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WaffleGhost
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PathStep 14 Compassion hearts81 Forum posts18 Forum upvotes6 Current upvotes6 Age GroupAdult Last activeApril, 2022 Member sinceDecember 4, 2020
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Guilt / Fear bringing up divorce
Relationship Stress / by WaffleGhost
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August 30th, 2021
...See more A while back I decided I want a divorce. My wife hasn't done anything wrong, my feelings towards her have just changed. Once I became sure thats what I wanted, I told her. I thought there was a chance that she felt the same, but she doesn't. It broke her heart. She convinced me that it wasn't fair for me to make that decision and that we should work on it. We have, but my feelings haven't changed. I know I need to bring it up again and start the process of finalizing things, but I can't bring myself to see her in that pain again. Every part of me knows that she's in pain now anyway, and that I'm not helping anything by waiting. I just can't get the guts to bring it up again. Its so easy to tell myself that I just need to do it. I've practiced the conversation a thousand times. I just get to the metaphorical end of the diving board and can't jump. Doe anybody have any advice?
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Newbie Hub / by WaffleGhost
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February 2nd, 2021
...See more Apologies. I've searched for these answers, and I'm sure they're out there....but im having a hard time sifting through the search results to find what I need. I'd like to have a one on one conversation with somebody from one of the communities. How do we go about that? Also, is there a way to see which posts I've commented on? I've tried the app and mobile web site. Thanks for any help.
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