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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Kait
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☺️Hello friend!! ☺️ I'm so happy you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea.  🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿  I'm a 27 year old verified active listener and I love talking with and supporting people who are in need of a non-judgmental & friendly chat. I've been on 7cups for a while now and enjoy the work we do together. Life has a habit of throwing us a few curveballs and sometimes we just need someone to talk to. My approach to active listening centers community, mindfulness, and gratitude, because these are my core values as a listener & as a person in mental health recovery myself.  Please note: I am a volunteer listener, not a mental health professional. Therefore, if you are experiencing a crisis, such as suicidal thoughts or self harm thoughts, please see the 7cups crisis resource page, which can be found here- https://www.7cups.com/crisis/ About chatting with me: I am a part of the LGBTQ community and enjoy taking chats regarding LGBTQ topics. I also have personal experience with topics such as anxiety, depression, grief and loss, relationships and codependency (as well as non monogamous/polyamorous relationships), borderline personality, OCD, PTSD, women's issues, spirituality & religion, chronic pain and physical disabilities, and self harm. I accept a variety of chats both within these issues and outside of these issues and have education in social work.  Please note that I do not offer chats related to details about sex. My chats are typically 30 minutes, sometimes up to 1 hour in length & are offered on an ad-hoc basis. I unfortunately cannot off reliable, on-going chats (I do no offer long term listening). I might offer a follow up chat or two, and/or brief ongoing check-ins as my capacity allows, but these are not guaranteed 😊 About Me:  ✨✨✨✨✨✨ In my free time I enjoy painting, playing board games, spending time in nature, stargazing, and volunteering. I also love to dance, swim, read, spend time at the library, swim, and painting. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile and I hope we can connect soon!
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PeacefulMirror
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Hi! My name is Sam and I'm a trained active listener on 7 Cups. We've all struggled at some point in our lives, and I've found that sharing the strength of others can make all the difference. I'm familiar with a wide range of issues, especially depression, anxiety, and relationship problems. Please feel free to drop in for a chat or send me a message if I'm off-line. There just may be something I can help you with!
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Readyforhelp28
L Discoverer 5 417
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An active listener trying to provide a safe space to those who need it. Feel free to reach out and lets talk. I am not active on the app all the time, so feel free to leave a message if my status is offline. If I am showing online, it means, I can be reached out and we can talk instantly. If it is busy, it means I am engaged in another chat but can still respond to you.  Alternatively, we can also schedule a chat for a fixed time that we both agree upon.  🚫🚫🚫No sexual, LGBTQ+ or casual chats!!🚫🚫🚫
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HopieRemi
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To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  If messaging, let me know if you are seeking peer support, mentoring, or chat support. I can also edit Forum Posts. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I do not offer advice as that can be harmful to you. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I mostly offer support in the group room as a Moderator and the forums as a Community Mentor. I do accept chats on Fridays and Saturdays, if it is a topic I support. If you are contacting me, please let me know in a few words what our conversation will be about. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. If you have been referred to me, please send me a message and let me know you are a referral. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours?
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Jennifer Geib

JennieGeibLCSWR
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSWR
Rochester, NY
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1:1 chats (up to 5 days/week). - My therapy is non-judgmental and focuses on emotions and motivation to accomplish your goals or overcome your struggles.
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Tanyia Hughes

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Psychotherapist, Adv Dip Psy
Dorset
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I have been through a lot in life too, which helps me to be able to empathize with situations, thoughts and feelings that we have. Sometimes, it's not easy just being human.
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Yati2
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Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I am here to support those who need little push to break shackles or an ear for who just need to be heard. Just say Hey !  
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Ivy229
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*Currently Not Taking Any New Member Chat Requests, Unless I Initiate The Chat. Only Available To Take Listener Requests For Peer Support And Related Matters*  To Find Available Listeners Check Out The Following Link: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]  Currently online listeners will have a green dot, but please read their profile first to ensure they are taking new chats, support the topic you are interested in talking about, and another important information. [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] Additionally, you are able to join the chat request queue, and the next available listener will accept your chat request as soon as possible. Check Out The Following Link:   Connect Now | 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/connect/] ------------------------- About Me: Full-time university student majoring in Human Services with a concentration in Direct Service and double minor in Psychology and Medical Social Sciences INFJ (Myers-Briggs Personality Type) Hobbies: Listening to music, traveling, spending time with loved ones, cooking, learning, volunteering, drawing, the beach, amusement parks Since a young age I have been very passionate about giving back and helping others. I truly believe one of my biggest purposes in life is to try to do whatever I can in my lifetime to help improve the lives of others and try to leave some sort of lasting positive impression on the world Favorite Quotes/Mottos I Live By:   "Just When the Caterpillar Thought the World Was Over, It Became a Butterfly", "Where Words Fail, Music Speaks"-Hans Christian Andersen, "Be the Change You Wish to See in the World"-Mahatma Gandhi ------------------------- I feel so blessed for this opportunity to connect with people around the world with whom I have so much in common. I have noticed we are all a bit optimistic, we believe in humanity, we believe in kindness, we believe in a better tomorrow.   We are all here because we believe that kind word even from a stranger can make a change. And it Can!   You never know fully what impact you have on another human being! Did you save relationships today? Did you save someone's career? someone's life? health? friendship? We never will know for sure, however, I have certainty that you changed someone's day, someone's life today.   Today is (05/12/2021 or whatever the date is when you are reading this). It is a unique day. There will be 05/13/2021 / 05/12/2022,2023 etc but never again 05/12/2021😊 And we had the opportunity to live this day, for one reason or another. Maybe it is so we can tell our grandchildren about this day, maybe today is the day you start feeling better, maybe today is the day you are finally able to accomplish something you couldn't before, maybe today is the day you finally are able to love yourself exactly the way you are, maybe today is the day you feel completely carefree and grounding, maybe today is the day.................😊   I hope I can help make this unique day better for you, to enjoy this day, to feel loved, supported, heard, understood, and whatever it is you may need to make this day all the more unique and special. The day which will never happen again in the history of humanity So, I want to thank each one of you for being here, for giving me the opportunity to listen to you, for having the courage to be vulnerable, honest, and giving me an insight into whatever you may be feeling/thinking/experiencing, and ultimately giving me the chance to not only be a part of this unique day in your life but giving me the chance to make someone's day better. Each chat I get the fortunate opportunity to have whether it is with a member or listener is my chance to be present and listen to your valuable, unique, important, and personal story. Remember you are never alone; you matter and are needed in this world.  ------------------------- If the circle on my profile picture is red, I am either offline, busy, or not taking chats even if I am on the site. Feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you when I can. If I respond expect responses to be delayed. If the circle is orange, I'm working on something, or I am in a chatroom. Again, feel free to try me as I likely will be able to respond, but responses will be delayed. If it's green, I am here and I can take chats. If I have a time limit, I will let you know. If for some reason your first message the response isn't quick, I am probably away from the computer for a moment (though I usually try to switch to yellow) or your chat got buried which sometimes happens randomly. Please give me some time and I will respond as soon as possible. ------------------------- *I am open to taking all types of chats as long as they are within the appropriate terms of service according to 7 Cups of Tea. However, I reserve the right to let you know that I might not feel like I am the best person to handle a chat and will do my best to help find a listener who I feel would be better suited.  * If you plan on being inappropriate and cannot adhere to the terms of service please do both of us a favor and do not attempt to message me. You will be reported and blocked as I take my roles on 7 Cups serious and do not have any time or desire to engage in these types of situations on here.  *I have checked off multiple different issues I am comfortable providing support, but the ones that I feel most adapted to handle include: Anxiety, Borderline (BPD), Relationships, Bullying, Chronic Illness/Pain, Depression, Panic Attacks/Disorders, Disability, Domestic Violence, General Mental Health, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Body Image Issues, and Women's Issues. *My chats are typically 30-60 minutes long unless agreed to something different. *I am able to do offline chats as well as live chats through scheduled chats, and inquiring if I am able to talk outside of that set time when my status is online.  *My time zone is EST. Here is a Time Zone Converter https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?p1=179 (Please Note Eastern Time is New York Time when you are using the converter) ------------------------- Current Roles @7 Cups - Verified Listener  -Group Support Leader (Room Supporter) Depression Support Room  (As of May 13, 2024) -Peer Supporter (As of May 21, 2024) -Safety Patrol (As of June 16, 2024) -Listener Chatroom Supporter (As of September 18, 2024) Academy Programs I Have Graduated From: - 7 Cups Leadership Development Program (LDP) with Honors    (June 23, 2024) - 7 Cups Quality Listener Program (QLP) with Honors (August 2, 2024) - 7 Cups Internship Program with Honors (Student Track)  (November 19, 2024) I have successful Completed:  -ALL 4 Active Listening Training Guides -ALL Currently Offered Training Guides -ALL Peer Trainings 1-12  (Peer Pro) - Community Building Course   (June 7, 2023) - Time Management Course   (May 10, 2023) -Inner Development Goals Course  (May 25, 2024)
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tellMemore1981
L Marvel 6 4859
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Welcome to 7 cups of tea. We all live the course of our lives by choosing different paths. Each one of us are unique and special because of the choices we make for ourselves in life. And there is this one thing which connects all of us and makes us one...........it happens when we reciprocate love, feel the pain of others and offer consolation and peace to someone who is in dire need of it. The most amazing thing is, it requires nothing; but a sensitive, emotional, and compassionate heart and a little bit of time to be there when someone is in pain. At times, when it hurts a lot....a little hug, a tap on the back, and a soft cuddle could do the Midas touch. It is much more powerful than those thousand irrelevant conversations. Hence, if you want me to be with you, walk by your side and be a silent friend whom you need to vent out ........reach out for me for an in-depth and personalized conversation aimed at a process of not only listening but making sure you feel understood and healed.
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starryWillow9852
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Hi I’m Em I’m 18 the topic I’m comfortable taking are depression, self harm, ptsd , bpd(borderline) please keep it mind I just turned 18 in march I don’t normally take adult chats so please go to another listener if you’re an adult im not comfortable with relationship issues or work related issues along with please no sexual chat ⚠️ listner twin @KateDoskocilova 🟢 green means I’m taking chats 🟡means im busy 🔴means im ether offline or modding credits to the amazing @theboymoana my roles on cups are ATL chatroom moderater im part of the team to verify listeners if interested you may pm me
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Lindsay Scheinerman

lindsayscheinermanLPC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
St. Louis, MO
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My work with clients is to help them recognize and build on their strengths to find solutions for the conflicts presented in their lives.
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allnaturalUnicorns70
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I'm an ordained rabbi (and verified LISTENER!!), from a secular upbringing. Every human has an important place in this world, which means... YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!!  If you're looking for an intelligent, kind and thoughtful ear, you've come to the right place!
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AudithyaChoudary
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I felt the pain. I know the feeling.         Verified Listener ✔ Note:- I may miss accepting the request. Please do follow me... I will ping u back.
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rachel0707
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Hi! I’m Rachel, a verified listener, aiming to offer the best help and support I can to all those who need it. Each one of you is important and welcome to chat with me!
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Beardedwisdom
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Hello, I'm a active verified listener on 7cups. I am here rather you need to rant and rave, someone to listen or maybe just someone that understands. I've been through a lot in life and can relate to almost anything.
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