d love to hear about your favourite games, too! 🎮 I’m just a DM away - because you deserve to be heard ❤️
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Approachable
L Paragon 13 6390
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As of 15th Jan, I am only taking casual chats :) Hi there!  My name's Ben, I'm 22 and I'm from the UK.  I reply to my chat requests immediately, I'm very engaging and I make an effort to reply to my chats straight away without any delays. I'm extremely passionate about exercise, I love to look after myself and build my body, I love music, and video-games. Sometimes there's nothing I would enjoy more than just a long drive at night!  Im happy to discuss most things however, if you're looking for something less serious and more easy going, I'm totally happy for that too! You are more than welcome to drop me a message even if I am offline, I generally always respond to my messages. 
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KaylaBella
L Veteran 8 1051
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I am on an extended self-care break. I will not be taking 1-1 chats at this time 💕  Hello my wonderful loves!🥰 My name is Kayla.💕 My nicknames are: Bells, Bella, Kay, Kayla, Bellaboo I would like to start out by saying that I am super excited to be here as a listener! I have been here for almost 10 years now, and Cups is a huge part of my life and my heart.    🌸💕🌸💕🌸 A little bit about me: I have been through a lot of trauma and challenges in my life. Without all of the those, I wouldn't be who I am today and I wouldn't change anything given the chance. 🥰 I have personal experience with many different  areas of Addiction as well as sexual trauma. I am very passionate about listening to and helping others. You guys are my passion!! 🌸💕🌸💕🌸 Everything listed below as chats that I take, are issues that I have personal experience with. 💕 If it is listed as chats I do not take, please do not request me as I will not be able to help you ♥️ 🌸💕🌸💕🌸 HOURS I AM AVAILABLE ***(Hours are subject to change dependent upon my personal life)*** Monday through Friday: 4:00PM - 6:00PM EST time Saturdays: 5:00PM - 10:00PM EST time every other Saturday Sundays: Self-Care Day, Not available for chats, May take a few but it truly depends on the circumstances of the day for me ***If I am offline when you message me, I will respond as soon as I can!*** CHATS I TAKE✅: Work Stress Panic Attacks Alcohol/Drug Abuse Chronic Pain Family Stress Forgiveness Parenting PTSD Relationship Stress Women's Issues Self Esteem Spirituality CHATS I DO NOT TAKE❌: Anxiety Depression Sexual Health (I will not take any chats that are sexual in any nature. Whether that be fantasies, roleplays, or in general sexual health.) Domestic Violence Grief Loneliness Men's Issues  Personality Disorders Self-Harm Schizophrenia  Everything that is said between me and you will remain between me and you. 💕  Remember: YOU ARE ENOUGH! AND YOU ARE LOVED! ♥️ Looking to spread some cheer?  Maybe shout out a fellow member or listener for how great they are?  Click the button below to spread some smiles🥰 Peer Appreciation Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/viewform] Community Projects I am a part of: ⭕ Chatroom Moderator for Positivity & Gratitude Community ✨ ⭕ Chatroom Moderator for Newbie Hub ✨  ⭕ Listener Chatroom Supporter ✨ ⭕ Star Leader for Peer Appreciation Team  ✨ ⭕ Discussion Host for Positivity & Gratitude Community ✨ ⭕ Doorkeeper ✨ Listener Twins: @OllieRNLI999 💕 & @MindfulJourney22 💕 Mentors: @Kristynsmama🌸 & @Sunisshiningandsoareyou🌸 LINKS FOR MEMBERS Moderator/Listener Review Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScmfpQqScgcFxOSHveQfbP52m-XNu-DBC6oK7ieTHrGQ4hJ3w/viewform]  Why did I get this warning? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/InformationUpdates_822/underconstruction_44686/]  Member FAQ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/InformationUpdates_822/GroupSupportMemberFAQ_37007/]  Group Support Chat Room Emergency [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScRXkwrrPicWRzUvBPYq2wrblHE5HexqFmVA3k3B4QLEoNyHw/viewform]  Report A Missing Discussion/Event [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe8EnUN-ZDdjEBQDP5D6-vi2noQdLndJ2H13woo89UhxlkhlQ/viewform]  Welcome Packet for New Members [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CL9Yu_6zixlapOjdrhCgKLy9JN5wY3HWdrGH7PIO2WI] LINKS FOR LISTENERS Sign Up to be a Group Mod [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScX7nNahJocq0tgDYBesRicWxTfExFCe5QMI-O-04K-qBjZrA/viewform] Sign Up to be a Room Supporter [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSetyJ7jp7W52-EIpqvFYLhfmpsgTW4BbzUwmi9r22OQ9AdH8w/viewform] Become a Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/PeerSupportForum_397/PeerSupportBadgeGetInvolvedSupportTheCommunity_2474/1/] Join a Support Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/KatesCave_1395/JoinASupportTeamUpdatedInfo_102743/]  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/KatesCave_1395/JoinASupportTeamUpdatedInfo_102743/] New Listener Hub [https://www.7cups.com/home/welcome/?notifyID=178791978]
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PeacefulOnes
L Maven 7 1778
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NOTE: I am currently not available for member chats Welcome to my profile! I'm Jordan, and I volunteer as a Listener, Chatroom Mentor, Chat Supporter, and Peer Supporter on 7 Cups because I believe in our mission to provide a supportive environment to everyone in need for free. It can be a challenge to ask for help, but the fact that you're here means you've already taken an important step. My approach consists of empathy, validation, and reflection. I'm here to listen compassionately to your concerns without giving advice and help you sort out your thoughts. I usually limit my chats to one hour.  I expect that a mutual attitude of constructiveness will be maintained, so I kindly ask that you keep this in mind for the sake of common courtesy. Additionally, make sure to confirm I take chats related to the issue you wish to discuss. If you think I could be a suitable Listener for you, please don't hesitate to reach out to me. ------------------------- Be kind. Be gentle. Be giving. ------------------------- "That's me—sweeter than sugar." - Myself ------------------------- Listener Twin: @Positiveak
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Ahlas
L Virtuoso 1 3662
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you are not alone, we are all in this together.
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Societybuildthedreamer
L Expert 9 1186
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Hello, if you ever need to talk, I will be here. I think that is enough :)
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kenzolena
L Exemplar 4136
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Heyy I'm Lena and welcome to my listener bio ♡ 🚨 Currently my memory is acting up duo to health related matters so I might not remember all correctly 🚨                                                                                 Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]  ————- ♡ ————- Remembering Courner ————- ♡ ————- Fly high Blazer, 9 Oct, 2024 ✝️🤍🕊 currently not fully active duo to my loss ————- ♡ ————-♡————-♡ ————- A little about me : ) We can talk about any topic, you can be honest with me, you never ever bother me. I always try making you feel comfortable and smile in our chats. You are enough and loved In case nobody told you today: am glad you're here today😊 I don’t judge, you can be you in our chat. If you just want to chat that’s okay, if you wanna talk about something that's okay too. You can tell me what you're comfortable with. If you want to be my friend then lets be friends I absolutely love cats and dogs 🐾, I have a dog which is named Blazer. My favorite color is purple and green My pronouns are she/they. Topics i dont take- I will listen to you and give you support as best as I can while using my active listening skills with almost most topics <3, but there are a few topics that I’m not able or comfortable talking about.  The topics that I’m not able to talk about are, sexual health, sexual assault and abuse, I also don’t talk about certain topics in relationships or break-ups but I am able to take these chats and I will let you know if it triggers me. ——- ♡ ————-  ————- ♡ ————-————- ♡ ————-  ————- ♡ ————-————- ♡ ————-  ————- ♡ ——— =-Roles-= 🍄I am able to edit and delete forum posts (forum key badge) 🍄 🍃 Leading Mindful Minutes 🍃 🦋 Sub-Leading Kahoot Sessions Team 🦋  🤍Leading Welcome Committe 🤍 🍂 Part of the Kahoot team 🍂 🌌 Peer Supporter!🌌 🫂 Chat Supporter 🫂 🌸 Listener chatroom supporter 🌸 🌈 Global Moderator 🌈 🐞 room supporter! 🐞 💜 (teen) Quality mentor 💜 🔥 Teen transitioning mentor 🔥 Listener Verifying Team: Do you want to become a verified listener? You can learn more here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/VerifiedListenersProject_1839/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/]! 🦕 Verified Listener 🦕 🚪Doorkeeper🚪 🌟 Spot 🌟 🐾I completed 8 weeks of the leadership program.🐾 👩‍🎓 Completed the Leadership Development Program 👩‍🎓 Links you may find helpful ... Guidelines  [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines] Community Calender [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Community Forums [https://www.7cups.com/home/] Report A Member/Listener [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new] ————- ♡ ————- Listener Twin ————- ♡ ————- @lightandhope51 - She is awesome pawesome and truly a dear person to me. ————- ♡ ————- Quote Courner ————- ♡ ————- when our light starts to dim we sometimes need someone elses to help bright up ours ❤️  “No matter who you are, where you're from, your skin color, gender identity: speak yourself. "Find your name, find your voice by speaking yourself.” ————- ♡ ————- Status meaning  ————- ♡ ————- Green status: I’m online and taking requests/chat, please leave a message if you think I am a good fit for you, I’m here for you and I’m an active listener. Orange status: I’m online but I’m not actively taking requests or chat ( even though my status is orange I will still be take chats while this color is active, feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can) I am most likely in the chat rooms or online in another way. Red Status: There is a chance that I’m online but not actively taking chats or personal requests. ✦ My response time is within 2-5 working days. Updated on 9th of September, 2024
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MatchaLatte318
L Guru 4 2259
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Edited: 11th Dec ‘24 - Not taking any new chats. :) Lesbian (lgbtq), ex self harmer with depression. Feel free to talk about anything under the sun, I am here to listen.
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Fuechsin
L Proficient 4 917
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🍃 Hey wonderful person, I'm Josephine or Füchsin! 🍃 Currently, I cannot provide any additional chats for new members Click "Show More" for more information about me as a listener Everyone deserves to have a happy life. Receiving the time and space for venting can be crucial for that journey. As a verified listener, this is what I can provide for you. ⯈ My status ⯇ Green Available for listening now. Feel free to reach out! Orange Currently busy with another chat or other 7 cups duties. Expect a delay of several hours Red Currently offline, but I'll get back to you as soon as possible ⯈ Chats with me ⯇ I will solely focus on you and what you want to talk about. You can expect open-mindedness and empathy while I'm trying to understand your point of view. We will explore your situation at hand and work towards making you feel comfortable. Chat sessions with me are up to 60 minutes long to give you my undivided attention. All topics are welcome, even if they aren't listed in my categories I cannot provide support regarding self-harm, alcohol / drug abuse, or eating disorders ⯈ Chat slots for long-term support ⯇ My schedule outside 7 Cups can be unpredictable, so I have limited slots for chats. That's why I stick to two slots for scheduled chats and long-term support. My current slots are (CEST / CET / Berlin time): Tuesdays from 5:00 pm to 6:00 pm Thursdays from 5:00 pm to 6:00 pm Occasionally, I might also be available at (CEST / CET / Berlin time): Mondays from 11:00 pm to 12:00 am Wednesdays from 11:00 pm to 12:00 am Fridays from 10:30 pm to 12:00 am 🦊 About Me 🦊 Thank you to @AnnaSilverberg for drawing my wonderful profile picture Name: Josephine Country of origin: Germany Age: 28 Pronouns: She / Her Occupation: 👩‍💻 Software engineering and architecture consultant Hobbies & Interests: 🎮 Video Games, 🧗‍♀️ bouldering, 🫛 vegan cooking 🦊 Fun fact: Füchsin means vixen in German 🦊 ⯈ My listener twin ⯇ My wonderful listener twin was dreamIcicle8467 We're sharing the same brain cell
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GoldenMirage99
L Genius 12 4706
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Hey everyone! I really love listening and you will always find a good friend in me I am here for you. It gets hard when one has to walk the path alone; so company can make a journey more tolerable.
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heartbeat1911
L Explorer 4 400
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I have a heart for the brokenhearted. I love to help and serve people. This heart beats for humanity.
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lovelyRose21
L Proficient 6 1937
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I'm understanding and I care about other people  
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