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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

GreatestClassiest
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As Salamu Alaikum  The weird listening wizard. Made In Bangladesh And So Easy To Understand, I am An Asian. Don't Be A Racist Claiming Asians Aren't Good In Listening. Serving This Ground Since 2016. I Claim Myself The Greatest And Classiest Because I Have Never Taken a Break From This Ground Since I Entered. Now Easy To Understand Because Other Listeners Here Who Show Too Much Excitement And Passion For Listening Often Break Their Own Mind And Hide Themselves Suddenly. I Can't Be That Careless Like Others, So That's My Biggest Point To Claim Myself The Greatest And Classiest of 7 Cups. Consistency Matters Most When The Task Is Voluntary. I Believe Taking A Break And Hiding From Those Who Seek Help Is Cowardice.  People Often Call Me A Narcissist, But I'll Say To Be A Narcissist, It Needs Some Unique Ability To Define Your Statement, And I Have That. And Lastly, Don't Waste My Time By Showing a Lack Of Consistency. I Trade Modesty, So Be Modest. Also, I'm A Muslim, So Choose Those Topics That Suits A Muslim Because It's Fun To Kick Someone When He Selects A Wrong Topic To Share With Me. 
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Sunisshiningandsoareyou
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(Updated, current month 2024) ❤️ *on a break* ❤️  ------------------------- Response Time/ PM-land access:  🌻 Members:  New Member Chats: I'm completely unavailable for new members. (Members I've never talked to before whether new or old on cups)  Regular/ Recurring/ Old Member Chats: People I've talked to/ supported over a committed time frame, I love to hear updates from you, and am happy to see your messages. But please know that I'm unavailable for LIVE chats and can only reply offline, when I'm able to. (Responses may be several days delayed) So whether you're a new member or someone I've talked to before, if you need Live/ Immediate/ Urgent/ Regular/ Long-term support chat, please reach out to another available listener in cups.  You deserve prompt support, which I cannot offer, for an unforeseeable time! ❤ 🌻 Listeners:  I'm available for Peer Support and Chat Support only when I've accepted your request either through Chat Support/ Peer Supporter request forms or in the LSR, so please before messaging me for any of it, ask me in the room, as otherwise I may not be available to respond timely! Mentees/ Coachees: I'm so proud of you for trying your best to improve as a listener, and happy to hear any updates from you!  I'm typically unavailable for Live chats, and offline responses may vary, feel free to drop your questions though, if not too urgent, and I'll respond as soon as possible!  If you need a live chat, let me know a little in advance, mentioning the topic for the chat/ kind of support needed, your time/ availability in ET pr cups-time and hopefully, we can schedule for a live chat sometime!  Not available for any personal chats/ PMs unless stated/ agreed to otherwise. (Due to a high influx of messages, I'm unable to prioritize replying to messages with just a "hey/hi/ greeting", thank you for greeting me, but please do share a bit about "what" you're reaching out for, whether as a listener or a member, as it helps me understand how to respond better and faster. Messages with only "hey/ hi/ greetings" are missed often.)  I'll be around, in the forums and chatrooms when I can though, feel welcome to tag me in your posts or replies, happy to see you! 🥰 I've sadly not been getting notifications for all the tags lately, apologies if missed your tag. Feel free to send another tag or a personal message, if needed.  (I know) Extremely slow response rate: I'm on a break from several activities/roles here, but have been catching up with PMs and tags as much as possible. Responses will be slow and delayed, your patience is appreciated. Send a follow-up, if I missed your important message or if you need an urgent reply. <3 Support shouldn't be delayed, so I highly recommend browsing for other listeners when you need some emotional support. Please remember you are awesome and not alone here. ❤ Stay great and take good care, everyone.   Response time for all my current (regular) members/ listeners (and mentees) would vary as I am not logging in here regularly as earlier, I apologize if messages are delayed.  Send a follow-up, if needed. Thank you for understanding, YOU do come first and there's plenty of support available at all times, please do find an amazing currently active listener  HERE [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/], and I hope you receive the best support available! 💖 ------------------------- Hello, Amazing Human, Welcoming hugs and high fives and cookies for you! (Take what you need hehe) I am Sun, Thank you for finding me here, I understand life isn't always smooth sailing, we all have our ups and downs. I know I won't be able to solve all your problems, but problems shared are problems halved, right? Or even if not halved, I do feel sharing can help reduce the burden of overwhelming thoughts and feelings in your mind ~ your mind is not a notepad, it shouldn't be a place to "store" thoughts and feelings ~ share away, your mind deserves to feel lighter and better and so do *you* ... Besides being a trained verified listener here, I can offer you a kind, empathetic and non-judgmental ear and help you guide through these dark times. Feel free to Talk/ Share/ Vent and I'll be more than happy to listen to you, provide you with a safe and comfortable space and help you feel better in any way I can. Please do keep in mind that I can't and won't advise you, I can help you guide through the roads, but the steering wheel will always be in your hand and the direction to choose will always be your decision solely since you know your journey and your destination, the best. Rest assured, you've got your passenger seat covered for any support and encouragement always!  I am a persun who believes in the power of sharing smiles, happiness, kindness, encouragement, hope and positivity And I would love to share these with you too if you allow me to (always at your pace and comfort of course).🌻 I am pretty respectful and polite to everyone and personally do not use any offensive language including any kind of passive-aggressive/ provoking remarks, so would certainly expect and appreciate the same from you. Everyone deserves basic respect and decency! 💛  People looking for inappropriate sexual chats and/ or interested in making any sexual advances towards me~ this is an emotional support platform ~ and we do *not* entertain such kinds of conversations here. Please refrain from sending any messages, if you're here for any reason other than seeking emotional support, thankyou. I don't take chats on topics such as chronic pain, panic attacks, sexual health and self-harm. Feel free to browse other amazing listeners for these topics and those not listed under "categories" HERE [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. ❤  💛If you are currently having crisis thoughts (active or passive, or actively harming yourself) *offers hugs*, I know how terrible it can be to be in this hopeless situation, please however respect our boundaries as a listener, our limits and that 7 cups is not a crisis platform, we do care and therefore ask you to reach out to relevant channels of support. You can find resources here:-  7cups.com/crisis, please do connect with a hotline. You may not believe it at the moment, but you are *not* unworthy of living, you are not taking space unnecessarily, you are not your current situation neither your current thoughts. Nobody exactly knows, but we gotta keep hanging on tightly, to see for ourselves when and how it gets better because it does, *someday* and you need to be here to experience it.  Brave it in this very moment, reach out for help. You owe it to *yourself*. 💛 The topics I am comfortable providing support for include general mental health struggles, getting unstuck, managing emotions, student life-related topics, friendship/ relationship/ family stress, social anxiety, self-esteem issues etc. and more are listed below, under categories! Feel free to send a message if you see me online (green status) and I will get back to you as soon as I can, we can then schedule a time and day for a chat or agree upon offline messaging, whichever is more comfortable and suitable for us. 🤗 At Last, remember that you are not alone, your mental health is important, you are a brave person to seek support,  you are here and I am proud of you for that.  If you give me a chance I'll try my best to be there for you, to be there with you and remind you that even if the clouds appear to be very dark at any point in time,  the Sun Is Shining And So Are Youuuu. 🌻🌞🌻 You are one Amazing human, you are important, you matter and You are deserving of kindness, happiness, support, love and all things amazing in life! It's cool to be kind, people!🤗 Have an amazing day/ night ahead! ------------------------- MY ROLES @7 CUPS- The most important and my favourite one is to provide everyone with a  friendly, supportive,  inclusive and cheerful environment along with sharing some cookies and hugs. 🥰 🍪🌻🤗 # Trained and Verified Listener to provide quality listening to members  # Safety Patrol  (profile flagging ) Team member to try and keep the community safe for all.  # Peer Supporter (for listeners needing support after a hard or triggering chat  or in general not feeling good about their listener role and needing a space to vent about "mild" site-related issues)  # Chat Support  (I can provide support with ongoing chats to listeners)  # Listener's Verifiers Team member  (I take mock chats for listeners under the verification process)  Want to get verified? Check here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/NewAdditionalCriteriaToBecomeVerifiedListenerGoingLive_230276/] or feel free to message me for more information.  #Quality Mentor  #Listener Coach  # Global community mentor and forum supporter ( Needs Reply Team ) #Listener Chatroom Supporter  #Doorkeeper (feel free to message me if you'd like to open / close rooms)  #Ocassional- Events, Pop up discussions, listener events and safety support sessions Host  # Advisor/ Helper for the Peer Appreciation Program. Click the button below to appreciate yourself or a peer In the community  Peer Appreciation Form [https://forms.gle/hfwDBA8dTaP6bhta9] Join our team by clicking the following button: Smile Spreader [https://forms.gle/rgPfNwytBgJRChp7A] #7 cups Internship,  Leadership Development Program, Group Leadership Dynamics,  Building Community Program and the Content Development and Marketing program's graduate. ~ proud 7 Cups Academy Alumni hehe!  ------------------------- THANK YOU FOR READING, FEEL FREE TO SEND A TEXT ANYTIME, I'D LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU  SOON!  STAY AWESOME, STAY HYDRATED  and TAKE CARE! 🌻❤ #ByeByeCliques, do check out this [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupModZone_168/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/WarmWelcomeEveryoneByeByeCliqueChallenge_238987/#] post for more information and to join the movement. We are a safe and inclusive place for all, and *you* do matter! 🤗
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hopedreamlove
L Epitome 10 2040
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
☕️ I am really sorry, but I am unable to take new member chats at the moment and will not be able to respond to messages. You can find a wonderful listener using the Browse Listeners page. I truly hope you find the support you deserve!  🌺 Thank you to Tazzie, the incredible human who coded this bio and helped me become the listener and leader I am today. Thank you so much for everything. Rest In Peace.  ☕️ Hi you! Yes, you! The incredible human being who might be struggling and who deserves compassion and kindness. I may not have gone through the same experiences as you, but I can understand and acknowledge that you are in immense pain. It can be incredibly difficult reaching out for support, I am so proud of you for taking the first step to find support. Things may seem difficult or even impossible right now, but you are not alone. You matter, are worthy, and valid. 🌺 Hello hello hello! I am Hope or Jasmine, a Muslim, South Asian-American living in Canada. I am a young adult who is navigating through the ups and downs of life. I have been called the "Queen of Typos," so that probably tells you something about me! I adore coffee, listening to music (especially Broadway songs),  watching TV shows, and learning about the world. I am in university, studying computer science. I discovered this site about three years ago, and fell in love with this fantabulous community. I believe everyone has their own story, and I am here on 7 cups because I would be honored to listen to yours. ☕️ My listening style is a bit different from most, in the way that my messages are usually longer and reflect and provide my insight on what you said. It will still be your chat, and you will have the power to direct the topic to what you are looking to talk about. I do not take chats on eating disorders, alcohol/drug use, sexual abuse and sexual health at the moment, thank you for understanding! I am most comfortable providing support to those ages 13-20. I unfortunately cannot wave a magic wand and solve any problems you might be having (I absolutely would if I could) but instead I can provide a listening ear and be there for you. I strongly believe in kindness and respect which I always incorporate in my conversations. During our chat, I will also empower and validate you while creating a safe place for you to talk in my pms. It has lots of cookies, hugs, and any other treats or comfort items you want. 🌺 Projects/Roles I am currently involved with: Verified Listener, Adult Teen Listener, Chatroom Ambassador (with a primary focus on resources, the listener Chatroom supporter role, and the Teen Listeners room),  Teen Chatroom Leader, Teen Chatroom Mentor, Adult and Teen Quality Mentor, Forum Mentor, Doorkeeper ☕️ This is a safe and inclusive profile for all. While there are some topics mentioned above that I do not take due to personal reasons, I will not ever discriminate or judge you. People of all genders, sexualities, race, religions, beliefs, and identities are welcome here! Thank you so much for taking the time to visit my profile. I hope you have a lovely day! Click here for a surprise! [https://i.imgur.com/NgyXfd1.gif]
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HopieRemi
L Epitome 19 5481
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To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  If messaging, let me know if you are seeking peer support, mentoring, or chat support. I can also edit Forum Posts. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I do not offer advice as that can be harmful to you. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I mostly offer support in the group room as a Moderator and the forums as a Community Mentor. I do accept chats, if it is a topic I support. If you are contacting me, please let me know in a few words what our conversation will be about. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. If you have been referred to me, please send me a message and let me know you are a referral. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours?
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bookworm274
L Maven 3 334
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Not currently taking new member chats  Hi there! I'm bookworm274 but you can just call me bookworm, book or worm. My chat style: My chat times range from 20 minutes (typically a more casual chat) to 60 minutes. However, I am always happy to do longer chats as long as they have been scheduled. Please scroll down to the list that states the topics that I am comfortable taking before asking to chat with me, thank you. Status meanings: My status is typically on Red or Orange, I hardly ever have it on Green. So please feel free to send me a message no matter what colour my status is because I may be on the site! If I'm not on the site when you send me a message then I will get back to you in a minimum of 24 hours as I check 7 Cups at least once a day for messages!  My roles: Verified Listener - I have been verified for my active listening skills which means you can trust that I am a high quality listener! Project Agent - I am a Project Agent for the 7 Cups Leadership Community mainly focusing on the Needs Reply team as the team-lead and onboarding new Forum Supporters but also working on overall subcommunity areas. Listener Twins: @tami150 - my first 7Cups twin - if I'm unavailable check out her account. She's an amazing listener and person and super sweet and helpful!  @Azalea98  - my supportive twin - she's super amazing and is always there to support me!   
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tommy
L Sage 11 543
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hi, i'm tommy. •────────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•────────────• a little bit about me   i'm an early 20s career driven, lowercase obsessed and 7 cups enthusiast from england. i am most passionate about creating a safe and inclusive space for people to express themselves. unfortunately, i am not taking on member chat requests right now. please connect with another listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] 🎈 •─────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•─────────• my roles @ 7 cups ambassador as communities/forum ambassador, i oversee leadership applications [https://www.7cups.com/forum/7cupsleadership/SubcommunitiesInformation_2314/UpdatedSubcommunityTrackLeadershipRolesMasterpost2023_289838/], engagement and moderation across the forums. do you need an update on your application or have you got a question about using the forums? drop me a message! safety patrol team leader i help co-lead the safety patrol and safety patrol outreach teams. let me know if you see an inappropriate profile or would like info on joining the team! misc i am also involved in several other projects across the site, so please do not hesitate to reach out if you have any questions! •─────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•─────────•
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WarmLightXO
L Guru 2 782
5.0 star rating
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Everything is going to be okay 🌼🌿 I'm Light (or Elliot) and I’m glad you’re here💚 He/him, EST I'm especially versed in LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent issues, but I'm happy to support you with anything you need to chat about. Please note that unless I pull you out of the queue, I'm probably only available for offline chats 🌻 Where talk exists, so does hope 💛 ------------------------- Ainda não falo br português fluentemente, mas adoraria apoiá-lo da melhor maneira que posso. 💚
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KateDoskocilova
L Epitome 3 1617
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
  READ BIO BEFORE MESSAGING. due to my roles and personal life, I may not always accept chat requests Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners] I only take *teen* chats. If you are an adult member, please reach out to somebody else. In order to chat with me, please schedule a time with me to do so (at least 24hrs before appointed time). I am usually available on Tuesdays, Thursdays and the weekends from 9am-12:30pm ET. important to know that chat sessions with me last anywhere from 30-40 minutes. 🌺 Hi there! Welcome to my page :) I am Kate, a young woman from a city in the northern area of Greece. I am a high school student, studying in the humanities field and am working towards studying psychology or English philology in university. I initially joined this site to get support in regards to my at the time relationship, and decided to also join as a Listener, doing exactly what I plan on having as my profession in a few years from now: be there for people. My main role here is to be there for you no matter what you go through, no matter how big or small it is. And no matter how many roles I take on on this site, I will still be here for you. For that is my main goal, my biggest contribution to this community. 🥰 Some of my hobbies include: dancing, writing, reading books (romance, fantasy, mythology and non-fiction), filming videos as well as taking pictures. 🌺 I am only available for supportive conversations on the topics listed on my profile. For any other topic, please contact another listener. Thank you! 🌺 My contribution to this community goes beyond being a Listener. Here are some other roles I have taken up: Verified Listener. I have been verified by the community for my commitment to active listening skills and quality chatting. That means the community expects of me to maintain professional, kind, open-minded and understanding towards you at all times. Chat Supporter. I am considered a listener who has expertise in the role of a listener and is eligible to provide specialized support to listeners on 7cups in regards to their role/supportive chat. Peer Supporter. I am considered a listener who is capable of listening to fellow listeners after a difficult chat with a member and provide support and show empathy to them after this tough situation they were in. Global Moderator. I ensure a welcoming and safe space for everyone in the member community chat rooms. I am found quite often there, especially in the Teen Community Chatroom. Pass by and say hi! Doorkeeper. I can open and close community rooms. If you need a room opened or closed, you are welcome to contact me. Chatroom Mentor/Teen Chatroom Star. I help moderate the 7 Cups listener chatrooms and support the listeners, too. Community Mentor Leader for the Relationship Stress community. I overview the Relationship Stress community and forums. Are you interested in joining the team? Let me know! Safety Patrol Team Member. I flag profiles that go against the website guidelines. 🌺 My status usually indicates: Green: I am online and ready to take a chat. Orange: I am online but busy, which means my responses will be slower. Red: I am offline. You can leave me an offline message during that time. Expected response time is 24-48 hours after your message is sent. If you receive no response within that time range, feel free to send me a message again (I may sometimes forget to respond, so excuse me for that :P) Message me and let's schedule a chat! 🌺 My amazing twins: @Antonio7Cups @starryWillow9852
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PolarCat
L Marvel 2 1542
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Hi there, I am married and have two kids.  I have personal experience with depression, anxiety, and parenting a child with autism.  However, I am comfortable discussing a wide range of topics so feel free to leave me a message and we can schedule a time to chat.    I am LGBTQ+ friendly.   My chats:   I do scheduled chats for 45 minutes with the option for a 15 minute follow up chat at a later date, if necessary.  However, at this time I am not taking repeat/long term chats.  If you require a long term listener then I can help you to find one who is able to work with you.   Also, I prefer not to take chats on Eating Disorders or medical issues.   Please note:  I get many PMs every day so sometimes it takes me a couple days to reply.  Thanks for your patience. My status:   Online:  I am online and available to take a chat. Busy:  I am busy with chats or projects on the site.  You can leave me a message and I will respond when I can.  I may or may not respond before I log off. Offline:  I am not presently online or I am busy with projects/chats.  You can leave a message and I will get back to you at my earliest convenience. My roles here: Quality Ambassador | Verified Listener Team | Grading & Feedback for Active Listening training | Peer Support    
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Heartsandrosesandpaws
L Guru 8 472
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
I greatly love learning new things, nature, cats, and much more. The topics I do  not take at this time are 1 weight management  2 eating disorders 3  alcohol /  drug abuse 4 addiction chats 5 financial stress any other topic that is not listed here I am ok taking.
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SparkyGizmo
L Paragon 11 852
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Unable to take member chats at this time.  "You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think". - Winnie The Pooh I believe that all people need something to do, something to aspire to and someone to love. I believe that angels walk among us, because God is a really busy person-solving lack of world peace, world hunger, etc.  He sends angels to us even in human form to help the cause.  Look for them...now, look harder. I believe what you seek, you shall find. I believe that we all have something to learn from anyone and everyone that we meet. I believe that happiness is a journey and not a destination. I believe that kindness matters, always. Oh well, that's just me.  I BELIEVE ❤️  Enough about me, how about if we talk about you?  Roles on 7 cups Trained Active Listener Verified Active Listener Safety Patrol Team  Peer Pro Peer Support Global Forum Supporter 7 Cups Welcome Committee Pop Up Room Co-host when needed Eyes to the ground. Head bowed. Love in my heart. If we could only just think....."Ideologies separate us. Dreams and anguish bring us together". - Eugene Ionesco . Please let us all be kind to ourselves and to one another.  "Don't be evil" Paul Buchheit "Love Always Comes Back" GlenM's grandmother "...and this is why we can't have nice things around here".  H 😊😁😊 "Keep it real or get the banana peel". Community Mod Anne Proud recipient of the:  Funny Bunny Badge, Biggest Heart Award, Love Award, Kindness Personified Award, Electrifying Energy Badge, "O.A." Original Appreciator Badge, Unofficial "The Receptionist", Spark Hug Badge, "Sing" Badge and Sparkiest Badge (Thank you teammates! I adore you all! ❤️)
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CalmWhisper22
L Paragon 6 3690
4.5 star rating
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Sorry not accepting member chats at this time other than regular members that I listen to. Please see here for a listener:  https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] I like to help others and like to be helped also. Created the following to help everyone please let me know if there is a web site that I should add as a resource:             ACT resources     -  An Introduction to Acceptance and Commitment Therapy [https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/two-takes-depression/201102/introduction-acceptance-and-commitment-therapy]   CBT resources -  How CBT can help [http://dbtselfhelp.com/SelfHelpCourse.pdf] -  Anxiety Worksheets [https://www.psychologytools.com/category/anxiety/] -  Cognitive distortions [https://psychcentral.com/lib/15-common-cognitive-distortions/] -  Health anxiety [https://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/healthanxiety.htm] -  psychologytools.com/download-therapy-worksheets.html [https://psychologytools.com/download-therapy-worksheets.html]   DBT resources -  psychcentral.com/lib/an-overview-of-dialectical-behavior-therapy/ [https://psychcentral.com/lib/an-overview-of-dialectical-behavior-therapy/] -  lmgroeszpsychotherapy.com [https://lmgroeszpsychotherapy.com] -  Coping with Flashbacks [https://www.dbtselfhelp.com/CopingwithFlashbacks.pdf] -  Feelings wheel [https://threetofivefourtwentyfour.files.wordpress.com/2015/08/feelings-wheel.jpg] -  Turning the mind [https://www.dbtselfhelp.com/html/turning_the_mind.html] Activity Scheduling Activities can be connected to the way you feel. If you track feelings of depression, you may discover that when you are depressed you are more passive and less active. Following the observation that depressed people tend to stop doing pleasurable activities, depression treatments often emphasize increasing the weekly number of pleasurable activities. Additional ways to improve mood: Surround yourself with people who have a positive impact on you Invest in friendships and have a “go to” person that you can trust Become more forgiving - forgive yourself and forgive others [http://letmebeme1.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/reach-steps-to-forgiveness.doc] Build on areas of strength and note evidence for new beliefs that replace old negative beliefs (praise yourself for things you accomplish) Keep a gratitude journal [http://www.wikihow.com/Start-a-Gratitude-Journal]   Coping skills -  Alphabet of Stress Management and Coping Skills [http://rwjms.rutgers.edu/departments_institutes/cf_center/documents/Alphabet-of-Coping-Skills-Interventions.pdf] -  Adult Pleasant Activities [http://dbtselfhelp.com/html/adult_pleasant_activities.html] -  Adult Pleasant Events [https://www.dbtselfhelp.com/html/er_handout_8.html] -  99 Coping Skills [http://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/Pages/tip-99-coping-skills.aspx]   Books -  5 love languages and then discuss it [http://www.5lovelanguages.com/] -  Mindfulness for borderline personality disorder [https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/mindfulness-for-borderline-personality-disorder-blaise-aguirre/1113506892?ean=9781608825653&st=PLA&sid=BNB_DRS_BN+Bing+Books_00000000&2sid=Bing_e&sourceId=PLBiP74830#/]   Contacts -  Cancer [https://www.cancercenter.com/] -  Cahoots [http://whitebirdclinic.org/cahoots/] -  Doctor Reviews [http://doctor-lookup.com/doctor-reviews/] -  Doctor Specialists [http://doctor-lookup.com/doctor-specialists/] -  Acupuncture [https://www.medicinenet.com/acupuncture/article.htm] -  Chiropractor [https://www.webmd.com/pain-management/guide/chiropractic-pain-relief] -  Dermatologists [http://doctor-lookup.com/types-of-doctors/dermatologists/] -  ENT – Ear, Nose, Throat [http://enthealth.com/] -  Find A Hospital [http://doctor-lookup.com/find-a-hospital/] -  Find A Physician [http://doctor-lookup.com/find-a-physician/] -  Find top rated doctor in my area [http://doctor-lookup.com/find-top-rated-doctor-in-my-area/] -  GI - gastroenterology [http://gi.org/] -  Gynecologists [http://doctor-lookup.com/doctor-specialists/gynecologists/] -  Doctor search [http://doctor-lookup.com/doctor-specialists/gynecologists/] -  What to expect from visit [https://www.webmd.com/women/guide/what-to-expect-from-an-ob-gyn-visit] -  Hospital Reviews [http://doctor-lookup.com/hospital-reviews/] -  How To Find A Doctor That Accepts My Insurance [http://doctor-lookup.com/how-to-find-a-doctor-that-accepts-my-insurance/] -  How To Search For Doctors That Accept Medicaid [http://doctor-lookup.com/how-to-search-for-doctors-that-accept-medicaid/] -  Massage [https://www.webmd.com/balance/guide/massage-therapy-styles-and-health-benefits] -  OBGYNs [http://doctor-lookup.com/types-of-doctors/obgyns/] -  Ophthalmologist and Optometrists: Similarities and Differences [https://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=22559] -  Types of Doctors [http://doctor-lookup.com/types-of-doctors] -  Urgent Care [https://www.pronto.com/shopping?qo=semQuery&ad=semA&q=closest%20urgent%20care&o=758071&ag=fw&an=google_s&rch=us189&gclid=CjwKCAiA15vTBRAHEiwA7Snfc8VNjZBhqok_XSUhCRtxBGnP3fHLlIMlbRJQA4WqT4xL7sn3gnZaBRoCFvQQAvD_BwE] -  Find a Trusted Mental Health Treatment Center for You [https://www.nowmentalhealth.com/] -  Hourglass [http://www.columbiacare.org/hourglass-community-crisis-center.html] -  Mission [http://www.missionforthehomeless.org/] -  NAMI [http://www.nami.org/] -  National Suicide Prevention Lifeline – 800-273-8255/Text 741741 (Text Start) [https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/] -  Pleasant activities list [https://search.yahoo.com/search;_ylt=AwrTHQr7ImlazF0AHw9XNyoA;_ylc=X1MDMjc2NjY3OQRfcgMyBGZyA21jYWZlZQRncHJpZAM0eU4zVWdVUFJaZWtpTXJwZXlNTzFBBG5fcnNsdAMwBG5fc3VnZwMxMARvcmlnaW4Dc2VhcmNoLnlhaG9vLmNvbQRwb3MDMQRwcXN0cgNwbGVhc2FudCBhY3Rpdml0aWVzBHBxc3RybAMxOQRxc3RybAMyOARxdWVyeQNwbGVhc2FudCUyMGFjdGl2aXRpZXMlMjBsaXN0BHRfc3RtcAMxNTE2ODM5NzAyBHVzZV9jYXNlAw--?p=pleasant+activities+list&fr2=sa-gp-search&fr=mcafee&type=C211US0D20171208] -  Couples [https://www.regain.us/?utm_source=Bing&utm_medium=Search_PPC_c&utm_term=couples+therapist_p&utm_content=1341404204729162&network=o&placement=%7Bplacement%7D&target=%7Btarget%7D&matchtype=p&utm_campaign=271855581&ad_type=text&adposition=%7Badposition%7D&msclkid=e3a3f8957710168c7655a2fd7018c8fa&gor=home] -  Find a therapist [http://www.find-a-therapist.com/] -  Open Source Counseling [http://www.betterhelp.com/] -  Optometrist [https://visioncarehelp.com/what-you-should-look-for-in-an-optometrist/] -  Psychologytoday [https://www.psychologytoday.com/] -  Types of Therapists [https://www.talkspace.com/blog/2016/08/the-different-types-of-therapists-and-counselors-the-complete-guide/] -  List of suicide crisis lines [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines?utm_term=depression+call+lines&utm_content=p1-main-1-title&utm_medium=sem&utm_source=google_s&utm_campaign=adid-b95a494a-6cb8-4ba0-81b0-f9bbab0d21f9-0-ab_gsb_ocode-35399&ad=semD&an=google_s&am=broad&q=depression+call+lines&o=35399&qsrc=999&l=sem&askid=b95a494a-6cb8-4ba0-81b0-f9bbab0d21f9-0-ab_gsb] -  befrienders.org - helps you find helplines by country [http://www.befrienders.org/] -  imalive.org - an online crisis chat service, for anyone anywhere in the world. [https://www.imalive.org/] -  Psych Central Common Hotline Phone Numbers [https://psychcentral.com/lib/common-hotline-phone-numbers/] -  suicide.org - List of suicide helplines [http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html] -  suicidestop.com - helps you find online chat, emergency numbers and crisis hotlines for many different countries in the world [http://suicidestop.com/suicide_prevention_chat_online.html] -  Warmline [http://warmline.org/] -  White Bird [http://whitebirdclinic.org/cahoots/] -  WomanSpace [https://womanspace.org/]   Self-help guides -  7cups [https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php]   Other Links -  Abortion [https://www.webmd.com/women/tc/abortion-topic-overview] -  Advice for Teens [https://www.liveabout.com/teens-4145429] -  Alcohol [https://www.drugabuse.gov/drugs-abuse/alcohol] -  Anger and Aggression [https://www.psychologicalselfhelp.org/Chapter7.pdf] -  Anxiety [https://www.rtor.org/anxiety] -  Bible Study [http://www.greatbiblestudy.com/] -  Breathing Exercises And Techniques [https://www.drweil.com/health-wellness/body-mind-spirit/stress-anxiety/breathing-three-exercises/] -  Detox Local [https://www.detoxlocal.com/resources/domestic-violence-addiction/] -  Exercises for Relaxation [https://www.webmd.com/balance/stress-management/stress-management-breathing-exercises-for-relaxation] -  Problems [https://medlineplus.gov/breathingproblems.html] -  Problems: Causes, Tests, and Treatments [https://www.webmd.com/lung/breathing-problems-causes-tests-treatments] -  Coping with Depression [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/depression/coping-with-depression.htm] -  Crisis hotlines the recovery group [http://www.therecoverygroup.org/special/crisis.html] -  Depression [https://cmhc.utexas.edu/depression.html] - A majority of people experience depression at least once during their lifetime, but they may or may not be aware of it. Understanding what depression is begins the journey toward recovering from depression. You may not realize that depression symptoms are not just emotional. Depression is much more than a low mood, feeling sad, and being irritable. There are cognitive (e.g., self-criticism and hopeless thoughts), behavioral (e.g., isolating from others and having difficulty ’getting started’ with activities), and physical (e.g., sleep problems and change in appetite) symptoms as well. The mind and body are very much connected, and the way that depression affects someone demonstrates that strong connection. Learn more about what depression is by reading the Depression Guide on 7 Cups of Tea’s website. You can also talk to someone about your experience of depression by requesting to chat with one of our listeners.Millions of people suffer from depression everyday? [https://www.7cups.com/what-does-depression-feel-like/] How do I know if I'm depressed or if I'm just sad? [http://www.7cups.com/qa-depression-3/im-sad-or-im-depressed-how-do-i-know-650/] -  Forgiveness [https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/forgiveness] -  How to Get Help [https://www.safehelpline.org/how-to-get-help.cfm] -  Key To a Happier Future [https://positivepsychologyprogram.com/forgiveness/] -  Letting go of grudges and bitterness [https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/forgiveness/art-20047692] -  Minors Legal Questions and Answers [https://answers.uslegal.com/minors]   Panic Attacks -  10 Ways to Stop a Panic Attack [https://www.everydayhealth.com/columns/therese-borchard-sanity-break/ways-stop-panic-attack/?slot=2&xid=nl_EHNLemohealth_2018-08-29&utm_source=Newsletters&utm_content=2018-08-29&utm_campaign=Mental%20Health%20and%20Mood%20Disorders&eh_uid=20175999] -  Psychology and its practice [http://www.guidetopsychology.com/forgive.htm] -  Psychologytoday [https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/forgiveness] -  What Does the Bible Say [https://www.thoughtco.com/what-does-the-bible-say-about-forgiveness-701968] -  Guide to Women's Self Defense and Self Protection [https://www.datehookup.com/singles-content-a-free-guide-to-womens-self-defense-and-self-protection.htm] -  Healing Self-Hate [http://www.cyquest.com/pathway/healing_self_hate.html] -  Healthy Relationships, Sexuality and Disability [http://www.mass.gov/eohhs/docs/dph/com-health/prevention/hrhs-sexuality-and-disability-resource-guide.pdf] -  Help with your sex life [https://www.relate.org.uk/relationship-help/help-sex] -  How to help a friend who is being abused [https://www.womenshealth.gov/relationships-and-safety/get-help/how-help-friend] -  Instant Self-Denfense [http://www.ashidakim.com/isd.pdf] -  Self Help Resources [https://www.mentalhealth.va.gov/self_help.asp] -  Womens Health [https://www.womenshealth.gov/mental-health/hotlines/] -  MentalHelp - Comprehensive Mental Health and Mental Illness information on topics like Depression, Bipolar, Suicide, Anxiety, Addiction, Schizophrenia, and more. [https://www.mentalhelp.net/articles/self-soothing-techniques-distraction/] -  Mindfulness meditation [https://search.yahoo.com/search;_ylt=A0SO81Aoymda1mcAfQJXNyoA;_ylc=X1MDMjc2NjY3OQRfcgMyBGZyA21jYWZlZQRncHJpZANoTkp0dzJCR1I3aXd1emx6emVka3FBBG5fcnNsdAMwBG5fc3VnZwM5BG9yaWdpbgNzZWFyY2gueWFob28uY29tBHBvcwMwBHBxc3RyAwRwcXN0cmwDMARxc3RybAMzNgRxdWVyeQNtaW5kZnVsbmVzcyUyMG1lZGl0YXRpb24lMjBleGVyY2lzZXMEdF9zdG1wAzE1MTY3NTE0NjA-?p=mindfulness+meditation+exercises&fr2=sb-top&fr=mcafee&type=C211US0D20171208] -  A Bad Dream Is More Than Just A Dream: The Science Of Nightmares [http://www.medicaldaily.com/bad-dream-more-just-dream-science-nightmares-327586] -  Adult nightmares [https://www.webmd.com/sleep-disorders/guide/nightmares-in-adults] -  Causes and facts [https://www.medicinenet.com/nightmares/article.htm] -  How can you interpret dreams [https://www.reference.com/world-view/can-interpret-dreams-a4efcf28e723efd?aq=causes+nightmares&qo=similarQuestions] -  Research and Treatments [https://www.sleepassociation.org/patients-general-public/nightmares/] -  Prevent nightmares [https://www.reference.com/world-view/ways-prevent-nightmares-a6c74bafdfe2d023?aq=causes+nightmares&qo=similarQuestions] -  Psychologytoday [https://www.psychologytoday.com/conditions/nightmares] -  Sleep Disorders [https://oregon.providence.org/our-services/p/providence-sleep-disorders-centers/?utm_campaign=WP+%7C+G+%7C+S+%7C+Non-Brand+%7C+Sleep+Health+%7C+General&utm_term=sleep+disorder&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&cro=&gclid=CjwKCAiA15vTBRAHEiwA7Snfc5x1awmBEGftvxLesQsZxtM2bIYVQaRgxTn1H1LgfwvX0K0QSMQyvxoCVG0QAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds&dclid=CN6vob3X79gCFT_J4wcdK8wGeQ] -  Sleep Education [http://www.sleepeducation.org/sleep-disorders-by-category/parasomnias/nightmares/overview] -  Parents & Teachers: Tips & Advice for Talking to Teens About Sex [http://www.pamf.org/parenting-teens/sexuality/talking-about-sex/sex-talk.html] -  PTSD: National Center for PTSD [https://www.ptsd.va.gov/professional/trauma/war/military-sexual-trauma.asp] -  Women and PTSD [http://ptsdtreatmenthelp.com/women-and-ptsd] -  Child sexual abuse [https://www.aacap.org/AACAP/Families_and_Youth/Facts_for_Families/Facts_for_Families_Pages/Child_Sexual_Abuse_09.aspx] -  Dealing with Rape [https://dealingwithrape.com/] -  How to Prevent a Potential Rape [https://www.wikihow.com/Prevent-a-Potential-Rape] -  Help after rape and sexual assault [https://www.nhs.uk/livewell/sexualhealth/pages/sexualassault.aspx] -  If your child is raped [http://kidshealth.org/en/parents/rape.html] -  http://www.sarsas.org.uk/self-help-guides/ -  https://www.helpguide.org/articles/ptsd-trauma/recovering-from-rape-and-sexual-trauma.htm -  Medical Examination of the Rape Victim [http://www.merckmanuals.com/professional/gynecology-and-obstetrics/domestic-violence-and-rape/medical-examination-of-the-rape-victim] -  Raiin [https://www.rainn.org/] -  Rape Victims Prone to Suicide [http://www.suicide.org/rape-victims-prone-to-suicide.html] -  Sex, Sexuality, and Sexual Disorders [https://psychcentral.com/sex/] -  Sexual Assault Survivor's Guide [http://www.csbsju.edu/chp/sexual-assault-survivors-guide] -  Sexual Misconduct Law and Legal Definition [https://definitions.uslegal.com/s/sexual-misconduct] -  Statutory Rape: A guide to state laws and reporting requirements [https://aspe.hhs.gov/report/statutory-rape-guide-state-laws-and-reporting-requirements] -  Survivors Chat [http://www.survivorschat.com/] -  Things Not to Say to a Survivor of a Sexual Crime [http://www.hopeforhealing.org/not.html] -  What is Sexual Violence [http://www.mncasa.org/what-is-sexual-violence] -  Recovering Your Mental Health [https://store.samhsa.gov/product/Recovering-Your-Mental-Health-A-Self-Help-Guide/SMA-3504] -  How Can I Satisfy My Sexual Desire If I’m Destined For Singleness [http://purefreedom.org/single-desire] Read the book5 love languages [http://www.5lovelanguages.com/]and then discuss it -  Setting boundaries [https://www.ipfw.edu/affiliates/assistance/selfhelp/relationship-settingboundaries.html] -  Understanding Ourselves and Our Relationships [http://www.psychologicalselfhelp.org/Chapter9.pdf] -  https://www.rainn.org/articles/self-care-after-trauma -  Self Growth [http://www.selfgrowth.com/] -  Self Injury outreach and support [https://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/guide/sex-therapy-counseling#1] -  Self-Soothing Techniques: Distraction [https://www.mentalhelp.net/articles/self-soothing-techniques-distraction/] -  Sex Addicts Anonymous [https://saa-recovery.org/] -  Sex Therapy [https://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/guide/sex-therapy-counseling#1] -  Social Anxiety [https://www.anxietybc.com/sites/default/files/adult_hmsocial.pdf] -  Taking Care of YOU: Self-Care for Family Caregivers [https://www.caregiver.org/taking-care-you-self-care-family-caregivers] -  Teaching kids consent ages 1-21 [https://everydayfeminism.com/2013/03/teaching-kids-consent-ages-1-21/] -  Teen Health [http://teenshealth.org/en/teens/your-mind/] -  Therapy Worksheets and Handouts [https://www.pinterest.com/amandababb/therapy-worksheets-and-handouts/] -  Trauma Self-Help Books & Workbooks [http://www.trauma-pages.com/s/wrkbks.php] -  Why do men rape women [https://www.2knowmyself.com/why_do_men_rape_women] -  Women self defense [http://www.womensselfdefense-seps.com/]
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