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Weisseguy
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PathStep 12 Compassion hearts30 Forum posts20 Forum upvotes34 Current upvotes34 Age GroupAdult Last activeMay, 2019 Member sinceApril 8, 2019
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A Very Helpful Book About Depression
Depression Support / by Weisseguy
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 July 10th, 2019
...See more If you suffer from depression or want to understand more about depression or how to better support someone who suffers from depression I strongly recommend the book Undoing Depression: What Therapy Doesnt Teach You and Medication Cant Give You by Dr. Richard OConnor. Its been instrumental in helping me understand and cope with my own depression. Its full of great advice, impactful stories, and therapeutic techniques. Its been revised a number of times so make sure you get the most recent version. That being said, mine was a 1997 revision and I still found it very helpful. Hopefully you will too! Take care! -Clint
Five days sober
Alcohol & Drug Addiction Support / by Weisseguy
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 April 28th, 2019
...See more Today marks my fifth day in a row sober and clean from alcohol. I am grateful for this awesome community for the support. I could not have done it without you guys. Peace & love to you all and keep up the fight.
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Addiction Support / by Weisseguy
Last post
 April 10th, 2019
...See more I suffer from sexually compulsive behaviour. This diagnosis includes a tendancy to compulsively watch pornography. You are not alone if you feel that you have no control over this. Ive been there! Its a terrible feeling. This disorder has negatively impacted every relationship Ive ever had. There were times Ive felt so ashamed of the things Ive done I contemplated suicide. How can something that feels so good be so wrong? The act of watching pornography and masturbating isnt wrong. Quite the opposite. Its completely normal. Nobody sees a guy drinking a beer and says man, whats wrong with him!?. But he could have a problem with alcohol. Its when normal behaviours evolve into uncontrollable demons that consume our thoughts and control how we behave that we have a problem. Identifying/admitting it is the first step. Just by being here you are already well on your way to getting better at managing this addiction. When I was about 5 I found my fathers porn stash. I had no idea what it was but all I remember is looking at the pictures in the magazines made me happy so I kept doing it when he wasnt around. Probably around 9 or 10 I learned what masturbation was and since I already knew where to find arousal material I combined the two. Later in my early teens, I dogsat for a man who was away in the military a lot...I got paid for it but I didnt care. See, I knew he had an extensive porn collection on VHS (ok Im old!) in his
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