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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

DragonFruit00
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Hello, thank you for stopping by!❤️ I am very happy to be here! Helping others makes me feel happy and all warm inside. I am an old soul that can relate to the most diffused kinds of pain. I am here to help you through what has been keeping you up at night! I am really caring, compassionate, sweet, bubbly and soft! ❤️ Please reach out, if you feel like having a great time and an engaging conversation! 💕
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tellMemore1981
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Welcome to 7 cups of tea. We all live the course of our lives by choosing different paths. Each one of us are unique and special because of the choices we make for ourselves in life. And there is this one thing which connects all of us and makes us one...........it happens when we reciprocate love, feel the pain of others and offer consolation and peace to someone who is in dire need of it. The most amazing thing is, it requires nothing; but a sensitive, emotional, and compassionate heart and a little bit of time to be there when someone is in pain. At times, when it hurts a lot....a little hug, a tap on the back, and a soft cuddle could do the Midas touch. It is much more powerful than those thousand irrelevant conversations. Hence, if you want me to be with you, walk by your side and be a silent friend whom you need to vent out ........reach out for me for an in-depth and personalized conversation aimed at a process of not only listening but making sure you feel understood and healed.
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kindheartedLily
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✨Unfortunately, I'm unavailable to take on new member chats✨ Please reach out to another listener if you need support by clicking here to browse listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. My response time may be slower on weekdays. I appreciate your patience and understanding 💙 Hi and welcome! I'm so glad you're here💙 I'm a verified and trained active listener on 7 Cups who is here to listen and offer support. As someone who has struggled with their own mental health, I understand the value of having someone to talk to during tough times. I use my education, along with my own lived experience, to support and guide others on their journey. I'm here to listen with zero judgment. You are not alone 💜  🔶 My roles on 7 Cups🔶 Lead Team Leader of the Listener Coaching Team Quality Mentor Adult-Teen Listener Coach Chat Support Safety Patrol Team Teen Transition Mentor Adult-Teen Listener Verified Listeners Team  Team Lightship **This is a great tool to convert GMT to your time zone: https://greenwichmeantime.com/time-gadgets/time-zone-converter/ [https://greenwichmeantime.com/time-gadgets/time-zone-converter/] ------------------------- Status Green: This means I am online and available to start a conversation. Please don't hesitate to reach out and message me.   Orange: This means I'm online but am busy talking with other members and am unable to take more chats. You are more than welcome to send me a message and I will respond as soon as I can. Red: This means I'm offline. Please don't hesitate to message me and I will respond when I am back online. 
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bookworm4
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Hi there! Welcome to 7 Cups :) I’m part of the Admin team as a Safety Specialist. I'm also a trained active teen and adult listener and I like to support people struggling with about anything. I came here to find help myself and I did and it made me feel a lot better and I want to do the same for others by listening to them. I love to read and listen to music. You can vent out, think out loud, talk about anything you like and I will be here to listen to you without judging you at all as I know how hard it is to open up. I want you to feel safe with me while you talk and know that I am here for you. I am: * A Safety Admin on 7 Cups * A Teen Ambassador * An Adult - Teen Listener Just know that I’m here for you :)
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hopedreamlove
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☕️ I am really sorry, but I am unable to take new member chats at the moment and will not be able to respond to messages. You can find a wonderful listener using the Browse Listeners page. I truly hope you find the support you deserve!  🌺 Thank you to Tazzie, the incredible human who coded this bio and helped me become the listener and leader I am today. Thank you so much for everything. Rest In Peace.  ☕️ Hi you! Yes, you! The incredible human being who might be struggling and who deserves compassion and kindness. I may not have gone through the same experiences as you, but I can understand and acknowledge that you are in immense pain. It can be incredibly difficult reaching out for support, I am so proud of you for taking the first step to find support. Things may seem difficult or even impossible right now, but you are not alone. You matter, are worthy, and valid. 🌺 Hello hello hello! I am Hope or Jasmine, a Muslim, South Asian-American living in Canada. I am a young adult who is navigating through the ups and downs of life. I have been called the "Queen of Typos," so that probably tells you something about me! I adore coffee, listening to music (especially Broadway songs),  watching TV shows, and learning about the world. I am in university, studying computer science. I discovered this site about three years ago, and fell in love with this fantabulous community. I believe everyone has their own story, and I am here on 7 cups because I would be honored to listen to yours. ☕️ My listening style is a bit different from most, in the way that my messages are usually longer and reflect and provide my insight on what you said. It will still be your chat, and you will have the power to direct the topic to what you are looking to talk about. I do not take chats on eating disorders, alcohol/drug use, sexual abuse and sexual health at the moment, thank you for understanding! I am most comfortable providing support to those ages 13-20. I unfortunately cannot wave a magic wand and solve any problems you might be having (I absolutely would if I could) but instead I can provide a listening ear and be there for you. I strongly believe in kindness and respect which I always incorporate in my conversations. During our chat, I will also empower and validate you while creating a safe place for you to talk in my pms. It has lots of cookies, hugs, and any other treats or comfort items you want. 🌺 Projects/Roles I am currently involved with: Verified Listener, Adult Teen Listener, Chatroom Ambassador (with a primary focus on resources, the listener Chatroom supporter role, and the Teen Listeners room),  Teen Chatroom Leader, Teen Chatroom Mentor, Adult and Teen Quality Mentor, Forum Mentor, Doorkeeper ☕️ This is a safe and inclusive profile for all. While there are some topics mentioned above that I do not take due to personal reasons, I will not ever discriminate or judge you. People of all genders, sexualities, race, religions, beliefs, and identities are welcome here! Thank you so much for taking the time to visit my profile. I hope you have a lovely day! Click here for a surprise! [https://i.imgur.com/NgyXfd1.gif]
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GuiOakes
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/// Please send me personal request or personal message while I am away, I will get back to you as soon as I can. \\\ Hi there, I am NS and I am a verified listener on 7cups since 2020, if you are feeling low, if you are in pain and you want to rant out and need someone to hear you out, you can talk to me.  This is a safe place, I don't judge, I don't give advice, whatever happens between us stays between us, you can let yourself out, and I'll listen to you. I personally have gone through many issues alone when I didn't want to because I didn't have anyone, I try to be a person who I could have relied on when I went through my dark episodes in life, and I want to help you in the same way by being someone whom you can rely upon with your deepest and darkest problems. I know how it feels when life seems to be going in a downward spiral, but I can reassure you that while things may not seem fine, they will be better in long term. Its hard going through the hurdles of life alone, when faced with tough times, you don't have to go through it alone, you can rely on me, on us. Being a listener, don't hesitate to approach me if you want to talk about any topic you'd like. We can talk about anything you are going through to anything you are passionate about. Everyone is welcomed here, even listeners who might be going through something they wanna rant or discuss about but make sure to use your member account for that. I prioritize comfort, boundaries and listening above everything, if you do have any topics or any boundaries you feel uncomfortable discussing, let me know. I'll make sure not to cross any of them.  A note to myself and others who might be going through their own problems: You are a human, a flawed one. You make mistakes like everyone does, you aren't different from others. We all are different, all our problems are different but no matter how small they seem in your eyes, they are valid nonetheless. Happiness and Suffering and two sides of same coin called life. There will be times so tough you want to give up, and there will be times where you cannot contain your happiness. No matter how tough life seems right now, don't give up. You are valid. Your problems are valid. Your experiences are valid. Don't let people who say otherwise, influence you into thinking you are worthless, because most of the times, its self projection. Talk to me, ill listen. Don't let your negative self influence you into thinking everything's worthless and there's no point in talking about it, at a cosmos level, nothing really matters. But right now, in the moment, you are living, you are experiencing, so it does matter, at least right now. Its going to be alright, even if it doesn't in the moment feels so, let talk and open up and try to make things alright. pfp by wooma from shama- Shama - Utattemita/Miyashita Yuu - YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpuyx_Y_Hw0] PS- I like to give huge and tight hugs, ill give you too, as much as you want :p​
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naturalDreamer7328
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Hello! You can call me whatever you want If you ever need someone to talk to about anything then feel free to a message and I will reply as soon as I see the message  I hope I will be able to help you! Click to see an amazing person's profile! [https://www.7cups.com/112712843]
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TheMetanoia
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I won't be taking any chats regarding sexual related topic or seeking personal relationship outside 7cups Thank you! ​​​​​​ hello there! I am glad you found me on 7 cups of tea . I am a trained and active listener here. Most of us have probably had at least one period of big change in their life. These periods tend to be challenging and uncomfortable to say the least. Whether it is a realization of a recurring pattern, letting go of a limiting belief, a new understanding – the breakthrough is a hard time. There are life-changing events taking place, accompanied by all sorts of uneasy feelings – doubt, fear, lack of direction and an overall sense of doom. But, ultimately, this is how life works and this is how we learn and level up in the game of being. I am happy to help u and i care to listen. I will help you recognize your feelings. In case you're having a hard time expressing yourself in writing, do feel free to reach out to me here for paid VC sessions. I will try my best to understand your pain my friend :-) I believe and hope that you and I together can solve any problem. Feel free to share your thoughts                                                    
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HopieRemi
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To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  If messaging, let me know if you are seeking peer support, mentoring, or chat support. I can also edit Forum Posts. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I do not offer advice as that can be harmful to you. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I mostly offer support in the group room as a Moderator and the forums as a Community Mentor. I do accept chats, if it is a topic I support. If you are contacting me, please let me know in a few words what our conversation will be about. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. If you have been referred to me, please send me a message and let me know you are a referral. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours?
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MoonlightPrimrose
L Expert 9 1299
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- 🌼 If you reach out to me while I am offline, please keep in mind that it will likely take 1-2 weeks for me to respond. Briefly introduce yourself and what you would like to talk about and let me know what days and times would generally work for you, so we can set up a time to chat as soon as possible 🌼 - ------------------------- Hey! Great that you found me here on 7cups. My screenname here is MoonlightPrimrose, but you can call me Louie or Lou if you want. My pronouns are they/them and he/him. I've been listening on and offline for more than 7 years now, I like to read, I like to be creative in many different ways with photography, drawing, painting, writing and playing DnD and I have a gentle spiritual self-care practice of Tarot, Yoga Asana, meditation and other grounding and connecting techniques. I am also quite passionate about social justice and try to learn and unlearn every day. I do my best to consider my own positioning as a white, upper-middle class neurodivergent disabled queer trans person in my listening work. I am very queer. I use a lot of different words and labels to describe myself, depending on people and situations in my life. Some of them are: trans*, non-binary, gay, transmasculine, greyromantic, or simply queer. Feeling alone, overwhelmed or sad is something I know, but I also know how much it helps to just talk to someone... It's not always a solution to every single problem, but it's often a relief to know that there are people out there who care for you and who know what you are going through. We are meant to support each other. We are not meant to fight through this life on our own. I've experienced struggles with bullying, school and family stress, anxiety, depression, coming out and other issues of queer (gender) identity myself and this might help you feel heard if we share these experiences. If you feel like we might be a good match: Just send me a message. As mentioned above it might take 1-2 weeks for me to respond, but we'll schedule a time to chat if I have capacity and see where it goes from there. The chats I schedule are up to 50 minutes long and my timezone is CET. If I have the capacity and feel like we match well I will offer follow-up chats towards the end of our first one. As you might have noticed: I'm from Germany and German is my native language. So if there are fellow Germans out there who want to talk, schreibt mir einfach, dann können wir natürlich auch Deutsch reden :) ------------------------- - Louie -
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bigShell9339
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I am willing to listen to you without any judgment. BEFORE REQUESTING TO SPEAK TO ME, PLEASE REMEMBER: I am NOT a trained professional. I am a volunteer listener and do my best to support members through conversation and resource sharing.  I am up for personal requests, if I do not respond, please wait.  If I am not online, drop a message, I will follow up.
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izzyy528
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Hey there I'm Izzy, welcome to my profile!  Sometimes talking and opening up can be difficult to do, and that's okay! I can't promise to fix your problems, but I can promise to be here and offer a friendly listening ear for you to talk to and share your story!  I have a genuine passion for supporting others, and I am committed to establishing a secure, inviting, and non-judgmental space for our conversations. Whether it's something troubling you or simply what's on your mind, feel free to reach out at any time. Your messages are always welcome, and I'll respond as soon as possible.  If you'd like to discuss a topic that necessitates a bit of research or if you prefer a specific scheduled time, feel free to book me HERE [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/14OfE8l_C4SGjmjAxWyfW27hITjBQsCxqjEUtBOQInLA/viewform?edit_requested=true]  Please feel free to message me anytime and I will get back to you as soon as possible 💙 ------------------------- Colours of Availability:  💚 Green: I'm online and currently taking new chats. Feel free to message me and I will respond shortly 💚 🧡 Orange: I'm online, but I may be busy with other members or listeners right now. Feel free to leave me a message, and I will respond when I am free 🧡 ❤️ Red: I'm currently offline or unable to take chats right now. Feel free to leave me a message, and I will reply the next time I am online ❤️ ------------------------- When it comes to these specific chats: Sexual health: Please do not message me if you have any inappropriate intentions or want to ask me inappropriate personal questions, also don't message me asking me how to help you control your urges. In addition, don't message me about your sexual insecurities with such body parts, or go into detail about sexual interactions you've had on an intimate level as they make me feel uncomfortable.  Cancer/chronic pain/diabetes/disabilities: I don't mind discussing these topics, but I want all members to get the best possible support and I believe that I am not experienced enough to support someone with these specific issues as I have not personally experienced them or know anyone who has experienced them.  ------------------------- My roles on 7 Cups: - Listener verifier - Peer supporter - Safety patrol - Kahoot sessions hoster - VL Project Agent - SPOT (Safety Patrol Outreach Team) ------------------------- Please do not message me asking for advice or for a diagnosis...I am a trained listener, not a therapist, I'm here to listen and support you, not to give advice or a diagnosis.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               Any inappropriate chats will be blocked and reported.        Thank you for reading my bio! ------------------------- -------------------------
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