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Number of ratings580 Number of reviews106 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceApr 26, 2016 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 731 People helped1,069 Chats3,590 Group support chats299 Listener group chats1,721 Forum posts20 Forum upvotes66
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▪Be gentle/ Fill yourself up with with love instead of hate/ Fill yourself up with knowledge, experiences/ surround yourself with people who have nothing but love to give.



 



 



 



 



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▪Not everybody is going to get you, love. You can't blame them for that. You are a completely different universe with a heart that feels so much. You are a spectrum of colors while the world is black and white, and not everybody can handle that, and that's okay." Its lovely to be different



 



 



 



 



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▪The thing that you did that was kind of weird and embarrassing, everyone else forgot about that already



 



 



 



 



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▪You look fine today, if you can't notice something on your face standing 6 feet from a mirror then nobody else will



 



 



 



 



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▪If something is out of your control, do not let yourself or anyone else expect you to deal with it alone



 



 



 



 



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▪Social lives can go through cycles sometimes, if you feel like all your friends are ignoring you for no reason, they're probably just busy with other things



 



 



 



 



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▪Nothing will always be easy, if you're trying then that should be good enough for anyone. If its not, then you are talking with the wrong people.



 



 



 



 



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▪Never underestimate the importance of going to bed, if it's just dark outside and you feel bad, just go to bed, you can deal with your problems the next day



 



 



 



 



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▪I appreciate you. I am proud of you. Even on your worst days, you will never disappoint me. I love you no matter what.



 



 



 



 



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▪You should love you no matter what.



 



 



 



 



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▪Nothing lasts, how you are feeling right now, the way everything seems to be falling apart, its not going to last, its going to be fine in the end, please fight hard and stay strong



 



 



 



 



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Feedback & Reviews
very nice
She is so helpful
kind and helpful
Just like talking to somebody you have always n friends with. She is awesome.
She was only the second listener I one with but she responded quickly and was very kind and it was like talking to an old friend.
Really did make a difference ! thank you !
She's literally the best.
Shai is an awesome listerner, she cares a lot about your problems and is friendly, thoughtful and also has a good sense of humour and kno
thank you for the funny story! it really made me smile :)
Shai14 had great empathy/
Shai is the best listener on 7cups. She always helps me out and helps me stay calm. Tenkos fren
So friendly and helpful listener
Very Kind
She was extremely helpful and kind. Couldn't have asked for a better conversation.
thanks
She's nice : )
Thanks Hun, you really helped me get over my nerves:)
shes lovely
Very helpful! Calming, and relateable.
Great Listener, gives amazing advice
Awesome person to talk to and gives facts along with suggestions
They were lovely to talk to
The best listener I have ever seen!
Such great human beeing helping people ❤️ It was verry helpfull and i really feel everything getting better already💓
really good help, helped me not try to end my life tonight, love her
Shai is very polite, considerate and has a gold sense of humour. She is also supportive and easy to talk to. I would recommend Shai to other members and listerners.
thank you, you're really sweet! I appreciate it a lot!
She's very straightforward and helped me out in minutes.
Was really engaged and I felt like she knew what she was talking about
They are so sweet. I appreciate their help.
Very understanding and helped me out a lot.
Freaking awesome listener
Very good listener with very good feedback
She was so helpful. I will recommend her to anyone!
Loved her way of talking!!
Very caring, best listener i've run into
She was very supportive and was full of empathy. I felt better and had fun getting to talk to her, she's full of surprises too 😄
She was profound that is all I may be able to say I strongly recomened her!
she was a great person
you may be the last hope we need. thank you for everything
They really helped me. They are a great listener and have the best advice :)
Helped alot
Very nice and helpful
She is a great listener
Shai is a very friendly, caring and polite listerner. She is also very helpful and supportive wkrh
She really helped me kick in some motivation when I needed it the most, one of the best listeners I've ever had!
She really helped me
There doing great
Shai is a caring perdon who is easy to talk to Getting the notification that Shai had responded made me smile.
I love her
thanks you helped me a lot coming back to you when i need problem that needs fixing!!!!!
She was really nice and ready to help and was easy to talk to
A pleasure to talk to. Fun and engaging as well as relate-able. Very glad to have been able to talk to them!
Kind and ready to listen despite my awkwardness :)
She's very personal with you so you actually feel like you're talking to someone who cares.. She's attentive and responds quickly. She helped me a lot!
So kind she truly gets to understand your point and helps you. Truly blessed to have her as a listener
She was so so sosoosososoososososoos supportive and kind. She is helping me work through my problems calmly
when i told her i was a VICTIM she replied, NO.. ur a SURVIVOR. her sincerity and warmth can be felt across the vast ocean. listeners like her are what makes 7cups such a success. keep it up! :)
you're very helpful, thanks!
she's great! my favorite listener yet!!
So helpful...
she is great!
Was very helpful and responded very quickly.
Very friendly and kind. I would definitely reccomend.
Was pretty helpful and caring nice and interesting responses.
She was very nice!!!
Makes me feel so much better and gives positive responses.
This person was amazing. A little late on some responces but that didn't affect the chat at all.
Compassionate, helpful and very sweet. :) One of the best listeners I've connected with.
this gal's kind of adorable. and she also adjusts to your typing style which is super nice. makes you feel comfy. ♡
Warm and easy. Just like talking to a friend. Really helped me feel more at ease
She was very helpful
Not judgemental and a good listener
What can I say, she's probably one of the rare listeners on 7 cups who can truly listen to you vent about all your problems.
Was incredibly nice and friendly :) I felt comfortable talking with her and didn't feel judged at all. One of my favourite listeners!!
Shai was very friendly, considerate and thoughtful. She cares alot about your problems and trys to solve them in the best way possible aswell as being easy to relate to. I would recommend Shai to other listerners.
She is amaaaazing girl she didn't judge me or laugh at me although my problem was so embarrassing but she listened to me .. she care so much and felt my pain she is so sweeet and kind and awesome .. i am so lucky that she's my first listener.. I felt like I was talking to friend thank you so much for everything ❤Anna
^_^ I felt so much better after talking with this person!
Good
They have been so patient and kind with me, couldn't be more hrate
Truly wants to help others.
Great girl!
You were really nice. It's nice o have someone to talk to sometimes.
Excellent person, understanding when I came to her with dissociative identity disorder.
She helped me through family issues. She's kind and she does her job good. I recommend her.
she was sweet and listened when i was just being overemotional and silly about things. a really kind person.
Thanks
a great person overall felt like shit when i started felt so much better when i left highly recommend this listener
Amazing listener
Very helpful, good advice. Friendly person
She offered me help not only in a form of conversation, but also offered to give me a workout routine and a diet not to starve myself
She's really friendly n open I'll definitely come back for more ☺
Thankyou, you really listened but you gave me options and a safe way out. I don't know if it will work yet but you were genuinely helpful. :)
i really recommend them. they're a sweet and kind soul.
She was great!.
I was happy while talking to her
very kind and understanding
Very good at listening, I have spoke with many people about my problem before but all they would do is stress me out, but bebrave1498 gave me effective advice with no-stress! Thank you!!
She was really helpful feeling better already
The best counsellor i have ever met
She was very kind and professional when i had to talk about something serious and embarrassing to me.
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