Should I stay at a job that I hate?
warmWaterfall22
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Apr 21, 2017
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That's a hard question. Sometimes we stay in a job because of the benefits or other responsibilities. However, you can look for another job that provides the same benefits. If you hate something that badly about your life, you need to do something to change it.
Anonymous
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Apr 24, 2017
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I would not stay at a job I hate, which doesn't mean leave the job I hate tomorrow without having a plan "B", another job that I will take the time to choose wisely. Since work can almost count for 1/3 of your life, if it makes you feel hatred, sooner or later it will affect the other two-thirds of your life. That's why your goal is more than money, it's happiness. Happiness is the key. As soon as you are ready to make concessions in order to find balance between all spheres of your life, you will successfully achieve it.
Anonymous
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Apr 27, 2017
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The main thing in life is to do what makes you happy of course. With barely any experience in this area I would express to someone with this barrier to look around your daily essential needs and evaluate your options in a simple form, and not just leave without second thought as you most likely don't need the added stress & pressure of having no income. Don't worry about the personal opinion or what people think if you are a person who finds yourself in that thought bubble sometimes, if it does comes to leaving. Again it's what makes you settled and happy. Look into resources, online, applications and actually go and explore what is around you in your community & town. Expand your perspective by doing so and speak to people. (Word by mouth is always a positive when it comes to work, express your skills!) You will have a higher chance at finding the occupation that you feel is right for you. Do what you love & enjoy, follow your dreams!
liludallas
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May 26, 2017
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There might be two ways to cope with a job you hate. Or more. But two main ones as I see it.
1. Find a better job and leave.
2, Stay and learn to love it
Both require tolerating your circumstances for a shorter or longer time.
#1 requires a lot of research in what you want to do, maybe building new skills, or maybe just applying to new positions.
#2 requires more of inner work, learning to find things to love, even when at first it seems that there are none. it might be quite an interesting discovery of yourself and ways to adjust to complex situations.
it all depends on many factors. there is no right or wrong, and no one can really tell you whether you should stay or leave. it is something you decide for yourself.
FeriWitch
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Jun 4, 2017
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Entire career books have been written for that question. It's scary to consider leaving a job, even if you don't like it. And you may not have the financial option to leave.
If someone at the job is actively abusive to you, or the job is dangerous to your health, especially in ways that are illegal, you should strongly consider leaving, especially if you have the resources to do so safely. If, however, you just hate the work or don't get along with your coworkers or your boss seems to "have it in for you," it's less obvious what you should do.
Are there parts of the job you like? Can you focus on how you like those, and spend less of your personal energy on the other parts, even if they take up more of your day? Can you put a limit on your job - "I will work until X happens, and then leave," whether X is getting a promotion or finding a new job? Are there things you could change, that would make the job less unpleasant? If there aren't, what things that are outside of your power could make you ok with the job?
If the job doesn't change, in three years, would you be more likely to be kicking yourself for staying, or for leaving, and walking away from whatever income and opportunities it currently has? The answer may not bring you a definitive "yes I should stay" or "I should leave tomorrow," but it may help you sort out what to consider while you decide.
KaringKat22
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Jun 8, 2017
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In my experience, I would say no, simply because any amount of money is not worth being unhappy. To me, I would much rather adore my job and make a little less money than another job.
adaptiveSunrise22
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Jun 28, 2017
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Yes and no. Try looking for better jobs while still working the hated job. Also, try to make time for other things in your life that you do enjoy, such as volunteering, education, or hobbies. Perhaps there is a perfect job out there that you will love, going out and doing these fun, productive activities may help you find it. Improve yourself and expand your social network to help find that perfect job in the future. In the meantime, remember, not everyone loves their job. It's ok to hate your job. Make the rest of your life fulfilling and your job won't matter so much.
Anonymous
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Jul 7, 2017
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No, life is way to short. Start looking for other jobs. If you're really unhappy, I'm sure you can find something else.
BeenThereTu
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Jul 21, 2017
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Many people feel compelled to remain at jobs that they despise because money is needed to pay bills. The problem becomes when people end up remaining at the job they hate, feeling like the idea of moving to a fulfilling job is beyond their reach. I think it's very important to enjoy the vocation or job that you choose to do. When you enjoy your job or business, you put your energy and passion into it and do it well.
creativeBlanket12
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Jul 26, 2017
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I am a great fan of lists. Making a list of what you love and hate about a job can help identify what kind of jobs you might like to try. It is not always possible to take time out from working, money is needed to live, so making the most of opportunities offered for personal and professional development in your job can help you gain the skills needed to move to something you would like to try. If there is something particular you find in your list that is making you hate your job, what is it and why does it make you feel that way? Is it possible to address that issue within your job? Is it a person or a characteristic of the job? Is it the commute? Is there anything you feel you could do to help improve the job you are in while you look for another? Have you considered taking a free online course, for example on Coursera or similar platforms- they can help you explore new domains in your free time to see what you enjoy.
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