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Generally questioning my sexuality
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by bunnycat2409
Last post
 July 18th
...See more Hello, I’m fifteen years old(afab) and have been questioning my sexual and romantic orientation for about three years. I’ve considered a lot of labels for myself, including aroace, demi aroace, gay, and pan. I have realized that I kind of am attracted to women, and am trying to figure out whether I am attracted to men, or if it’s just compulsory heterosexuality. I’ve also figured out that I don’t really care about the gender of a person I might date, since I care more about who they might be as a person. I recently have been texting with a guy I met recently, which has made me start questioning again, after coming to terms that I could be gay. Because I am open to dating him maybe, but also I’m not sure if it’s just because I find the idea of a romantic relationship exciting or if it’s liking him, which could be difficult because we’ve just met and have only really talked over text other than the initial conversation in which he asked for my number. I feel most comfortable with saying I’m aroace, and understand that I don’t need to have romantic attraction so quickly, but I am also trying to just figure it out. also, at what point is it necessary to tell a person who is interested in pursuing a relationship with me that I’m ace? I feel very little sexual attraction, especially towards men, and am uninterested in sex. I know that sex isn’t the biggest thing in a relationship, but I also don’t want to end up in a relationship for a long while and then end up breaking up because the other person wants sex and I don’t. also, is it possible for an aroace person to date? That is the label I have been able to identify with the most consistently, and am comfortable with using it for myself. The question feels a bit silly though, but I’m also unsure of how much I should tell another person first. also I am not out yet, but I’m pretty sure that some people in my family are sort of aware that I might not be 100% straight.
Questioning, again.
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by bunnycat2409
Last post
 April 20th, 2023
...See more I identify as aroacespec. But I think I have a crush on one of my closest friends. So I am questioning my sexuality. Again. I don’t really know what I should do, since I am pretty comfortable with staying friends, and because I am moving to a different country in about a month. I now understand the term “gay panic” I think this means I am demiromantic.
I’m think I’m not really cis
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by bunnycat2409
Last post
 February 20th, 2023
...See more I’ve never really questioned my gender when I was young, but as I got older, especially going through puberty I’ve felt as if my birth gender isn’t quite right. I've gone through a lot of different identities that I think might fit me, but at the same time it sort of doesn’t. I now think I might be gender fluid or flux, or non-binary. Ish. I really am feeling lost about this. Also I think I might have some gender dysphoria. P.S. I’m afab
Considering coming out, need some advice
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by bunnycat2409
Last post
 February 19th, 2023
...See more I’m aroacespec but still closeted. I kind of want to come out to my family but I don’t know how. I am pretty sure that they won’t really have a problem with me not being straight, but I don’t know if they will accept me as aroacespec. I’m also questioning my gender identity but that’s something for later. I’ve sort of tired hinting that I may not be interested in any type of relationship to my mom, but I’m not sure she’s really getting. Or my hints are too subtle. I think it might be the latter. I also am not the type of person who really is open a lot, but I have sort of told my friends. I really want to figure out if and how I should do it.
Introduction
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by bunnycat2409
Last post
 February 7th, 2023
...See more Hi, I’m aroacespec and questioning my gender identity, I think I might be gender fluid
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