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Relationship Stress / by Curtis519
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 June 16th, 2021
...See more Hello everyone I’m really in need of some help I’m hoping somebody can maybe relate to my situation or maybe just help give me a little bit of guidance. I’ve been in a relationship now for 11 weeks and I realize that’s a short amount of time but me and this girl have really hit it off well she tells me she loves me already I haven’t told her the same but I feel the same. The problem we’re having is I’ve got a little bit of trust issues with her and it’s only because of a story she shared with me. She told me that her best friend in the world told her not to hang around her boyfriend when all of them aren’t together but my girlfriend shared the story with me and told me that it hurts her heart but at times when all of them are done partying at night sometimes her and the boyfriend will go and grab drinks behind the other girlfriends back now I do believe my girlfriend that there’s nothing sexual there’s nothing inappropriate that’s going on other than the fact that they have hidden Ness from the other girlfriend and that makes me think that she could possibly do that to me. Now my girlfriend is reassured me that she loves me more than anything she wants to spend the rest of her life with me but I’m having a really hard time excepting morally that she had already made that choice and has hung out with his boyfriend on numerous occasions in the past. She explain to me the last three times this boyfriend had text her that she had told him no way no how Which she hang out with him and she sent him on his way. But I’m still very conflicted on how to forgive her when she made that decision and only seems to have changed since I brought it to her attention when we started dating. I guess my question is should I believe that she has changed and can I trust her?
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