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SpadeSystem
4 47,191 M Crossing Mileposts 7
PathStep 16 Compassion hearts5,375 Forum posts108 Forum upvotes135 Current upvotes135 Age GroupTeen Last activeSeptember, 2024 Member sinceApril 29, 2024
Bio

Hello! Welcome to our bio!


If we say:

  •  We are doing good - it means we are actually doing good and are here to support others
  • We’re fine - we are actually not fine, we are probably doing horrible and just don’t wanna say
  • We’re ok - hating ourselves, just saying ok because we feel worthless or maybe saying the truth 
  • “…” after we say something - we are absolutely doing awful and we just want to seek support
  • We’re doing horrible/awful/bad/not ok - it’s the truth


AFAB (A female at birth)


Alters (You can ask who is fronting or just call us Spade 😊):

Jade (They/them) - 🌿

Mia (She/they) - 🖤

Ben (they/them) - 🕸

Calypso (They/them) - ❄️

Noah (They/them) - 🍁

Kate (She/they) - 🐚

Arya (They/them) - 🦋

Chris (a little one) (He/they) - 🐬

Joyce (a little one) (She/they) - 🌻


Best friends ❤️: @Phoenix1234theythem (Phoenix), @PastaIsVeryUnderrated (Dija)


Friends list:

@Noor511 (Noor)

@AmyGrace55555 (Amy)

@DarkerPlaces (Rome) 

@SyriusSystem (Kev)

@EnigmaticCat24 (Tobe)

@kenzolena (Lena)

@Heartsandrosesandpaws (Paws)

@xIAmAlwaysHereForYoux (Kenz)

@OhHelloThereImHere (yt)

@AquaNyo303 (Crow)

@inventiveFan6513 (Feni)

@fallensky958 (Fallen)

@rospiz (Ros) 


Recent forum posts
taking a break... idk how long....
Anxiety Support / by SpadeSystem
Last post
August 28th
...See more @Phoenix1234theythem, @PastaIsVeryUnderrated, @AmyGrace55555, @EnigmaticCat24 taking a break idk how long, dw about me am fine. sorry... 
Just….help…
General Support / by SpadeSystem
Last post
August 21st
...See more Today was fine, I am fine 🙂 Just…. help?? 😞 @PastaIsVeryUnderrated (you absolutely don’t have to reply and dw about me. I am fine. Just tagging u… becuz… idk… but ik u got a lot going on rn so don’t worry pls)
Not ok but acting ok
Depression Support / by SpadeSystem
Last post
2 days ago
...See more I've been running from my demons, afraid to look behind I've been running from myself, afraid of what I'd find But how am I supposed to love you when I don't love who I am? And how could I give you all of me when I'm only half a man? 'Cause I'm a sinking ship that's burning, so let go of my hand Oh how can I give you all of me when I'm only half a man? And no one can ever hurt me like I hurt myself 'Cause I'm made out of stone And I'm beyond help, don't give your heart to me
A safe space for us when we feel hopeless 💔
Journals & Diaries / by SpadeSystem
Last post
August 5th
...See more Hello everyone. This forum post was created for us to have a safe space to write when we just feel awful and need a place to write down things.  Also, this might get triggering so I will add TW when necessary.
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Badges & Awards
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