Should I stay at a job that I hate?
Anonymous
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Jan 22, 2020
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I know this situation far too well. I've worked at my workplace too long and am stagnant - not learning anything new, or growing in any way whatsoever. The social environment between a lot of my coworkers is toxic as well. However, I have to stay because of the money. That being said, I was able to reduce my shifts and can say that less contact with that place has done me wonders. In my opinion, if you can afford to leave your job and find another one relatively quickly, I would do it. It is not worth the damage to your mental health that comes with showing up to a place you dread. If it feels like you are unable to leave your job, look for other options just in case - maybe you're missing another opportunity. I'm working on changing my situation and giving myself alternatives right now. You can do it too!
Angell
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Feb 7, 2020
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1.Do you have any other alternative opportunity or option to take up if you let go of the job?
2.Why do you hate your job? 'if' it pays good, are there things that you could change a bit and you would be okay with the job without changing it?
3. Do you need the job or are you doing it out of any other reason? If you need it, will you be able to easily get another job with a good payment option to fulfil your needs and requirements?
Just some questions you should consider. Doing a job you hate must have multiple reasons, I would suggest you decide what your priorities are regarding taking up the job and doing it for as long as you have done it. and if you have options and better arrangements to do you can definitely leave the job. But remember if it is about starting a new thing or something it will require time and efforts and if you are sure yo can give that then surely you can go for it.
hope this was helpful.
Jing2010
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Feb 14, 2020
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Until you find a better job, yes. As soon as you find another job, bid the horrific one goodbye and start your new adventure. Leaving a job without having one lined up is setting yourself up for depression and anxiety as you receive all the rejections that usually go along with searching for a new job.
Definitely look for a new one though, because it isn't worth being miserable. You owe it to yourself, your coworkers, your family, and even the people you currently work for to move on. When you do find the job that you love doing, you will probably look back and see why that former job you hated was needed to get you where you are.
OnceEveryDay
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Feb 15, 2020
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There's no reason in the world not to look around! Polish up a resume, search online, consider all options. Would you move for a job? Is the benefit of a change greater than a fear of taking that leap? Even if you don't find the job that you want in your area, or you don't find the salary you need to justify that change, you'll know where you stand, and you'll know that the job you're doing is the best option or best-paying "for right now," and nothing stops you from looking around at the options again a month later.
kindDreamer9743
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Feb 22, 2020
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It's probably not the best option to stay in a job you hate as this can lead to other complications such as stress anxiety and depression (speaking from experience) your quality of life will deminsh and so will your self esteem. Lets face it there's hardly a job out there that gives 100% satisfaction but it doesn't stop you from looking elsewhere to better yourself either monetary wise or health wise if you drop lucky you get both! The best thing to do is continue to work there whilst you press on looking for your next move and just imagine the day you hand in your resignation on move on!
bellarina74
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Feb 22, 2020
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Staying in a job you hate is the beginning of the end. Ultimately, you spend too much time in the work place to not enjoy your chosen profession. Not enjoying your work can lead to you not caring about what you are doing, taking leave days unnecessarily and being resentful to your coworkers and your superiors. Being honest with yourself and knowing what you want to do or be in your working life is so important as there are a lot of working years ahead of you. If you are unhappy there are options to either change jobs or do some training in what you are really interested in.
queenofmeowtown
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Mar 4, 2020
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It depends! I think people are quick to say "quit your job if you hate it" but sometimes there are other factors to consider. For example, I wouldn't recommend quitting without another job lined up because not knowing where your next paycheck will come from can be seriously stressful if you have financial responsibility. At the same time, if you are being treated badly or abused, that's a completely different story. In most cases, the best approach is to quietly look for a new job while continuing to work your current job. It can take some time to make progress on this but it's the safest route. Be careful not to let your current employers know that you're looking for something else as it can make things worse at work. Ultimately if you're unhappy at work, it's the place you spend the most time, so if there's something you can do to improve things for yourself, it's worthwhile.
JacoEM
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Apr 17, 2020
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Ideally, not. But sometimes the answer is not that easy. If you are struggling financially or other people depend on your income a more measure approach may be needed. First, try to identify why you hate it and see if there's anything on your possibilities to change it. Second, evaluate if this is a temporary hate or is truly something that won't be gone, sometimes some holidays or a switch in the routine helps. Now, as for the change, it could be worth evaluating if there's a possible movement within the company to another department that does not have what you hate. Or if it is about the whole company, you may want to lock down a job somewhere else before quitting. Lastly, if you really hate it and your true purpose is somewhere else something different is implied. If you know that purpose, then it may be a question of how to get there. If you don't have one, well, it may be time to start exploring other worlds. At the end, don't stick to a job you hate unless it is for survival, but remember that no work is a paradise and you'll have to deal with something on each one.
Anonymous
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Apr 23, 2020
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I think you should not stay at the job you hate, because that’s not you. You shouldn’t do something you don’t like. Also, if you really need the money stick with it, but also try and look for a new job. A new job, a job that you like, will make you happier. It will make your day better. Don’t stick with a job you hate. Life is about living and being positive. I don’t think I could do that with a job I hate. So a new fun, like able job would be what I would do, to brighten my future.
Anonymous
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May 1, 2020
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I would find a job you are content with while working at your old job. This will secure you in still having a job while working at the one you hate. Just make sure the job you find pays greater or equal than to your last job. If you find finding another job that is difficult, maybe ask yourself why do you hate your job? And find ways to make it a better place to work. Listen to your coworkers, find similarities rather than differences. You might find things out that may catch your interests and build new friendships.
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