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(Inactive, on a break. Expect very slow responses please. ) https://www.7cups.com/forum/generalsupport/General_2440/Lavsupdatesthread_266226/?p=3 *spots a nice human* Hey there! I've dealt with a lot, and I want to let you know that if you are dealing with a lot too, you are not alone. It helps to just talk about stuff!!! Feel free to reach out and talk to someone-it helps. Please see- I am sorry if I am unavailable while you are reading this, so please talk to another listener [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] if you want support now. Or if you want you can drop me messages and I'll reply within 48 hours. I am here for you! 💜I am now an ATL so both teens and adults can message me💜 Please note- I am generally unavailable for casual chats. 💜   💜💜Let's make it a happier place for everyone!!💜💜 Quick note- I am no longer an ambassador. For any VL related queries, please reach out to @ASilentObserver [http://7cups.com/@ASilentObserver] I can talk about most topics. Chats I am uncomfortable with- Self harm, a member under influence, parenting (like I'm uncomfortable talking about things from a parental point of view. If you want to talk about your parents, that's okay) Members- Please go through the first part of my bio before sending me a message/request (I've indicated till where). If that seems like a lot you can simply read the highlighted and underlined portions I chat for not more than 45 minutes at a time. I am here to listen compassionately and without judgement. The chat will be confidential.💜💜 I can talk about all topics except self harm and parenting. (You can talk about your parents, but not about your kids please).💜 I am uncomfortable chatting about self harm (due to personal reasons) If you want to talk about it please contact another listener. Also if you are thinking about doing it now then please contact a crisis resource 7cups.com/crisis [https://www.7cups.com/7cups.com/crisis] I am uncomfortable talking to members who are under the influence (of alcohol or any other narcotic substance) I am comfortable chatting with neurodiverse members and DID/OSDD systems. I do take chats about sexual assault, PTSD and LGBTQ+ issues💜💜 I do take chats on sexual health (but I am very selective here). Please don't ask me to control your urges or for any inappropriate "help". Please keep in mind that this website is for emotional support, and I would appreciate it if you can be respectful and considerate. I may be unfamiliar with some of the topics you may want to talk about, but I can read up on them during the chat or in-between chat sessions...since sadly I can't know everything (though I wish I did). However if I didn't mention a topic, I am comfortable talking about it. My triggers- Self-harm (and related descriptions). For all members- before reaching out to chat, please check my status- Red(offline)- I am offline and not replying. However you can still drop messages and I will get back to you later. Response time 48 hours Green(online)- I am online, free and open to your chat requests… Orange(Busy)- I am here but I already am talking to too many people here or busy somewhere on 7cups so I am unable to give you the attention you deserve. I recommend you to look for another listener by clicking here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/].... Response time 3-4 hours max.  Note for all members Please note that if I am in the chatrooms and my status is offline, that means I am not currently available for chatting in the PMs.(Usually it means I am about to log out soon and therefore can't chat). In that case you can send me a PM and I'll get back to you in 48h. I do care about you a lot because you are an awesome person...I'll do my best to support you!! If I am unable to do so for any reason, please feel free to reach out to another amazing listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. You may not be comfortable with me, and I totally respect that and want you to get the best help possible. My PMs are a safe space where you can talk about things, and I am here for you. I care for you all💜💜 I have been facing memory difficulties (due to dissociation), so I may not always remember details about what you tell me, or sometimes I might lose track of what you are talking about. I sometimes might also miss out on tags or messages for the same reason, in which case you are very welcome to follow up with me or tag me again within 2-3 days. Please bear with me on that, and remember that I am here for you, and I am trying my best. My sincerest apologies for the same. Also I'm slow to reply to tags so if it's urgent, message me the link to the post as well💜 *💜sends lots of love for you💜* Please note that I do not check in regularly (since I find it hard to keep track of that), so my listening style is more like you can peek in anytime you need support. Members whom I've spoken to before are welcome to drop a message when they need support as well💜.  Important note- I am a trained listener but I am not a professional therapist so I will be unable to give you advice and/or therapy-like support. You can still drop me a message if you want to talk about what you're struggling with, I'll be here to listen to you. If you are looking for professional therapy (paid) here at 7Cups and you are an adult then please click here [https://www.7cups.com/online-therapy/?ob=1] Unfortunately 7Cups doesn't offer therapy for teens but I hope you get the support you need and deserve. Please note- I am unavailable for casual chats with anyone- be it listeners, members or friends due to time commitments. If you want to talk to me, poke my PMs anytime and I'll surely get back to you!! *💜sending comfy vibes💜* If you are willing to live chat with me, but can't spot me online, please drop me a message so we can discuss availabilities and schedule a chat. Looking forward to speaking to you! Please go through the part of my profile above this before sending me a request!   Some Quick resources for emergencies Crisis link here [http://7cups.com/crisis] or you can chat anonymously for crisis support here [https://nycwell.cityofnewyork.us/en/get-help-now/chat-with-a-counselor-now/]. For Self harm urges, alternatives here [http://7cups.com/forum/SelfHarmRecovery_65/InformationandResources_1079/DistractionsandAlternativeCopingStrategies_221562/] For panic attacks- here are grounding techniques [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaticExperiencesCommunity_60/TraumaRecoveryResources_481/GroundingWhenTriggered_42512/], more grounding techniques [https://www.therapistaid.com/therapy-article/grounding-techniques-article], breathing exercises (Youtube [https://youtu.be/vXZ5l7G6T2I] or Gif [https://i.imgur.com/bg6J9md.gif]) and muscle relaxation [https://youtu.be/I0wVZIxoe-Q]  A little bit about me ;) If you have lots of extra time, then maybe you may want to read my full bio- You could call me Lavender but everyone just calls me Lav. Some people like to call me cool nicknames like Little Lav, Lave, Lavy, Lavvie, Law(?), Empa, or even Lab (short for laboratory- I love lab)- so if you are too lazy to type Lavender and are bored of Lav then you can call me all that.   The lovely @courageousheart96 [http://7cups.com/@courageousheart96] dedicated an emoji to me (I'm so honoured hehe)- the lav heart💜💜 💜💜You can use pronouns they/them for me💜💜 I am an ace (asexual) and an ally for the LGBTQ+/MOGII community. I am currently a full time uni student in a STEM field (Biotech), which means time is tricky at times. But I try to be here as much as possible.  Some mental health issues that I live with are depression, PTSD, OSDD and chronic anxiety. Members please feel free to message me if you want to talk about these with a listener who has experience. Languages- I speak English, French (well I don't "speak" French well, it's kinda rusty) and I am trying to learn basic Korean. I also speak (but won't be chatting in) Hindi My trigger- self harm 💜Hugs are no longer a trigger for me💜 I said a lot already so I would prefer it if you don't come up with very personal questions (and please don't ask any personal questions for a second time). Please understand that is because I love my privacy and you should love your privacy too!  Also I run a snack-shop here at 7Cups, so there are cookies and cakes and all sorts of awesome stuff for everyone💜 As of now my primary focus is on supporting listeners on the site. Due to personal reasons it is not possible for me to be available regularly for live member support chats. I do live member chats on-and-off and I always update my bio accordingly. I am, however, always open to new members via slow pace chats. Members are always welcome to seek support from me by exchanging offline messages with a maximum response time 48 hours from my side. My favourite place on 7Cups is the PMland- so feel free to text me anytime and I'll surely get back to you within 48h. And my PMs are a spam-friendly space for all :) 💜💜 A quick note- My country shown changes from time to time, since it reflects the country I am currently in. This is to ensure transparency regarding the timezone I am in. I generally reply to all PMs within 48 hours. If I'm on a break or unable to reply timely for any reason I'll surely add that to the top of my bio. If I did not reply within this time, it does not mean I'm angry or anything, because of memory issues or technical glitches I may sometimes miss messages. My sincerest apologies for the same. So in that case please feel free to send me another message. Also response time may be a bit delayed on weekends but I'll try to ensure it's within 48 hours. 💜 You might know me from my previous username (empatheticLavender2924)- changed it since this one is simpler:) My roles here- 💜First and foremost- I am a verified listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/QualityProjectsVerifiedListeners_144/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/] which means I am someone who will try their best to listen to you. Members if you want to connect with a verified listener you can click here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=121] 💜 [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=121]I am a  [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=121]listener verifier [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/JointheListenerVerifiersTeam_46938/1/], which means I can help other listeners here to get verified. So if you want to get verified [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/QualityProjectsVerifiedListeners_144/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/], or have any queries about being verified, drop me a message! I am also an ambassador for the VL team. 💜I am a Teen + Adult Quality Mentor [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/MentorsandTeenStars_1964/QualityMentorsAllyouneedtoknow_219055/] which means I can help listeners improve their listening skills. To reach out to a mentor please go to https://www.7cups.com/listener/listenerMentors.php. I am also a Listener Coach [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerCoachingProgram_2057/2021ListenerCoachingTeamGeneralInfo_251726/] which means I can reach out to you if you fill the Listener Coach Request [http://bit.ly/7CupsLC] form to improve listening skills. 💜I am also a Chat supporter [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ChatSupport_101/WhatistheChatSupportbadge_227368/] so I can help listeners with ongoing chats when they are stuck. I can provide that immediate help in the listener rooms and if needed, PMs. 💜Peer Supporter [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/HeathersSpace_208/WhatisaPeerSupporter_15860/]- Dear listeners, if after a tough chat you need a safe space to talk, vent and process your emotions(related to the chat), please feel free to PM a peer supporter (me or anyone else here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=98]) 💜Listener Learning Discussions Host [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerLearningDiscussions_1896/ListenerLearningDiscussionsTeamRecruitment_222848/]- I host listener learning discussions regularly to help listeners handle various chat topics better.  💜Safety patrol [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/SafetyPatrolTeam_1685/CallingAllVerifiedListenersApplytoJointheProfilePatrolTeam_152025/1/]- I flag profiles with an inappropriate username/profile picture/bio so feel free to send me such profiles. I have attached hyperlinks so you can find out more about each of these roles. Feel free to check those out💜 Shout-outs: 💜💜Meet my awesome lovely almost triplets!!💜💜 @Rose644 [http://7cups.com/@Rose644] -An awesome angel- You are so kind and considerate. Also I love to smell your pfp lol. *hands Rose my fav book* Enjoy oldie-land at 7cups!!  @Hope2103 [http://7cups.com/@Hope2103] - Just like your name, you are full of hope!! You were a cheerful presence on 7Cups! I miss you so much!  Rose, Hope- I am so happy to know you and meet you here!!  My listener buddies- I love to see you around here @listeningsarinn [http://7cups.com/@listeningsarinn] @Izzy274 [http://7cups.com/@Izzy274] @Jenna [http://7cups.com/@Jenna] @InternalAcceptance [http://7cups.com/@InternalAcceptance] @CommunityModEden [http://7cups.com/@CommunityModEden] @courageousheart96 [http://7cups.com/@courageousheart96] @CommunityModChristine [http://7cups.com/@CommunityModChristine] @BubblegumWings1234 [http://7cups.com/@BubblegumWings1234]  (Please ignore the order...also sadly I can name only a few people here- though I have met many many listeners here and they are awesome too- so proud of them all💜) Hope and Music Zone Quoting some of my favourite inspiring lyrics- 🎵"Whatever hurts you is gonna pass and you'll have learn from it when it comes back...You'll be doing better, doing better"- (Louis Tomlinson) 🎵"They say home is where the heart is, but my heart is wild and free"-(Passenger) 🎵"When I get older, I will be stronger, they'll call me freedom just like a wavin' flag," (K'naan) 🎵"Let your heart sweet heart be the compass of your soul and you should follow it wherever it may go! When it's all said and done you can walk instead of run 'cause no matter what you'll never be alone."- (Lady A) 🎵"If, all the time, it feels like only a deep darkness lies ahead...And even the moonlight has fallen asleep, Believe my friend That the sunshine, your smile is hidden somewhere in plain sight. Somewhere away from this chaos There's a fresh start." (Translated from Hindi, Aaftaab, The Local Train) 🎵"The sun goes down and it comes back up, the world has turned no matter what. Oh if it all goes wrong, darling just hold on" (Louis Tomlinson) 🎵"Though there's rain outside, it'll be warm and dry, the thunder and lightning won't hurt you now. So go to sleep, my love."- (Ed Sheeran, Sandman) 💜💜Here are some comfort songs for you💜💜 Comethru [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jO2viLEW-1A] (Jeremy Zucker) Sword from the Stone [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ABFpMiKXz3o] (Passenger) Hello World [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=al2DFQEZl4M] (Lady A) However it comes, wherever it goes [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6TreWCNDX5M] (Passenger) Zero o clock - 00:00 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sBWesVezIrc] (BTS)- this link has English subtitles Anyway [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5HzpPl5a9EA](Noah Kahan) A gentle reminder I promise you can still make a beautiful life for yourself, even if you lost many years of it to abuse, mental illness or trauma💜  For any online friends of mine who are struggling with PTSD (or trying to heal and get better from stuff like depression) and hiding in my bio- I have a sweet analogy for you. Sometimes the weather is not good- sometimes it is sunny and sometimes cloudy and rainy. Sometimes the rain is a storm that destroys everything. The storm felt never-ending and overwhelming. However the storm has calmed down, and is not scary and risky anymore. The sunlight comes back, but all you can see is the damage from the storm (post-trauma effects). The damage looks terrible but you can't look away from it.  Here- I'll remind you- look how far you've come- you've survived the scary storm. That's amazing. There will be damage and that's totally ok. Remember you can make it through- since you survived the storms you are strong enough to slowly clean the mess and heal. That is sad as it will remind you of the storm, and the mess is huge. It takes time to clean up, but you can do this. I know you can. And to those friends of mine whose storms aren't over yet- I see you, I hear you. I know you too are doing your very best and did nothing to deserve this. It might feel like the storm will never end- it will be here forever. But the storm will be over. One day things will get better. And after that you might have to do the post-storm cleaning (or post-traumatic healing) and that is hard, but you got this. One day you'll look back on everything and be really proud of yourself- how hard you tried and how far you've come. If you feel like you are trying but tired, and scared and worried, I hear you. It is tiring to manage everything, and sometimes it is hard to talk about it. But if you want someone to be there for you- I am just one PM away. Come talk to me about it (or any other listener here). We are all here for you, and you can do it because you are amazing and brave. The end of my bio;) This bio is so long, smh so I'll stop here. Sending lots of healing beams for you, yes you amazing fairy!! You deserve love and support💜💜 Please see- I am sorry if I am unavailable while you are reading this, so please talk to another listener if you want support now. Or if you want you can drop me messages and I'll reply within 48 hours. I am here for you!! My PMs are open at all times for both members and listeners!  If you are an adult (listener or member) and can't PM me, you can tag me in a forum post anytime (by typing "@LavenderHere ") that way I'll get a notification and reply to you! Also random people lurking in my bio- you're welcome here (I spotted you hehe) *💜sends cookies💜* Also before I forget- 💜💜Congratulations on reaching the end of my bio!!!💜💜 *💜special cookies for you💜*
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Sunisshiningandsoareyou
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(Updated, current month 2024) ❤️ *on a break* ❤️  ------------------------- Response Time/ PM-land access:  🌻 Members:  New Member Chats: I'm completely unavailable for new members. (Members I've never talked to before whether new or old on cups)  Regular/ Recurring/ Old Member Chats: People I've talked to/ supported over a committed time frame, I love to hear updates from you, and am happy to see your messages. But please know that I'm unavailable for LIVE chats and can only reply offline, when I'm able to. (Responses may be several days delayed) So whether you're a new member or someone I've talked to before, if you need Live/ Immediate/ Urgent/ Regular/ Long-term support chat, please reach out to another available listener in cups.  You deserve prompt support, which I cannot offer, for an unforeseeable time! ❤ 🌻 Listeners:  I'm available for Peer Support and Chat Support only when I've accepted your request either through Chat Support/ Peer Supporter request forms or in the LSR, so please before messaging me for any of it, ask me in the room, as otherwise I may not be available to respond timely! Mentees/ Coachees: I'm so proud of you for trying your best to improve as a listener, and happy to hear any updates from you!  I'm typically unavailable for Live chats, and offline responses may vary, feel free to drop your questions though, if not too urgent, and I'll respond as soon as possible!  If you need a live chat, let me know a little in advance, mentioning the topic for the chat/ kind of support needed, your time/ availability in ET pr cups-time and hopefully, we can schedule for a live chat sometime!  Not available for any personal chats/ PMs unless stated/ agreed to otherwise. (Due to a high influx of messages, I'm unable to prioritize replying to messages with just a "hey/hi/ greeting", thank you for greeting me, but please do share a bit about "what" you're reaching out for, whether as a listener or a member, as it helps me understand how to respond better and faster. Messages with only "hey/ hi/ greetings" are missed often.)  I'll be around, in the forums and chatrooms when I can though, feel welcome to tag me in your posts or replies, happy to see you! 🥰 I've sadly not been getting notifications for all the tags lately, apologies if missed your tag. Feel free to send another tag or a personal message, if needed.  (I know) Extremely slow response rate: I'm on a break from several activities/roles here, but have been catching up with PMs and tags as much as possible. Responses will be slow and delayed, your patience is appreciated. Send a follow-up, if I missed your important message or if you need an urgent reply. <3 Support shouldn't be delayed, so I highly recommend browsing for other listeners when you need some emotional support. Please remember you are awesome and not alone here. ❤ Stay great and take good care, everyone.   Response time for all my current (regular) members/ listeners (and mentees) would vary as I am not logging in here regularly as earlier, I apologize if messages are delayed.  Send a follow-up, if needed. Thank you for understanding, YOU do come first and there's plenty of support available at all times, please do find an amazing currently active listener  HERE [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/], and I hope you receive the best support available! 💖 ------------------------- Hello, Amazing Human, Welcoming hugs and high fives and cookies for you! (Take what you need hehe) I am Sun, Thank you for finding me here, I understand life isn't always smooth sailing, we all have our ups and downs. I know I won't be able to solve all your problems, but problems shared are problems halved, right? Or even if not halved, I do feel sharing can help reduce the burden of overwhelming thoughts and feelings in your mind ~ your mind is not a notepad, it shouldn't be a place to "store" thoughts and feelings ~ share away, your mind deserves to feel lighter and better and so do *you* ... Besides being a trained verified listener here, I can offer you a kind, empathetic and non-judgmental ear and help you guide through these dark times. Feel free to Talk/ Share/ Vent and I'll be more than happy to listen to you, provide you with a safe and comfortable space and help you feel better in any way I can. Please do keep in mind that I can't and won't advise you, I can help you guide through the roads, but the steering wheel will always be in your hand and the direction to choose will always be your decision solely since you know your journey and your destination, the best. Rest assured, you've got your passenger seat covered for any support and encouragement always!  I am a persun who believes in the power of sharing smiles, happiness, kindness, encouragement, hope and positivity And I would love to share these with you too if you allow me to (always at your pace and comfort of course).🌻 I am pretty respectful and polite to everyone and personally do not use any offensive language including any kind of passive-aggressive/ provoking remarks, so would certainly expect and appreciate the same from you. Everyone deserves basic respect and decency! 💛  People looking for inappropriate sexual chats and/ or interested in making any sexual advances towards me~ this is an emotional support platform ~ and we do *not* entertain such kinds of conversations here. Please refrain from sending any messages, if you're here for any reason other than seeking emotional support, thankyou. I don't take chats on topics such as chronic pain, panic attacks, sexual health and self-harm. Feel free to browse other amazing listeners for these topics and those not listed under "categories" HERE [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. ❤  💛If you are currently having crisis thoughts (active or passive, or actively harming yourself) *offers hugs*, I know how terrible it can be to be in this hopeless situation, please however respect our boundaries as a listener, our limits and that 7 cups is not a crisis platform, we do care and therefore ask you to reach out to relevant channels of support. You can find resources here:-  7cups.com/crisis, please do connect with a hotline. You may not believe it at the moment, but you are *not* unworthy of living, you are not taking space unnecessarily, you are not your current situation neither your current thoughts. Nobody exactly knows, but we gotta keep hanging on tightly, to see for ourselves when and how it gets better because it does, *someday* and you need to be here to experience it.  Brave it in this very moment, reach out for help. You owe it to *yourself*. 💛 The topics I am comfortable providing support for include general mental health struggles, getting unstuck, managing emotions, student life-related topics, friendship/ relationship/ family stress, social anxiety, self-esteem issues etc. and more are listed below, under categories! Feel free to send a message if you see me online (green status) and I will get back to you as soon as I can, we can then schedule a time and day for a chat or agree upon offline messaging, whichever is more comfortable and suitable for us. 🤗 At Last, remember that you are not alone, your mental health is important, you are a brave person to seek support,  you are here and I am proud of you for that.  If you give me a chance I'll try my best to be there for you, to be there with you and remind you that even if the clouds appear to be very dark at any point in time,  the Sun Is Shining And So Are Youuuu. 🌻🌞🌻 You are one Amazing human, you are important, you matter and You are deserving of kindness, happiness, support, love and all things amazing in life! It's cool to be kind, people!🤗 Have an amazing day/ night ahead! ------------------------- MY ROLES @7 CUPS- The most important and my favourite one is to provide everyone with a  friendly, supportive,  inclusive and cheerful environment along with sharing some cookies and hugs. 🥰 🍪🌻🤗 # Trained and Verified Listener to provide quality listening to members  # Safety Patrol  (profile flagging ) Team member to try and keep the community safe for all.  # Peer Supporter (for listeners needing support after a hard or triggering chat  or in general not feeling good about their listener role and needing a space to vent about "mild" site-related issues)  # Chat Support  (I can provide support with ongoing chats to listeners)  # Listener's Verifiers Team member  (I take mock chats for listeners under the verification process)  Want to get verified? Check here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/NewAdditionalCriteriaToBecomeVerifiedListenerGoingLive_230276/] or feel free to message me for more information.  #Quality Mentor  #Listener Coach  # Global community mentor and forum supporter ( Needs Reply Team ) #Listener Chatroom Supporter  #Doorkeeper (feel free to message me if you'd like to open / close rooms)  #Ocassional- Events, Pop up discussions, listener events and safety support sessions Host  # Advisor/ Helper for the Peer Appreciation Program. Click the button below to appreciate yourself or a peer In the community  Peer Appreciation Form [https://forms.gle/hfwDBA8dTaP6bhta9] Join our team by clicking the following button: Smile Spreader [https://forms.gle/rgPfNwytBgJRChp7A] #7 cups Internship,  Leadership Development Program, Group Leadership Dynamics,  Building Community Program and the Content Development and Marketing program's graduate. ~ proud 7 Cups Academy Alumni hehe!  ------------------------- THANK YOU FOR READING, FEEL FREE TO SEND A TEXT ANYTIME, I'D LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU  SOON!  STAY AWESOME, STAY HYDRATED  and TAKE CARE! 🌻❤ #ByeByeCliques, do check out this [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupModZone_168/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/WarmWelcomeEveryoneByeByeCliqueChallenge_238987/#] post for more information and to join the movement. We are a safe and inclusive place for all, and *you* do matter! 🤗
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hopedreamlove
L Epitome 10 2040
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☕️ I am really sorry, but I am unable to take new member chats at the moment and will not be able to respond to messages. You can find a wonderful listener using the Browse Listeners page. I truly hope you find the support you deserve!  🌺 Thank you to Tazzie, the incredible human who coded this bio and helped me become the listener and leader I am today. Thank you so much for everything. Rest In Peace.  ☕️ Hi you! Yes, you! The incredible human being who might be struggling and who deserves compassion and kindness. I may not have gone through the same experiences as you, but I can understand and acknowledge that you are in immense pain. It can be incredibly difficult reaching out for support, I am so proud of you for taking the first step to find support. Things may seem difficult or even impossible right now, but you are not alone. You matter, are worthy, and valid. 🌺 Hello hello hello! I am Hope or Jasmine, a Muslim, South Asian-American living in Canada. I am a young adult who is navigating through the ups and downs of life. I have been called the "Queen of Typos," so that probably tells you something about me! I adore coffee, listening to music (especially Broadway songs),  watching TV shows, and learning about the world. I am in university, studying computer science. I discovered this site about three years ago, and fell in love with this fantabulous community. I believe everyone has their own story, and I am here on 7 cups because I would be honored to listen to yours. ☕️ My listening style is a bit different from most, in the way that my messages are usually longer and reflect and provide my insight on what you said. It will still be your chat, and you will have the power to direct the topic to what you are looking to talk about. I do not take chats on eating disorders, alcohol/drug use, sexual abuse and sexual health at the moment, thank you for understanding! I am most comfortable providing support to those ages 13-20. I unfortunately cannot wave a magic wand and solve any problems you might be having (I absolutely would if I could) but instead I can provide a listening ear and be there for you. I strongly believe in kindness and respect which I always incorporate in my conversations. During our chat, I will also empower and validate you while creating a safe place for you to talk in my pms. It has lots of cookies, hugs, and any other treats or comfort items you want. 🌺 Projects/Roles I am currently involved with: Verified Listener, Adult Teen Listener, Chatroom Ambassador (with a primary focus on resources, the listener Chatroom supporter role, and the Teen Listeners room),  Teen Chatroom Leader, Teen Chatroom Mentor, Adult and Teen Quality Mentor, Forum Mentor, Doorkeeper ☕️ This is a safe and inclusive profile for all. While there are some topics mentioned above that I do not take due to personal reasons, I will not ever discriminate or judge you. People of all genders, sexualities, race, religions, beliefs, and identities are welcome here! Thank you so much for taking the time to visit my profile. I hope you have a lovely day! Click here for a surprise! [https://i.imgur.com/NgyXfd1.gif]
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HopieRemi
L Epitome 19 5481
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To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  If messaging, let me know if you are seeking peer support, mentoring, or chat support. I can also edit Forum Posts. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I do not offer advice as that can be harmful to you. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I mostly offer support in the group room as a Moderator and the forums as a Community Mentor. I do accept chats, if it is a topic I support. If you are contacting me, please let me know in a few words what our conversation will be about. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. If you have been referred to me, please send me a message and let me know you are a referral. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours?
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tommy
L Sage 11 543
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hi, i'm tommy. •────────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•────────────• a little bit about me   i'm an early 20s career driven, lowercase obsessed and 7 cups enthusiast from england. i am most passionate about creating a safe and inclusive space for people to express themselves. unfortunately, i am not taking on member chat requests right now. please connect with another listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] 🎈 •─────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•─────────• my roles @ 7 cups ambassador as communities/forum ambassador, i oversee leadership applications [https://www.7cups.com/forum/7cupsleadership/SubcommunitiesInformation_2314/UpdatedSubcommunityTrackLeadershipRolesMasterpost2023_289838/], engagement and moderation across the forums. do you need an update on your application or have you got a question about using the forums? drop me a message! safety patrol team leader i help co-lead the safety patrol and safety patrol outreach teams. let me know if you see an inappropriate profile or would like info on joining the team! misc i am also involved in several other projects across the site, so please do not hesitate to reach out if you have any questions! •─────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•─────────•
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Harsvin
L Paragon 11 4201
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Hi, my name is Harsvin. Thank you for stumbling upon my profile. I’m a listener since 2015, and it’s been a long journey on this site that has helped to shape me into a compassionate and caring individual who truly understands the importance of being there for someone. I’m currently a Quality Ambassador for the AL Team Click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ActiveListeningTestsListenerQuizzes_2102/ActiveListeningTrainingsTestsWhatYouShouldKnow_56907/] to learn more about Active Listening Tests You can check the updates threads of each test here AL 1 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ActiveListeningTestsListenerQuizzes_2102/ActiveListening1Updates_294348/?post=3237880], AL2 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest2GradingUpdates_300791/], AL3 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest3GradingUpdates_300792/], and AL4 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest4GradingUpdates_300794/] to know when badges have been last updated. Feel free to send me a message if you have any questions to ask regarding Active Listening Tests, or need guidance on your ongoing chats. It's my pleasure to help.
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PetiteSouris
L Sage 12 1247
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✨Members✨ I am not accepting new member chats. Connect with available listeners here: Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/].  🐭 ✨About me✨  Hello!/Salut!/Hola!/Namaste!/Namaskaram I practice calligraphy for self-care. Bibliophile, Selenophile, Pluviophile. Solist. ☀︎ Thank you for stopping by my tiny patch of digital real estate.  ❤︎ -Souris ❀♡✿♡❀♡❀♡✿♡❀
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brilliantTurtle89
L Pinnacle 6 2822
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I'm glad you have found me on 7 cups. I'm here to listen to you. Feel free to tell me anything you want. My roles on 7 Cups are: Peer Support Chatroom Mentor  Quality Mentor Leader Forum Mentor Group Support  Mentor  Group moderator Listener Coach Care Team Guide Chat Support ATL Verifiers Team Teen Transition Mentor Group Support Ambassador I have some amazing friends here. My listener twins are: Asilentobserver sweetmango3 IzzyMay They are fantastic💜  
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CalmWhisper22
L Paragon 6 3690
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Sorry not accepting member chats at this time other than regular members that I listen to. Please see here for a listener:  https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] I like to help others and like to be helped also. Created the following to help everyone please let me know if there is a web site that I should add as a resource:             ACT resources     -  An Introduction to Acceptance and Commitment Therapy [https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/two-takes-depression/201102/introduction-acceptance-and-commitment-therapy]   CBT resources -  How CBT can help [http://dbtselfhelp.com/SelfHelpCourse.pdf] -  Anxiety Worksheets [https://www.psychologytools.com/category/anxiety/] -  Cognitive distortions [https://psychcentral.com/lib/15-common-cognitive-distortions/] -  Health anxiety [https://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/healthanxiety.htm] -  psychologytools.com/download-therapy-worksheets.html [https://psychologytools.com/download-therapy-worksheets.html]   DBT resources -  psychcentral.com/lib/an-overview-of-dialectical-behavior-therapy/ [https://psychcentral.com/lib/an-overview-of-dialectical-behavior-therapy/] -  lmgroeszpsychotherapy.com [https://lmgroeszpsychotherapy.com] -  Coping with Flashbacks [https://www.dbtselfhelp.com/CopingwithFlashbacks.pdf] -  Feelings wheel [https://threetofivefourtwentyfour.files.wordpress.com/2015/08/feelings-wheel.jpg] -  Turning the mind [https://www.dbtselfhelp.com/html/turning_the_mind.html] Activity Scheduling Activities can be connected to the way you feel. If you track feelings of depression, you may discover that when you are depressed you are more passive and less active. Following the observation that depressed people tend to stop doing pleasurable activities, depression treatments often emphasize increasing the weekly number of pleasurable activities. Additional ways to improve mood: Surround yourself with people who have a positive impact on you Invest in friendships and have a “go to” person that you can trust Become more forgiving - forgive yourself and forgive others [http://letmebeme1.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/reach-steps-to-forgiveness.doc] Build on areas of strength and note evidence for new beliefs that replace old negative beliefs (praise yourself for things you accomplish) Keep a gratitude journal [http://www.wikihow.com/Start-a-Gratitude-Journal]   Coping skills -  Alphabet of Stress Management and Coping Skills [http://rwjms.rutgers.edu/departments_institutes/cf_center/documents/Alphabet-of-Coping-Skills-Interventions.pdf] -  Adult Pleasant Activities [http://dbtselfhelp.com/html/adult_pleasant_activities.html] -  Adult Pleasant Events [https://www.dbtselfhelp.com/html/er_handout_8.html] -  99 Coping Skills [http://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/Pages/tip-99-coping-skills.aspx]   Books -  5 love languages and then discuss it [http://www.5lovelanguages.com/] -  Mindfulness for borderline personality disorder [https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/mindfulness-for-borderline-personality-disorder-blaise-aguirre/1113506892?ean=9781608825653&st=PLA&sid=BNB_DRS_BN+Bing+Books_00000000&2sid=Bing_e&sourceId=PLBiP74830#/]   Contacts -  Cancer [https://www.cancercenter.com/] -  Cahoots [http://whitebirdclinic.org/cahoots/] -  Doctor Reviews [http://doctor-lookup.com/doctor-reviews/] -  Doctor Specialists [http://doctor-lookup.com/doctor-specialists/] -  Acupuncture [https://www.medicinenet.com/acupuncture/article.htm] -  Chiropractor [https://www.webmd.com/pain-management/guide/chiropractic-pain-relief] -  Dermatologists [http://doctor-lookup.com/types-of-doctors/dermatologists/] -  ENT – Ear, Nose, Throat [http://enthealth.com/] -  Find A Hospital [http://doctor-lookup.com/find-a-hospital/] -  Find A Physician [http://doctor-lookup.com/find-a-physician/] -  Find top rated doctor in my area [http://doctor-lookup.com/find-top-rated-doctor-in-my-area/] -  GI - gastroenterology [http://gi.org/] -  Gynecologists [http://doctor-lookup.com/doctor-specialists/gynecologists/] -  Doctor search [http://doctor-lookup.com/doctor-specialists/gynecologists/] -  What to expect from visit [https://www.webmd.com/women/guide/what-to-expect-from-an-ob-gyn-visit] -  Hospital Reviews [http://doctor-lookup.com/hospital-reviews/] -  How To Find A Doctor That Accepts My Insurance [http://doctor-lookup.com/how-to-find-a-doctor-that-accepts-my-insurance/] -  How To Search For Doctors That Accept Medicaid [http://doctor-lookup.com/how-to-search-for-doctors-that-accept-medicaid/] -  Massage [https://www.webmd.com/balance/guide/massage-therapy-styles-and-health-benefits] -  OBGYNs [http://doctor-lookup.com/types-of-doctors/obgyns/] -  Ophthalmologist and Optometrists: Similarities and Differences [https://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=22559] -  Types of Doctors [http://doctor-lookup.com/types-of-doctors] -  Urgent Care [https://www.pronto.com/shopping?qo=semQuery&ad=semA&q=closest%20urgent%20care&o=758071&ag=fw&an=google_s&rch=us189&gclid=CjwKCAiA15vTBRAHEiwA7Snfc8VNjZBhqok_XSUhCRtxBGnP3fHLlIMlbRJQA4WqT4xL7sn3gnZaBRoCFvQQAvD_BwE] -  Find a Trusted Mental Health Treatment Center for You [https://www.nowmentalhealth.com/] -  Hourglass [http://www.columbiacare.org/hourglass-community-crisis-center.html] -  Mission [http://www.missionforthehomeless.org/] -  NAMI [http://www.nami.org/] -  National Suicide Prevention Lifeline – 800-273-8255/Text 741741 (Text Start) [https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/] -  Pleasant activities list [https://search.yahoo.com/search;_ylt=AwrTHQr7ImlazF0AHw9XNyoA;_ylc=X1MDMjc2NjY3OQRfcgMyBGZyA21jYWZlZQRncHJpZAM0eU4zVWdVUFJaZWtpTXJwZXlNTzFBBG5fcnNsdAMwBG5fc3VnZwMxMARvcmlnaW4Dc2VhcmNoLnlhaG9vLmNvbQRwb3MDMQRwcXN0cgNwbGVhc2FudCBhY3Rpdml0aWVzBHBxc3RybAMxOQRxc3RybAMyOARxdWVyeQNwbGVhc2FudCUyMGFjdGl2aXRpZXMlMjBsaXN0BHRfc3RtcAMxNTE2ODM5NzAyBHVzZV9jYXNlAw--?p=pleasant+activities+list&fr2=sa-gp-search&fr=mcafee&type=C211US0D20171208] -  Couples [https://www.regain.us/?utm_source=Bing&utm_medium=Search_PPC_c&utm_term=couples+therapist_p&utm_content=1341404204729162&network=o&placement=%7Bplacement%7D&target=%7Btarget%7D&matchtype=p&utm_campaign=271855581&ad_type=text&adposition=%7Badposition%7D&msclkid=e3a3f8957710168c7655a2fd7018c8fa&gor=home] -  Find a therapist [http://www.find-a-therapist.com/] -  Open Source Counseling [http://www.betterhelp.com/] -  Optometrist [https://visioncarehelp.com/what-you-should-look-for-in-an-optometrist/] -  Psychologytoday [https://www.psychologytoday.com/] -  Types of Therapists [https://www.talkspace.com/blog/2016/08/the-different-types-of-therapists-and-counselors-the-complete-guide/] -  List of suicide crisis lines [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines?utm_term=depression+call+lines&utm_content=p1-main-1-title&utm_medium=sem&utm_source=google_s&utm_campaign=adid-b95a494a-6cb8-4ba0-81b0-f9bbab0d21f9-0-ab_gsb_ocode-35399&ad=semD&an=google_s&am=broad&q=depression+call+lines&o=35399&qsrc=999&l=sem&askid=b95a494a-6cb8-4ba0-81b0-f9bbab0d21f9-0-ab_gsb] -  befrienders.org - helps you find helplines by country [http://www.befrienders.org/] -  imalive.org - an online crisis chat service, for anyone anywhere in the world. [https://www.imalive.org/] -  Psych Central Common Hotline Phone Numbers [https://psychcentral.com/lib/common-hotline-phone-numbers/] -  suicide.org - List of suicide helplines [http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html] -  suicidestop.com - helps you find online chat, emergency numbers and crisis hotlines for many different countries in the world [http://suicidestop.com/suicide_prevention_chat_online.html] -  Warmline [http://warmline.org/] -  White Bird [http://whitebirdclinic.org/cahoots/] -  WomanSpace [https://womanspace.org/]   Self-help guides -  7cups [https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php]   Other Links -  Abortion [https://www.webmd.com/women/tc/abortion-topic-overview] -  Advice for Teens [https://www.liveabout.com/teens-4145429] -  Alcohol [https://www.drugabuse.gov/drugs-abuse/alcohol] -  Anger and Aggression [https://www.psychologicalselfhelp.org/Chapter7.pdf] -  Anxiety [https://www.rtor.org/anxiety] -  Bible Study [http://www.greatbiblestudy.com/] -  Breathing Exercises And Techniques [https://www.drweil.com/health-wellness/body-mind-spirit/stress-anxiety/breathing-three-exercises/] -  Detox Local [https://www.detoxlocal.com/resources/domestic-violence-addiction/] -  Exercises for Relaxation [https://www.webmd.com/balance/stress-management/stress-management-breathing-exercises-for-relaxation] -  Problems [https://medlineplus.gov/breathingproblems.html] -  Problems: Causes, Tests, and Treatments [https://www.webmd.com/lung/breathing-problems-causes-tests-treatments] -  Coping with Depression [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/depression/coping-with-depression.htm] -  Crisis hotlines the recovery group [http://www.therecoverygroup.org/special/crisis.html] -  Depression [https://cmhc.utexas.edu/depression.html] - A majority of people experience depression at least once during their lifetime, but they may or may not be aware of it. Understanding what depression is begins the journey toward recovering from depression. You may not realize that depression symptoms are not just emotional. Depression is much more than a low mood, feeling sad, and being irritable. There are cognitive (e.g., self-criticism and hopeless thoughts), behavioral (e.g., isolating from others and having difficulty ’getting started’ with activities), and physical (e.g., sleep problems and change in appetite) symptoms as well. The mind and body are very much connected, and the way that depression affects someone demonstrates that strong connection. Learn more about what depression is by reading the Depression Guide on 7 Cups of Tea’s website. You can also talk to someone about your experience of depression by requesting to chat with one of our listeners.Millions of people suffer from depression everyday? [https://www.7cups.com/what-does-depression-feel-like/] How do I know if I'm depressed or if I'm just sad? [http://www.7cups.com/qa-depression-3/im-sad-or-im-depressed-how-do-i-know-650/] -  Forgiveness [https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/forgiveness] -  How to Get Help [https://www.safehelpline.org/how-to-get-help.cfm] -  Key To a Happier Future [https://positivepsychologyprogram.com/forgiveness/] -  Letting go of grudges and bitterness [https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/forgiveness/art-20047692] -  Minors Legal Questions and Answers [https://answers.uslegal.com/minors]   Panic Attacks -  10 Ways to Stop a Panic Attack [https://www.everydayhealth.com/columns/therese-borchard-sanity-break/ways-stop-panic-attack/?slot=2&xid=nl_EHNLemohealth_2018-08-29&utm_source=Newsletters&utm_content=2018-08-29&utm_campaign=Mental%20Health%20and%20Mood%20Disorders&eh_uid=20175999] -  Psychology and its practice [http://www.guidetopsychology.com/forgive.htm] -  Psychologytoday [https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/forgiveness] -  What Does the Bible Say [https://www.thoughtco.com/what-does-the-bible-say-about-forgiveness-701968] -  Guide to Women's Self Defense and Self Protection [https://www.datehookup.com/singles-content-a-free-guide-to-womens-self-defense-and-self-protection.htm] -  Healing Self-Hate [http://www.cyquest.com/pathway/healing_self_hate.html] -  Healthy Relationships, Sexuality and Disability [http://www.mass.gov/eohhs/docs/dph/com-health/prevention/hrhs-sexuality-and-disability-resource-guide.pdf] -  Help with your sex life [https://www.relate.org.uk/relationship-help/help-sex] -  How to help a friend who is being abused [https://www.womenshealth.gov/relationships-and-safety/get-help/how-help-friend] -  Instant Self-Denfense [http://www.ashidakim.com/isd.pdf] -  Self Help Resources [https://www.mentalhealth.va.gov/self_help.asp] -  Womens Health [https://www.womenshealth.gov/mental-health/hotlines/] -  MentalHelp - Comprehensive Mental Health and Mental Illness information on topics like Depression, Bipolar, Suicide, Anxiety, Addiction, Schizophrenia, and more. [https://www.mentalhelp.net/articles/self-soothing-techniques-distraction/] -  Mindfulness meditation [https://search.yahoo.com/search;_ylt=A0SO81Aoymda1mcAfQJXNyoA;_ylc=X1MDMjc2NjY3OQRfcgMyBGZyA21jYWZlZQRncHJpZANoTkp0dzJCR1I3aXd1emx6emVka3FBBG5fcnNsdAMwBG5fc3VnZwM5BG9yaWdpbgNzZWFyY2gueWFob28uY29tBHBvcwMwBHBxc3RyAwRwcXN0cmwDMARxc3RybAMzNgRxdWVyeQNtaW5kZnVsbmVzcyUyMG1lZGl0YXRpb24lMjBleGVyY2lzZXMEdF9zdG1wAzE1MTY3NTE0NjA-?p=mindfulness+meditation+exercises&fr2=sb-top&fr=mcafee&type=C211US0D20171208] -  A Bad Dream Is More Than Just A Dream: The Science Of Nightmares [http://www.medicaldaily.com/bad-dream-more-just-dream-science-nightmares-327586] -  Adult nightmares [https://www.webmd.com/sleep-disorders/guide/nightmares-in-adults] -  Causes and facts [https://www.medicinenet.com/nightmares/article.htm] -  How can you interpret dreams [https://www.reference.com/world-view/can-interpret-dreams-a4efcf28e723efd?aq=causes+nightmares&qo=similarQuestions] -  Research and Treatments [https://www.sleepassociation.org/patients-general-public/nightmares/] -  Prevent nightmares [https://www.reference.com/world-view/ways-prevent-nightmares-a6c74bafdfe2d023?aq=causes+nightmares&qo=similarQuestions] -  Psychologytoday [https://www.psychologytoday.com/conditions/nightmares] -  Sleep Disorders [https://oregon.providence.org/our-services/p/providence-sleep-disorders-centers/?utm_campaign=WP+%7C+G+%7C+S+%7C+Non-Brand+%7C+Sleep+Health+%7C+General&utm_term=sleep+disorder&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&cro=&gclid=CjwKCAiA15vTBRAHEiwA7Snfc5x1awmBEGftvxLesQsZxtM2bIYVQaRgxTn1H1LgfwvX0K0QSMQyvxoCVG0QAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds&dclid=CN6vob3X79gCFT_J4wcdK8wGeQ] -  Sleep Education [http://www.sleepeducation.org/sleep-disorders-by-category/parasomnias/nightmares/overview] -  Parents & Teachers: Tips & Advice for Talking to Teens About Sex [http://www.pamf.org/parenting-teens/sexuality/talking-about-sex/sex-talk.html] -  PTSD: National Center for PTSD [https://www.ptsd.va.gov/professional/trauma/war/military-sexual-trauma.asp] -  Women and PTSD [http://ptsdtreatmenthelp.com/women-and-ptsd] -  Child sexual abuse [https://www.aacap.org/AACAP/Families_and_Youth/Facts_for_Families/Facts_for_Families_Pages/Child_Sexual_Abuse_09.aspx] -  Dealing with Rape [https://dealingwithrape.com/] -  How to Prevent a Potential Rape [https://www.wikihow.com/Prevent-a-Potential-Rape] -  Help after rape and sexual assault [https://www.nhs.uk/livewell/sexualhealth/pages/sexualassault.aspx] -  If your child is raped [http://kidshealth.org/en/parents/rape.html] -  http://www.sarsas.org.uk/self-help-guides/ -  https://www.helpguide.org/articles/ptsd-trauma/recovering-from-rape-and-sexual-trauma.htm -  Medical Examination of the Rape Victim [http://www.merckmanuals.com/professional/gynecology-and-obstetrics/domestic-violence-and-rape/medical-examination-of-the-rape-victim] -  Raiin [https://www.rainn.org/] -  Rape Victims Prone to Suicide [http://www.suicide.org/rape-victims-prone-to-suicide.html] -  Sex, Sexuality, and Sexual Disorders [https://psychcentral.com/sex/] -  Sexual Assault Survivor's Guide [http://www.csbsju.edu/chp/sexual-assault-survivors-guide] -  Sexual Misconduct Law and Legal Definition [https://definitions.uslegal.com/s/sexual-misconduct] -  Statutory Rape: A guide to state laws and reporting requirements [https://aspe.hhs.gov/report/statutory-rape-guide-state-laws-and-reporting-requirements] -  Survivors Chat [http://www.survivorschat.com/] -  Things Not to Say to a Survivor of a Sexual Crime [http://www.hopeforhealing.org/not.html] -  What is Sexual Violence [http://www.mncasa.org/what-is-sexual-violence] -  Recovering Your Mental Health [https://store.samhsa.gov/product/Recovering-Your-Mental-Health-A-Self-Help-Guide/SMA-3504] -  How Can I Satisfy My Sexual Desire If I’m Destined For Singleness [http://purefreedom.org/single-desire] Read the book5 love languages [http://www.5lovelanguages.com/]and then discuss it -  Setting boundaries [https://www.ipfw.edu/affiliates/assistance/selfhelp/relationship-settingboundaries.html] -  Understanding Ourselves and Our Relationships [http://www.psychologicalselfhelp.org/Chapter9.pdf] -  https://www.rainn.org/articles/self-care-after-trauma -  Self Growth [http://www.selfgrowth.com/] -  Self Injury outreach and support [https://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/guide/sex-therapy-counseling#1] -  Self-Soothing Techniques: Distraction [https://www.mentalhelp.net/articles/self-soothing-techniques-distraction/] -  Sex Addicts Anonymous [https://saa-recovery.org/] -  Sex Therapy [https://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/guide/sex-therapy-counseling#1] -  Social Anxiety [https://www.anxietybc.com/sites/default/files/adult_hmsocial.pdf] -  Taking Care of YOU: Self-Care for Family Caregivers [https://www.caregiver.org/taking-care-you-self-care-family-caregivers] -  Teaching kids consent ages 1-21 [https://everydayfeminism.com/2013/03/teaching-kids-consent-ages-1-21/] -  Teen Health [http://teenshealth.org/en/teens/your-mind/] -  Therapy Worksheets and Handouts [https://www.pinterest.com/amandababb/therapy-worksheets-and-handouts/] -  Trauma Self-Help Books & Workbooks [http://www.trauma-pages.com/s/wrkbks.php] -  Why do men rape women [https://www.2knowmyself.com/why_do_men_rape_women] -  Women self defense [http://www.womensselfdefense-seps.com/]
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amazingNutella24
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Retired Ambassador Sorry, I'm currently not able to take any chat requests from members. Please feel free to connect to the other amazing listeners on this platform, please find one here! [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]   💜         Hey hey, everyone 💜 I'm Nutella (Or Nuts, Catella, Nute, Ella, Nutty, Amazing - Courtesy of our creative community, haha! And literally anything you'd like to call me). I'm a Chatroom Ambassador on 7Cups! Here are the Projects I'm involved with as a Chatroom Ambassador. Feel free to message me if you have any queries 💜   1. Listener Sharing Circle (LSC) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSharingCircles_2133/HostsWantedForListenerSharingCircle_257571/] 2. Listener Check-In (LCI) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerCheckIns_1272/HostsWantedForListenerCheckins_250689/] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerCheckIns_1272/HostsWantedForListenerCheckins_250689/] 3. Listener Events Team (LET) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ListenerEventsTeamComeJoinUs_260289/] 4. Listener Learning Discussions Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerLearningDiscussions_1896/ListenerLearningDiscussionsTeamRecruitment2021_222848/]  5. Listener Chatroom Supporter [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdS4uNP9soxCNNvOSAAQV4kz4mzaf5CPXqXT1yIgsNFyVdkDQ/viewform] 6. Chatroom Mentor [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc0BVb_I0BnjwfpKw0tOcB4_q7ST8x2ACGkfnQqgNEam34qxg/viewform] 7. Chatroom Mentor Leader [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfaX5Kxr13VYpbGtWbNItePUMt1nx9SAPC57J0szbhVG1naUg/viewform] 8. Chat Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ChatSupport_101/ChatSupporttrainingisnowCompulsoryforMentorsofAllTracks_268257/] 9. Listener Powered Discussions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/AllAbouttheListenerPoweredCommunityDiscussions_270095/] Here are a few more projects I'm a part of 💜 1. Quality Mentor 2. Safety Patrol Team 3. Safety Patrol Outreach Team 4. Peer Supporter 5. Doorkeeper 6. Forum Key 7. Listener Verifier Team A bit about me! I study medicine and I love reading and writing. Oh and I'm very passionate about genetics and genomics. Please note that I'm unable to provide any advice, medical or otherwise 💜         Due to the huge influx of private messages, I sometimes miss out on a few, my apologies. So please don’t hesitate to drop me another message if I haven't replied 💜           Just a quote I love and relate to - “In your books, I have flung myself into the bottomless pit, performed miracles, slain, burned towns, preached new religions, conquered whole kingdoms” ― Anton Chekhov, The Bet             I'm always a PM away for absolutely anything! Good day 💜
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Suryansh
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 I am presently not taking any new member chats. Feel free to search for other listeners from HERE [/BrowseListeners]. Thank You for understanding me. On-Break: I'm taking complete break from 7 Cups until May 28, 2024. During my break, for anything related to Chat Support and Chatroom Mentor/Teen Star projects, you can contact other Chatroom Leaders, namely, @hopedreamlove, @EmmaE or @ASilentObserver, and for anything related to Group Support Projects, feel free to contact @ASilentObserver. When I return, I'll resume my roles and responsibilities. Thank you for your understanding!  Hello Hello! Welcome to my profile page, thanks for visiting. I am Suryansh, or Surya, a young man from India. My time zone is IST (Indian Standard Time). My favourite subject is Physics. I really enjoy listening to music, watching series shows and tech movies, traveling, and getting to know our world and its history. I like coffee, and I am fond of writing and reading thoughts and quotes. After a few years, I aim to join the Indian Administrative Service, serve the nation, and continue listening and supporting people. I am a trained, verified listener here on 7 Cups. I like listening to people and supporting them with whatever they are going through. I believe that everyone deserves to be heard and understood. I cannot solve your problems, but I assure you that I will provide you with a safe listening ear and support you. Your feelings are absolutely valid, and I vow to you that I will never judge you. I would appreciate receiving ratings and reviews, as they help me improve, learn, and grow. I greatly believe in respect, patience, and kindness, which I will always embody in our conversation, and I would greatly appreciate it if I received the same attitude as mine back from the other person. I substantially care about you! I am available from Monday to Friday; weekends are days off from 7 Cups for me as I practice Self-Care on these days. We all deserve to have some me-time to care for ourselves. My general response time is within 2–3 days. If I am unavailable or offline, you are so welcome to leave me a message, and I will try to respond as soon as possible. I have some triggers that make me feel uncomfortable in chat. Please avoid sending one-word messages involving 'okay', 'k', 'huh', 'heh', ok', 'oh', 'ah' and 'hmm'. I would appreciate your understanding nature toward me. My Involvement in 7 Cups Group Support & Chatroom Ambassador  As a Group Support Ambassador, my focus area includes Group Support Leadership, Engagement and Quality Aspects of the rooms. As a Chatroom Ambassador, my focus area includes complete management of the Chat Support Team. I also assist with Chatroom Mentor/Teen Star applications & onboarding processes. Global Community Mentor As a Global Community Mentor, I moderate the forums and take steps towards building engagement in the sub-communities with various types of activities. I can edit, delete, or transfer any forum post/thread from any sub-community. Forum Moderator/Forum Flag Team Member As a Forum Moderator/Forum Flag Team Member, I take steps to keep the forums clean and free of toxicity. I am allowed to review flagged posts, approve, edit, or delete them, according to the community's forum guidelines. Listener Verifier As a Listener Verifier, I can conduct mock chats or grade forms, in order to verify listeners, based on their Active Listening skills.  Global Moderator As a Global Moderator, I have moderation (Mod) access in all the member group support rooms. I moderate the rooms to keep them a safe place for everyone and maintain a supportive environment in the rooms. Safety Patrol As a Safety Patrol, I flag inappropriate profiles on 7 Cups, to help maintain the community guidelines, and with the ultimate aim of maintaining a positive and appropriate environment in the community.  Chat Support As a Chat Supporter, I provide support to our listeners through ongoing chat. Peer Support As a Peer Supporter, I provide support to our listeners after a hard/difficult chat. Doorkeeper As a Doorkeeper, I can open or close any room on 7 Cups.  You are always welcome to drop me a message if you would like to get any information, want any room to be closed or opened, or just have a casual chat. I reassure you that you will be provided with a safe and non-judgmental environment to have a chat with me. Thank you for visiting my profile.  Congratulations! You have reached the end. I have a cup of coffee for you HERE [https://thumbs.gfycat.com/BonyDecentChameleon-max-1mb.gif]. Thank You :)
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soulsings
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Sorry if you are a member or guest looking to chat, I am not currently accepting new personal requests for chats. You can browse for a listener. https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ . You may also find these helpful https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php     https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php Some people find that mindfulness helps them cope. The video Resource Library https://www.7cups.com/forum/mindfulness/ResourceLibrary_1062/2016presentMindfulnessVideos_72071/ If you might consider a paid text therapy on 7cups, then this may be of interest https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/General_2432/ExcitingNewFeaturefor7CupsOnlineTherapyandCoaching_319430/ The other resource is various therapy topics  https://www.7cups.com/experts/catalog/topics/ All the best to you. Again sorry I cannot help you but my personal workload does not allow openings for that at this time.  
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