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powerfulHemlock7516
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Anxiety causing me to ruin things
Relationship Stress / by powerfulHemlock7516
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 July 31st, 2018
...See more My husband and I have been together for 4 years. Every year there is a new obstacle we have to face. Our life is never easy, he has a cafe with his brother which exhausts him. For the last 6 weeks his brother has been in and put of hospital and now cant work. My husband is doing both jobs and staying late to prep each afternoon. He nearly cheated in the first year of our relationship. I cant help but get fearful of the unknown. I know hes exhausted but I cant stop the thoughts hes cheating. Last night he got angry at me for questionong where he had been and our circle of my mistrust goes around again. I fear I'm pushing him away. I've tried to explain the pain and fear but it's getting old. Its getting old for me too! I'm sick of feeling like this! Will it go away when his brother returns or am I just not ever going to fully trust the man? Is 4 years too long to hold on to something? I need certainty in my life, how do I explain this? Sorry a lot of questions but I'm sincerely trying to improve myself and be good partner. Thanks:)
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