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sunflowervibes8
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PathStep 1 Compassion hearts24 Forum posts6 Forum upvotes14 Current upvotes14 Age GroupAdult Last activeJuly, 2024 Member sinceJuly 11, 2024
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“Be the change you wish to see in the world”🌍💚

I embrace differences and like to challenge myself to live more honest and authentic every day🌱

I believe I am a good listener 🌻💛

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Friendship Support / by sunflowervibes8
Last post
 July 27th
...See more Hello💛 Since childhood, I've always felt that my role was to support my friends, to help them, and to make sure they have a good time. I would often entertain or please them in ways I thought they would like, usually putting my own needs aside. Now, as an adult, I realize I'm no longer just the entertaining clown, but in my relationships, I still find myself in the role of supporter and helper. I’m not sure I know how to be a friend on different terms. I don’t feel like I have close friends that I meet with regularly, and kind of miss that. However I struggle to understand how to maintain those friendships.  Can anyone relate to this? Thank you 🌸
I don’t know how to keep and maintain friends
Newbie Hub / by sunflowervibes8
Last post
 July 16th
...See more Hello! ❤️ Since childhood, I've always felt that my role was to support my friends, to help them, and to make sure they have a good time. I would often entertain or please them in ways I thought they would like, usually putting my own needs aside. Now, as an adult, I realize I'm no longer just the entertaining clown, but in my relationships, I still find myself in the role of supporter and helper. I’m not sure I know how to be a friend on different terms. I don’t feel like I have close friends that I meet with regularly, and kind of miss that. However I struggle to understand how to maintain those friendships.  To be honest, I think I keep people at a bit of a distance and I don’t really know why. For example, I rarely invite friends to my home. Mostly I invite my kids friends and my husband invites his friends. However I forget my own.  Can anyone relate to this? Thank you 🌸
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