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LiaMaria666
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PathStep 18 Compassion hearts13 Forum posts19 Forum upvotes18 Current upvotes18 Age GroupAdult Last activeDecember, 2021 Member sinceAugust 1, 2018
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Your experiences being ace
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by LiaMaria666
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May 4th, 2021
...See more Hi there! Im a 22 year old asexual and biromantic female. As I am relatively new to the community and using these labels I would really appreciate it if you could share your experiences :) When and how did you discover you where ace / somewhere on the ace spectrum? Or did you just know? If you had sex before how was it for you? What did you feel during and after it? How would you describe what being asexual means to a person who cant correlate? Not the official definition but what it means for you. Have you ever been asked why you are asexual? (Because I honestly cant say. Its the same is asking why Im romantically attracted to both men and women. Or a lesbian / gay person why she / he is attracted to the same sex, heterosexuals to the other one and so on ...) Have you been told to see a doctor? That there is something wrong with you? What are your experiences being in a ace / non ace relationship? And do you have any tips for getting to know other asexuals? Because I have been in a ace / non ace relationship and it hasnt worked out for me. There was this constant barrier between us, he wanted to understand it but I couldnt give him an satisfying answer. And as we had sex in the beginning it was even more difficult for him to understand why I didnt want it later on. It always came back to this little problem we had regarding intimacy and our different expectations of it. Thats all for now, if you made it till here, thanks for listening to me :)
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