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RebeccaA31
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Relationship Stress / by RebeccaA31
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 August 23rd, 2021
...See more Is this the place to ask? I dont know. But im going to tell you a little lot anyway... I have issues with my relationship. I dont know if i want to be in it. I should be grateful for a home and children but i am unhappy. We do not date, or go anywhere, we have no interests together. i feel unloved. I see him 'like' other womens photos so social media is a problem. I try to talk to him but he thinks im 'nagging'. I want him to leave but i love him. Ideally id like the relationship to be better and happier. But is the problem my mental health? Or is he the problem. I guess i can only answer that one myself but could use some guidence. Abit of back story you ask? Maybe you didnt but im going to write it anyway huh. AGED 18- I lose my first child and bury her 21weeks in. I want nothing more now than a child. Id lost so much. AGED 19- I birth my first beautiful boy.... hes amazing but his dad is mentally abusive. AGED 20- I find the courage to leave abusive relationship and find new partner. AGED 23- I have a 2nd child, another beautiful boy and a year later go onto have another boy with my 2nd relationship AGED 25- Said partner leaves me homeless with 3 children. Roll on 6years later, AGED 31 have a new partner (relationship 3) of 5 years and my fourth boy... he has autism. but the relationship is soooo hard, we dont go anywhere together. We have no family support, we have nothing in common. The only good thing going for us right now is a rented roof over our heads. There is no happiness. I dont know where to go from here. My partner and I are unhappy, and the children are feeling it too. I have no financial support from him other than bits and bobs here and there. I feel no love from him although he says it. I feel like a maid, a house keeper. What do i do, when do you know to give up on it?
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