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Powersoul
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What is this site's objective?
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by Powersoul
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June 18th, 2015
...See more Seriously. What are you all trying to accomplish here?   Apparently, it's nothing more than a site where people can log on, and be told that 'everything's going to be ok', and that 'we're here to support you and put a smile on your face'.   To me, that's an insult. Some people come here to find someone to give them advice, or set them on the right path. Instead, it seems like most of the people in positions to help just spew out pollyana garbage about a better future, without much substance to back the claim up.   WHAT'S YOUR GAME PEOPLE? WHAT'S THE OBJECTIVE OF THIS SITE?
Identity Crisis
General Support / by Powersoul
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September 29th, 2015
...See more I'm a pratical person.   Simply put, I'm trying to cope with being someone...who neglects everyone he knows socially. I'm not the most outspoken person (I can socialize pretty well), but I tend to avoid connecting with others. Most of my interactions are just based on small-talk.   On caring about others, noticing the small details...I generally suck (For the record, I've never had a proper girlfriend). It's no problem connecting with the fellas, but when it comes to women...the small details (her hair done, new earrings, her favorite things, small mannerisms, stuff she values, etc...)   ...I've never really given a crap. I'm not proud of what I'm about to say...but I've mostly viewed women with a strictly sexual interest. I never made an effort to remember the small details that women appreciate...I've spent time learning how to avoid all that, and just flirt aimlessly. I'm tired of not being able to connect with women.   I'm trying to figure out how to...be able to connect with women. Even if, now, it's to make female friends...I strongly desire to be a guy women can feel safe, protected, and comfortable around, while being attractive and masculine at the same time.   Any thoughts?
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