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5 star rating
Rating
Number of ratings122 Number of reviews90 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceOct 7, 2019 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 219 People helped569 Chats1,840 Listener group chats165 Forum posts2 Forum upvotes4
Bio

Hello,








I am a male in my 40s.








I struggle with depression, loneliness, self esteem issues since forever.








I have my ups and downs.








I am here to lend an ear to those who need to and try to be helpful as much as I can.

Feedback & Reviews
Excellent listener, kind and understanding
excellent listener, always there to support, understand, and help even when I struggle to express myself. Their availability and listening skills are truly appreciated. Thank you for being so empathetic and supportive
I can only agree with other reviewers, an absolute angel ♥️
Really good listener
Good listener keep up the good work!!!
i really like this listener they are nice
Very patient and attentive. Thank you
Great person!!!!!!
Wow, by far the best listener I’ve talked to here. He was so gentle and kind. He asked thought provoking questions all while being patient and so understanding. Such a great experience. Truly looking forward to talking to him again.
The listener was kind and attentive. I enjoyed our talk!
Very gentle , nice person
Very nice and kind. Thank you much.
very kind, attentive and helpful.
this listener asks questions before assuming or judging
He is a therapist I would say.he listens carefully and so far he is the best listener I have ever talked too .so deep and technical
A really nice listener who will just listen, even to your most personal problems without any judgement at all. I really recommend him 🙂
Very patient and attentive.
nice and actually listens to what you're telling
He is a truly amazing listener. Thoroughly professional. He asks the right questions which make you reflect and reach the right answers.
He is very sincere.
An honest guy that is willing to help in a sincere way. Appreciated it. Thanks! Take care:)
Very nice listener :)
A very compassionate, understanding listener. Asks questions that make you reflect and guide you in a direction to be. Great. I will come back. It felt like therapy.
Helpful, patient, attentive and understanding. Goes the extra mile for you, thank you for being there Charming.
He is great at listening
The person was a very good listener: provided questions I needed to ask myself: helped a lot!
Excellent, he is very helpful and he keeps an on the detail!
it was a very helpful conversation. thank you
He is a good listener.... He goes into your soul.... Say a true things about you... I totally recommend him
Great listener. Good questions.
He was very supportive and understanding of what I was feeling.
Great listener, very coherent writer.
Very logical, clear and caring. Thank you very much!
very kind and attentive
He is a very good listener! Thank you so much! ❤️
it was good, felt listened to
he is a good listener
seems like a very patient person
Great listener,good to talk to and helpful!
They helped me reflect on some things
They were able to offer an outside perspective and had an idea that had never occurred to me before. They got straight to the root of the issue - I'd been looking at it sideways, but they looked at it head on and pointed it out. Great listener, 10/10 would recommend.
This person is a wonderful listener, and was extremely patient with me. I highly recommend this person for anyone who needs a listener.
Straight forward and honest. Needed that.
Compassionate, understanding, offered good advice. Made me feel heard and understood. Seems like a lovely human being and I'd talk to this person anytime.
I liked it. It was helpful
Nice listener, logical answers to my problem
Good listener. Replied quickly.
Very good listener, good communication skills, very patient
helpful , thank you
very good listener, responsive, and really understood me and my situation
This person is an excellent listener
He's alright. Like yeah, alright!
He is amazing, he helps you to talk freely like you are talking to yourself. You feel that he is really care about what you say. I'm glad I have talked to you. Thank you very much
Love this chat it was helpful
Really helpful and nice
Very nice person
Bluntandhonest seemed nice!
Fast , helpful and honest listener Thank you
Thankyou, you have been the most kindest and compassionate listener. He might not have known much about my problems but his kindness/non judgemental side shone through and he made me feel like I am capable when I came to the chat feeling lost. He is lovely, you won’t regret chatting to him.
he replies very quickly and compassionately
This listener is very nice.
Great. Great advise and great listener
Thank you for listening and wishing well inspite of being uncomfortable ..good wishes..
Great! A very genuine person.
He's a good guy.
Patient and understanding.
though we didn't get to chat for long but they let me vent about my issue. they seemed like a very nice person who is compassionate and really thoughtful. Thank you for your support! xx
Don't change, ever.
Good listener keep up the good work
Good listener keep up the good work
Caring and compassionate listener . They do make honor to their username. So if you are looking for honesty, this is the best listener you can find
It's nice to chat with someone once in a while who's actually interested in replying to your problems.
good listener, honest, down to earth. Doesn't hurt that we have a lot in common
bluntandhonest is very understanding person. He is the one, who really cares and wants to help. I'm glad I met him.
Super awesome listener. He's very patient and definitely can listen to your concerns. Highly recommended.
Awesome listner. Loved you. The conversation was truly an eye opener.
He was very blunt and honest
Very helpful and great listener 👍
He's really supportive in finding out solutions to your problems. Recommended.
A great listener, he helped me deal with my personal problems in a very professional way. Thank you!
good perspective thank you
Very helpful and compassionate listener. Understood my issues and was a great supporter. Gave me hope and more confidence! Thanks a lot 😘!
This guy was very helpful thank you
Good question asking for me to help myself answer questions
Thank you for helping me.
A very good listener. I felt comfortable opening up without being judged.
Really great listener to chat to- offered good personal insights, talked through options with me, and of course, listened well. Thank you for your time
unlike his nickname he is very nice and sympathetic and can admit his own mistakes which is amazing
Very helpful, a good listener, trying to find the actual problem.
Helping me out well so far
Categories
Depression
Bullying
Anxiety
Family Stress
Forgiveness
Loneliness
Self-Esteem
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